I Have Crossed the Rubicon

[Anonymous 18]

As a budding (and hopefully permanent) red piller, I truly appreciate the input and support of the men who went through marriage in all its glory and survived to tell the tales. So the young can learn and avoid the path that hopefully becomes less and less taken in the coming decades.

Often opposition of MGTOW is keen to suggest that these men are lonely/ugly, can’t get laid, and other shaming language. I don’t believe, however, that it is possible to completely comprehend the “soul” of this movement, if I may call it such, unless the man has gone through hell and back under the umbrella term of love and at its worst- marriage.

Thank you for speaking out and being the light when it is so much easier to succumb to the pressure of man-ing up to enslave oneself to one of these vaginal tyrrants.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

treelville..miami wrote:

Welcome bro, I’m glad you’ve been freed from that. It’s disturbing how affectionate they can be at first then later on become ICE f~~~ing cold, reminds me vividly of my ex. Its almost as if they’re all engaged in some ruthless game of manipulation. I’ll never trust women again ever, even if she’s earned it, the education available here can be lifesaving to a man. Best of luck bro let us know how it goes.

I suffered the same fate. Mine was putting on an award winning performance. When she thought I was onto her affair she turned from ” I love you so much”, to an ice cold she-demon.  Like flipping a light switch and totally blindsided me. She then proceeded to destroy every sentimental item that signified our relationship; throwing out every item I ever bought her. She cast me away like a piece of trash.  Simply unreal how women can manipulate , turn their hearts to ice, and inflict maximal psychological carnage – without so much as a backward glance. I can never trust a woman, in a long term relationship, ever again. Pump and dump when urge hits me.

Cato,

Welcome. I would suggest going for the metaphoric jugular with your ex; get everything you can. Good offence is the best defence – saved my bacon during my divorce. Hire competent legal counsel and leverage her. She might settle quickly, for pennies on the dollar, if she knows a titanic battle awaits. (Of course follow your lawyers advice)

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[CatoParticipant 65]

Thank you for your kind and supportive post. I have found pride and self respect in my decision to divorce her. And I think you are absolutely correct about the perception and the reality of MGTOW. We come from all walks of life, all countries around the world, and from very different backgrounds. The only thing we are not is “losers.” The only losers in life are those men who are willing to sell their masculine souls for a little bit of pussy, and then tolerate the contempt of those c~~~s who know that they have traded something so utterly worthless for something so precious.

[Little BirdParticipant 40]

@iLearn

 

My thoughts exactly, I may be young, but it’s good too get that reinforcement, that little nudge that aligns us on the logical path. I feel as though I can learn incalculable knowledge from men like Cato.

 

Speaking of which, welcome to the winning team Cato! I wish you the best for everything.

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

(stands up and applauds) Bravo sir, bravo. The weight off your shoulders must be pure joy. I salute you Cato…..

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[Anonymous 18]

Hello Cato

Haven’t heard from you in a while. Apologies if its stalkish. Last we heard was you deciding to divorce your wife of 30 years.

I was hoping for some insights on married life and divorce process and your take on things. Not quite sure if you appreciate a reply out of blue

Regardless, I and I am sure the rest here wish you luck with everything

Regards

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