I just need to sound off

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

At 18 dollars a f~~~. With a two year relationship 4 hrs apart probably led to 4 sex sessions per month. That’s 18 x 4 = $72.00 per month times 24 months that’s. That’s 1,721 dollars for two years of steady sex.

You’re an MD, what would a two year matrimonial relationship have cost you? My attorney retainer was 10K dollars and lasted a week.

I’d send her a 20% tip which is $345.60. For the memories.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Its fun being asexual now. I literally have no sex drive now. I literally don’t give a f~~~, about f~~~ing.

That is a gift you can’t imagine.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

glad you enjoyed some sweet-crevasse while it lasted. Easy come easy go man. as the Yanks say, ‘farget about ittt’

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Sounds to me like she wants to get married and you weren’t in to it. Her clock is ticking, the wall is approaching, and she couldn’t waste any more time on you. I remember Keymaster telling stories about breaking up with a girl and she was engaged in six months to the very next guy. And it happened to him multiple times. That’s either one hell of a coincidence, or when a woman has made up her mind to get married she doesn’t care that much about who it’s to.

You wouldn’t back off your stance and she was forced to move on. She just wanted something different out of the relationship than you did.

Order the good wine

[AutoliteParticipant]

shovelheadrider wrote:

you know the deal. You expected different. Goal not met

Thanks to Eyeswideopen for starting this thread. The OP is called a ‘Reality Check’ which all of us need from time to time. It’s kinda one of the main reasons for this forum…

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

TaxGuy wrote:

Her clock is ticking, the wall is approaching, and she couldn’t waste any more time on you.

She will be back, though. After her current schemes all fail on her, she will try to monkey branch back. This is not the last @eyeswideopen has heard from this thot.

I remember Keymaster telling stories about breaking up with a girl and she was engaged in six months to the very next guy. And it happened to him multiple times.

Not just KM. But only if he dumps her, not the other way around. And even though they’re engaged or married, even though they were dumped, they all still try to keep their options open for monkey branching back. You can always expect a call back from them the moment they divorce, if not sooner.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

At 18 dollars a f~~~. With a two year relationship 4 hrs apart probably led to 4 sex sessions per month. That’s 18 x 4 = $72.00 per month times 24 months that’s. That’s 1,721 dollars for two years of steady sex.
You’re an MD, what would a two year matrimonial relationship have cost you? My attorney retainer was 10K dollars and lasted a week.
I’d send her a 20% tip which is $345.60. For the memories.

Lol, that what I was thinking today; not a bad return on my investment.
My marriage cost me $1000 just to get her to sign + 7k for the separation agreement. With the prenup, it cost me 25k for 2 years of sex once every other month. With the wedding costs (cheap wedding) that amounts to 3k/f~~~ – and s~~~ty sex at that.

I feel much better now! Guess I won afterall.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

@taxguy
Her tactic was to breakup with me, in her mind out of the blue, but I saw it coming due to the cold/hot routine. Cited reason was that she needed to “work on herself”, was a bad communicator etc.

I said that’s fine, I’m only interested in a romantic relationship and wished her well. About 36hrs later she wants to talk. Then she admits that the long distance relationship is too much for her (a valid reason for some), but is “so confused” and thinks it could work if we wanted to live together. I told her, that was not happening – in a too gentle way. Like I stated in the OP, my lust had turned into feelings but I’m never going back on the plantation. Plus us both loosing a parent factored into the “bond.”

Some sportatic communications for a few days and then I get a nasty text. I put her in her place, wished her well again, and that’s that. One week after that she is in a relationship.

Over it now; thanks guys.
If the mood strikes, Amsterdam here I come. No fuss, no muss.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

this dude looks like an looser – min wage warehouse job

Well, this guy offered her something that you won’t provide: a blue pill relationship. She’d rather deal with his drama (his ex and kids) than to have a pump & dump session with you every other weekend. I’m sorry you got caught up in this, dude, but she did provide you the kind of relationship that you originally requested (friends with benefits) until she got bored with it and moved on.

If you still like dating, why not date few women at the same time so you won’t feel dependent on one? It’s not easy, I know. Sometimes it takes time to put things into perspective.

I’m reminded about a young lady I dated when I was in my 20s. I really wanted to marry her. I would do anything for her. However, she had emotional problems and didn’t really like me that much. Now I can look at that situation and feel grateful that we are not a couple because we were incompatible. I’d be miserable if I was married to her. She’d nag me to death.

When I think about the women I’ve dated in the past, I have to remind myself that if they really wanted to maintain the relationship, they would’ve tried harder to please me. Believe me, I spent a lot of time, effort, and money to please them. Most of them just wanted to go on a date with me because they were bored. I am not bitter about it now. I have learned to accept reality as it is and make the best of it.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Professor Chaos wrote:

Hoes be trippin

And hoeing.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

TaxGuy wrote:

Sounds to me like she wants to get married and you weren’t in to it. Her clock is ticking, the wall is approaching, and she couldn’t waste any more time on you. I remember Keymaster telling stories about breaking up with a girl and she was engaged in six months to the very next guy. And it happened to him multiple times. That’s either one hell of a coincidence, or when a woman has made up her mind to get married she doesn’t care that much about who it’s to.
You wouldn’t back off your stance and she was forced to move on. She just wanted something different out of the relationship than you did.

Not to resurrect an old thread, but I’ve heard it through the grape vine that she’s now engaged to this dude. Supposedly 5 weeks after no contact and 2 months of initially ending the relationship swearing up is down that no one else was involved.

AWALT.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

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