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So the other day my mother calls me and says I don’t call her enough. She insists, that me, a grown man needs to call her more frequently…. Regardless of everything that ever happened in the past.
The main issue with women is that they are never the problem. Nothing is ever their fault. She blames my father for all her problems, but when ever I asked her why she decided to marry him she never has an actual explanation.
I honestly do love her. She’s a strong woman. But that doesn’t mean I will to bend to her every demand. After being red pilled and finding mgtow, I realize how feminist she was. She raised me like a good little feminist would. My father was present but his b~~~~ were in her purse.
After 20 years of staying together “for the kids” he finally dipped out. She claims she divorced him lol. He just left and decided to never come back. She got everything. He didn’t care.
My Dad and I can’t even be in the same room with how much we disagree with each other, but seeing how he was treated my entire upbringing…. I didn’t know any better back then, I was blue pilled. Feminism cucked my dad and I don’t even think he’ll ever understand it.
I told my mother that I will call her or text her when I have time and am not busy, but will not bend to her unilateral agreements just because I’m her “son.”
The audacity of women to think they can control their children simply because “I’m your mother.”
The phrase “respect your elders” has been rendered to garbage. Respect is earned, not given, not handed out.
I appreciate my parents for feeding me and not Raping or abusing me, and have let them know this, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to act blind to how horrible a job they did at raising us.
Being a parent is not easy, which is why I’ll never be one.
Her trying to shame me for not calling her when she wants will only get me to call her less and less. I don’t think she realizes how petty she sounds.
This white Knight “love your mother at all costs” bulls~~~ needs to stop. Parents, when they did s~~~ty parenting, need to be held accountable for their actions. Kids, you’re not doing your parents a service by ignoring how s~~~ty they raised you.
I’ve already forgiven my parents for all the bulls~~~ they did, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to be all buddy buddy with them as if nothing ever happened. That’s delusional. Sadly most feminst rhetoric is delusional and too many women think that any bulls~~~ they pulled in the past shouldn’t matter right now with how they get treated.
Just wanted to get this off my chest. My mother, I love her, but she did my dad dirty and is basically a c~~~. If you’re the kind of guy who thinks your parents deserve to not be held accountable for how f~~~ed up their kids turned out, then you’re part of the problem.
The hippie baby boomer generation is literally the main cause of all our current economic problems. Turning a blind eye to this s~~~ is the main reason why we’re all here right now. Unconditional love is only allowed for women by the status quo.
I’m here to say, enough is enough
mothers can be very manipulative, mine included. I keep mine at an arm’s length although she is essentially a good woman. I don’t think she has ever cheated on my father although after becoming red pilled, I have doubt about everything. Neither him or her deserve my complete respect. They were a nightmare when I was growing up and fought constantly. It was very traumatic and I have terrible emotional scars from this. They both have admitted to their failure in this regard, but essentially we don’t talk about it anymore. I forgave but did not forget. I can’t forget. How can you forget these terrible memories that are ingrained in the mind? nevertheless, someday they will be gone and we will wonder what would have been if we all had a better relationship with one another. For me, that ship has sailed, unfortunately.
God bless peace and freedom.
Why? BECOUSE SHE IS A WAMEN.
my mother had a lot of pretenders, who she choose?
A jerk with 3 failed marriages, 3 kids one from each, a f~~~ing manwhore.
Jesus women do you have s~~~ for brains?
To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
One thing i learned .
SINGLE MOTHERS TREAT THERE SON’S AS HUSBANDS .
Good on ya for waking up to the bulls~~~ . Many will not and go on beleaving mummy is a victim .
My sister classic post wall c~~~ . Told her sons that there dad raped her at the end of the marriage(total bulls~~~) . One of her sons wanted to find his dad and came asking me and my dad about his dad . We told him the truth , everything . We haven’t seen him since .
I seen these chicks a couple of years ago with a dv information desk in a shopping center . Got her talking . She was from a single mother with 4 kids to all different dads . I asked why all of the dads were not around , lmfao . 18 year old dumb bitch . Hopefully she went home and asked mum .
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
One thing i learned .
SINGLE MOTHERS TREAT THERE SON’S AS HUSBANDS .
Good on ya for waking up to the bulls~~~ . Many will not and go on beleaving mummy is a victim .
My sister classic post wall c~~~ . Told her sons that there dad raped her at the end of the marriage(total bulls~~~) . One of her sons wanted to find his dad and came asking me and my dad about his dad . We told him the truth , everything . We haven’t seen him since .
I seen these chicks a couple of years ago with a dv information desk in a shopping center . Got her talking . She was from a single mother with 4 kids to all different dads . I asked why all of the dads were not around , lmfao . 18 year old dumb bitch . Hopefully she went home and asked mum .Yup, when they are single, they do. And if they marry a new guy, whatever inheritance you may have from them, is f~~~ed. Even if they are shacked up with a guy, she may decide he gets some of her assets, even though the son’s been there her whole life. Really f~~~ing great.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
One thing i learned .
