I’ve left the plantation, and I’m never coming back. Same goes for the rest of my MGTOW brothers. You want to try to save this society, then get off your ass and do something about the problem! Feminism created this s~~~, so you all can fix it. I’m f~~~ing done. Good luck trying to get the toothpaste back in the tube!
It can’t be fixed. MGTOW brothers, I’m giving you a CLUE.
Imagine, Nostradamus saying: In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”
…Wait. He was 1503 HAHAH Piker!
Isaiah, 600(ish) years BC – Now THAT is a prediction!
Translation: We will work like a man and provide, just don’t leave us!
Isaiah 4:1 if you’re curious. If you’re curious about bible ‘prophecy’, “in that day” is the clue you use. I don’t want to get overly religious
-I just find it humorous.
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Red Pill Rage will have stages.
I would have to learn more / confer with those who know more than me, but I imagine…
A person who has been burned over 90% of their body.
They are always feeling like they’re still on fire.
Never believing it will ever end.
Having to understand the old life is gone – people will never look at them the same and they will never look at people or the world the same, understanding that the ‘love’ they thought people had was as fake as a 3 dollar bill.
Broken inside and out – and on fire, with rage, torment and suffering.
They will never look the same. They will never be the same.
This goes on and on and on. .. and. on.. and.. on… and .. and.. on… and.. and and…
One day, someday, the anger and rage needs tending to. Those flames of emotion that keep those who hurt you at bay need tending and fuel.
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BY THE WAY! (a cute turn of phrase: ‘Don’t get this twisted’) Although anger isn’t the way forward, believing ‘fairy tale’ reality is the way to get a taste of the FIRE – and hell, if you can take that again.. I want to hear from you! From a psychological standpoint, you are truly a masochist worth talking to! … I digress..
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The effort to fuel the fire that resists the world that was so comfortable to destroy you awaits with a sneer, believing that ‘resistance is futile’ and you will come around..
So you feed the fire. Feed the anger and rage, memories of past arguments and gross unfairness:
I did this because you did that. If she says X, I tell her Y. If she says B, I tell her U. She started it. I wouldn’t have done to any human being what she did to someone she claimed to love.
The circle goes around and around, unresolved, a puzzle forever unsolved, feeding a fire that takes ever more energy to keep going.
Brothers, there is a solution so we don’t waste our energy with this crap (Which I believe is the real thrust of the original post):
Imagine you’re not wrong. They’re not wrong.
Is an alligator wrong if it bites your arm off because you decide to ‘love’ it with all your heart?
Are men sleeping with snakes and alligators? Is modern culture and media proposing this should be done? Of course. Go up to someone and call them a snake or alligator.
They deny, you talk. If you’re clever, clear and articulate, you’ll finally get them to say something like, “But only if you…”
— GET THIS BROTHERS —
You don’t EARN respect from your spouse/mate.
[Take a breath. huh?] Yeah. You got that right.
..is your mind racing?
Ok. If you want to play that, (and you did, and this is what people do) then SHE has to EARN love and devotion!
..Oh s~~~! See that. Man’s job is unconditional (agape-sacrificial) love. Woman’s job is unconditional validation and respect.
It is a game of ‘chicken’. When someone doesn’t do their job, the other doesn’t. The cards are stacked against relationships working because culture doesn’t understand the ‘game’.
….[breath]
OK. Imagine: If I’m powerful, rich, etc, I have lots of people’s respect and validation, so why do I need YOURS (wife/girlfriend)? I get that from others (and sex if I want it).. So what do you bring? What they’re (women to men) SUPPOSED to bring is UNCONDITIONAL validation and respect.
The idea being that if a man falls, stumbles, etc. SHE will treat him like a superhero and he will be able to rise quickly and strong, able to soar again, providing the family structure with resources.
Easy peasy.
Now you know why men cheat. It isn’t for ‘sex’. It is for validation. Now you know why men look at porn. Validation (or imagined future [potential] validation) Sex is validation.
Ask a man : Hypothetical, You can have sex with any woman in the world, or be president for 6 months and always be called Mr President afterwards.
The answer is obvious. And many will say, yeah! cuz with that I could get unlimited…
Break this down though.. What? Unlimited ‘validation’? To test, add this to the same question above: You cannot sleep (sex) with a woman for 20 years, but every time a woman even wants to, a thought bubble appears above her head that only you can see, plus 250,000 is wired into your bank account.
HMMM!!! See! Validation (Acceptance/understanding). Respect (to be appreciated for unique attributes).
Doubt? Do a survey. Sex is simply the best/easiest form of validation. —Don’t think in absolutes. Think in percentages. Women want respect and validation. Men want security and (group) acceptance. The percentages just aren’t the same and are actually inversely correlated.
Gosh I babble.. Sorry guys.
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Note to my brothers: (so you don’t think I’m coming from a place of, ‘LET’S JUST BE FRIENDS’ as I speak of balance and such. I *still* don’t ever get to see my kids. If I THINK about it too much, the pain is out of this WORLD! I have to pay more than half my current income in child support/alimony [4,500 a month] than I currently make. I am behind. Thank GOD I am out of state. I pay what I can as I can. I never got custody or visitation. I’m ‘good enough’ to pay 4,500 a month, but not good enough to see my kids. Haven’t seen them in 2 years. Never cheated. Hit OR yelled. I’m not perfect. I DRANK (a bottle – a bottle and a half of wine over 8-10 hours 2-3 times a week during my day [work from home office – always sole earner/supporter – rich lifestyle – indoor pool kind of lifestyle], but we were conservative christians and this was a BIG no-no – she found the bottles).
This happened the last 1.5 years of an 18 year marriage, as my business began to see trouble, it was like I FELT that if I wasn’t able to make money, I would lose my wife and family. Self fulfilling prophesy? Or ‘subconscious’ insight? Who knows.
That’s it. MY BIG SIN. Big enough such that, even though I provided a lavish lifestyle, she never had to work. I was ‘off work’ every day by 5 (I worked from the home office in the 1700 SqFt ‘finished basement’ with an indoor pool – olympic length )
..Deep breath..
Don’t think (as a ‘nice guy’/simp) you could have done something better, unless that something better was 100% control and constant UPWARD trajectory with an exponential upward curve.
Being blunt:
Women want: Money (it is security to them) and Control (ability to use and count on the security).
Men want : Validation and Respect. (email if you want more info. SEX is just validation. There is no better validation than a person exposing themselves and allowing.. You get it… then of course, this becomes the ‘carrot’) It is so easy and obvious afterward. Respect is to have someone (a function of relationship dynamics) value one or more attributes above their own and/or others.
RedDawn 2 years, 9 months ago.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