SINGLE MOTHERS TREAT THERE SON’S AS HUSBANDS .You are SPOT ON. After I divorced the Selfish One she began making demands of my son to do her bidding. She isn’t even nice about it when she needs him to do something. BINGO – She speaks to him like she did me.
It really hasn’t sunk in that I don’t have to do s~~~ for her anymore.
Damn bitch even asked me to fix the brakes on the SUV I gave her after we divorced! WTFThe main issue with women is that they are never the problem. Nothing is ever their fault.
My mother was like that. Never, not once in her whole life, did she accept responsibility for anything. Everything was someone else’s fault.
This white Knight “love your mother at all costs” bulls~~~ needs to stop. Parents, when they did s~~~ty parenting, need to be held accountable for their actions.
Yes.
It’s okay to hate your parents. If they were no good, then say it and don’t feel guilty for feeling that way.
I was going to post this on Reddit but too many lurkers on that mgtow sub will come out with the “that’s your mom bro” bulls~~~.
You can’t call women feminist c~~~s without assessing your own family situation. I have one post wall sister who followed in my mom’s feminist shoes. She has a daughter with a dead beat Chad (dude has kids already, was cheating on her etc), she’s over weight, works over 50 hours a week, her daughter is a latch key kid with tons of emotional issues (gee I wonder why) and my mom resents her for always having to baby sit. They constantly argue over useless bulls~~~. Feminism in a nutshell.
My other sister is the complete opposite. She married a guy who’s super religious, but he basically runs a very patriarchal household and my sister is submissive to it. She loves it and takes care of her son like a champ.
If my father actually had b~~~~ he would have never put himself in this situation. I wouldn’t be here right now, but who f~~~ing cares. I’m the product of a man who didn’t have a plan or a vision. The amount of kids who come into this world under those same circumstances is too damn high.
I don’t resent them for what they did. But will certainly not forget. I wouldn’t put my worst enemy through the s~~~ I dealt with under that household.
It’s always those parents who worry about being left alone, dying alone, who deserve to suffer in their own misery.
I’m more than content to be on my own. The status quo loves to push “Thanksgiving dinner with the family” but it’s all bulls~~~, designed to get us to spend and pay for over inflated plane tickets.
I even told my mother, there’s zero difference in calling her to say happy new year vs calling her on a non holiday.
I’m done with this “it’s a special day so you should call me” bulls~~~. If I don’t have anything to say to you at the time I’m not going to call you or try to strike up a conversation.
I don’t give a f~~~ if you’re blood or not.
My mother died a few weeks ago.
Growing up, by and large she was an excellent parent but about ten years ago she did some horrible things to me and betrayed the sacred parent/child relationship forever.
I did not visit her in hospital when she died, nor did I attend her funeral.
I actually ghosted her after she did those terrible things to me and was just ‘going though the motions’ of a relationship with her ever since.
Now that she is gone, I don’t miss her nor do I hate her – I’ve just moved on with my life.
And although she was a good provider, she brought a tremendous amount of toxicity into my life.
If I had a time machine I would have ghosted her decades ago.
There is no place in your life for toxic people – even if they are family.
The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau
(f~~~, not sure how to reply to individual comments on here lol)
So true. I’ve been bashed on relentlessly before for saying s~~~ like this from my own family members. Pretty much the same reason why I choose to keep my distance.
Some families help you grow. Others act like parasites and just take take take for their own self gain. My mothers feminist tendencies only taught me vanity and selfishness. It took alot to reverse all that toxicity.
Now I’m basically a minimalist who hasn’t bought a new pair of jeans in over 10 years and loves to save money. When I die my money is going to the most random low key charity or just nack to the government.
I’m pretty much probably going to go this route (not attend the funeral). I’ve made my peace with them in my heart and will not be visiting them again. You’re already dead to me the moment I see you trying to manipulate for your own personal gain. Family or not I’ve always been a fair and balanced unbias guy lol
The more I come to terms with all this the more I see how easily avoidable it all could have been.
And yes, I should have done this straight out of high school lol
My mother’s only sign of introspection (guilt?) was in the ICU, when she managed to whisper “was I a bad mother?”.
Me: “Yep”
It was so good to finally have an honest conversation.
It took a lot to reverse all that toxicity.
Yes.
It took me decades to understand this.
My mother’s only sign of introspection (guilt?) was in the ICU, when she managed to whisper “was I a bad mother?”.
Me: “Yep”
It was so good to finally have an honest conversation.BOOM! Thanks – That made me chuckle. I’ve had such a s~~~ty day, I needed a laugh.
Oh, but my s~~~ty day FREE is still way better than a “good day” when I was on the plantation.
SINGLE MOTHERS TREAT THERE SON’S AS HUSBANDS .
My father died before my mother. Since then my mother treats me and my younger brother like a substitute husband. Every week she is calling one of us to fix, update or gather information on something that more often than not, is not very important. It never ends with her and for many years I felt obligated to put up with her needy bulls~~~. I felt that because it was “family” and “dad would want it that way” that I had to do what she asked. Two years ago I started seeing things a different way and I would find myself getting very short with my mother. She now calls my brother to do more stuff. At first I was feeling guilty as if I was turning my back on my mother but then I realized that whenever my mom needs me for something, I am there if it’s a health issue a safety issue or a money issue. The rest can wait and if she can’t accept that then my brother can handle it. I have better things to do than be her personal plantation slave simply because she feels her curtain rod needs a support arm or she decides her living room needs painted because that’s what she wants.
I have also noticed this phenom with other moms who become single via husband’s death. I know one woman whose husband passed in a motorcycle accident and she relies on the boyfriend of her oldest daughter to do everything a typical husbank is expected to do. I feel bad for the guy because he is f~~~ed in the worst way. Oldest daughter had his child and they are getting married. Dude is f~~~ed to the tenth degree. I’ve tried to drop some red pills his way but he feels obligated and wants to be in his son’s life. I respect that.Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.
Another issue is that as men who are going through this growing up…. We think we caused it. We’re always trying to fix it, create a solution… And women know that we do this and they use it against us to their advantage.
Shaming men into doing their selfish deeds for them has been what I grew up in. It was never about our hobbies or interests. If it didn’t have to do with them it was useless. If I ever had kids I’d home school them. Schools today are literally garbage, Marxist/communist rhetoric and parents today who allow their kids to continue to participate in that s~~~… God have mercy on your soul….they will hate you down the line because that’s all feminism/communist rhetoric teaches. How to hate yourself and how to hate others.
MGTOW are like monks… With weapons. Lots of weapons. We are at peace with ourselves. It took some time to get there but we are content with being alone and giving zero f~~~s.
We are compassionate with those who reciprocate, but we are stern and will not tolerate s~~~ty behavior. This takes time to master but I’ll take it any day over staying blue pill” It never ends with her and for many years I felt obligated to put up with her needy bulls~~~. I felt that because it was “family” and “dad would want it that way” that I had to do what she asked. Two years ago I started seeing things a different way and I would find myself getting very short with my mother. She now calls my brother to do more stuff. At first I was feeling guilty as if I was turning my back on my mother but then I realized that whenever my mom needs me for something, I am there if it’s a health issue a safety issue or a money issue. The rest can wait and if she can’t accept that then my brother can handle it. I have better things to do than be her personal plantation slave simply because she feels her curtain rod needs a support arm or she decides her living room needs painted because that’s what she wants.”
This was me last year. No more though.
SINGLE MOTHERS TREAT THERE SON’S AS HUSBANDS .
I know one woman whose husband passed in a motorcycle accident and she relies on the boyfriend of her oldest daughter to do everything a typical husbank is expected to do. I feel bad for the guy because he is f~~~ed in the worst way.
He will wake up one day, hopefully.
Whores asking for chores. I get girls batting their eyelashes and asking for things fixed, lifted, etc. My GoTo answer is, “Oh – I only that kind of stuff for someone I’m sleeping with and even then maybe not” then I smile.
I lived away from my family for 30 years then got ill and had to move back so they could help me.
My father died 15 years ago and my brother was the substitute man of the house for 13 years until his death of cancer. When he was diagnosed I stepped in to be his primary helper as I’m a cancer doc retired. He lived for 7 months but at the end didn’t even want my mother to visit him he was so angry with her.
I think his plan was for her to go and give him control of the family business, trailer parks. He put up with 13 years of her s~~~. Having to be there at all times. Having to jump when she says so, especially because she was primary in the business he worked for her.
When my brother died she tried to get me to jump into the role. I tried living with her and made it 6 months. Then her controlling feminist pushy nature drives me up the walls.
My mother was always a feminist but she feels that children are always children and the needs of the mother comes first.
It’s not like that anymore between us. For me to have peace we limit getting together to two days a week and not for too long a period. A few hours. Given her feminism my mother is not fit for companionship. She’s a monster to be around if you let her.
She knows I will bolt from her company at the first sign of her making trouble.
#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.
“I think his plan was for her to go and give him control of the family business, trailer parks. He put up with 13 years of her s~~~. Having to be there at all times. Having to jump when she says so, especially because she was primary in the business he worked for her.”
I’ve seen this sort of thing countless times. The majority of women are s~~~ for brains with business decisions. Do not expect them to be there or help. They are only good at draining profits.
Women are terrible with haggling. I was looking for another car to buy and every dealership that would call me had a female on the other line. Of the few dealerships I went to it was all men I met with in person. The women were simply making the calls to get people to show up. Even though they sounded like it was they that I would be meeting up with. F~~~ing hilarious. Don’t even get me started on the bulls~~~ dealerships embark on. C~~~ suckers all of them. The the main reason you can’t be kind to everyone on earth.
As far as health goes, I hear you man. I make sure to stay in tip top shape. I made a post about it a while back on here. But pretty much the standard American diet is killing you all slowly. I would have been in that boat too but I went carnivore over a year ago. I’m the best shape of my life.
As we’ve found with mgtow, up is down and down is up. The diet/food world is just the same. Everything we’ve been told is one big fat lie to keep us under control. Under their thumb, whether it’s the status quo or women. They utilize men as utilities. We make the world go round. Women are only along for the ride.
I’ll probably update it soon since I have more time to write again.
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