I found contentment and it shows.

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Recently, several interesting interactions between me and women, and a couple of my male friends have occurred, to which they questioned my relationship status. Having a home, a decent income, recognized cooking skills, and a series of other “relationship worthy” attributes, why am I not seeking a woman to take care of, and turning down those that approach me?

I have been recovering from the flu, then ear infection, then a displaced jaw, which required me to interact with medical personal, and do more interaction with the crazy outside world than I normally partake in. In doing so, I have had nurses, fellow waiting room patients, and acquaintances seem to take an interest in my single status. The questions enlightened me to something that I hadn’t really thought much about. I am happier than I have ever been. Women seemed to become attracted to me due to my contentment, and men seemed curious to how I had that, being that they were force fed the idea that you only get that by being with a woman.
In my inquisitions, I found that women become more hostile, while men seem to get more nervous. The questions would be as follows:

Q: You look happy, who is she?
A: My guitar? I call her my rose.
Q: Is that the name of your girlfriend?
A: Sure. And I can play all 6 strings, and she sings beautifully.
Q: So, you are not dating someone?
A: No need. Not a single woman has ever satisfied me sexually, mentally, or emotionally.
Q: You just haven’t found the one. (or) Maybe you haven’t tried me yet. (not in those words, but essentially saying that.)
A: Sure I did, and her name is Rose. (or) I couldn’t cheat on Rose like that.

At this point, women are agitated that they see a guitar has completely replaced them in my life. Men typically ask me about learning how to play guitar, and/or share with me how they are miserable in their current relationship. This is the way most of the interactions progress, while there is some minor deviations of course.

These series of inquisitive interactions gave me something to think about, however. I am more content, not being sexually frustrated, as to why my girlfriend cannot satisfy my, while I can make her quiver and make all kinds of noises; I am financially grounded, able to follow through on my hobbies, without anyone guilt tripping me on how I spend my money; and I am not stressed about someone’s emotional instability, that would drag me down so that they could feel better. I am no longer someone’s sex toy, ATM, nor emotional shoulder. These negatives removed from my life have given me contentment, and it is something that women become jealous over, and men seek knowledge on how to acquire as well.

Enjoy your freedom in going your own way. I do daily, even when it makes a woman, who tries to shame me, cry. Just because I said my guitar is more interesting and beautiful than her.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Good to see you back.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Thank you. It is good to be back. Give a shout when you mates get on zoom. I have many funny stories to share, perhaps over a few beers.

[Artboy99Participant 369]

Well said.
I am having the same experiences, content and happier than I ever was being with a woman.
The last woman I was with over 21 years ago was never happy with anything I did and she worked very hard at destroying my interests because everything I did was for me not for her. I of course never complained about anything that interested her and in fact I encouraged her to do those things that she enjoyed.
I was restoring my 1968 Chevelle. I funded the restoration by selling parts off of several parts cars I purchased. I would by a car for $300.00 and take off the pieces I wanted then sell parts to other enthusiasts. A fender for $300 paid for the original purchase, then after that it was all profit that I could invest in my own car. She never got that concept and argued with me all the time about money and how my job isn’t providing “us” the lifestyle “we” want.
I wish I hadn’t sold that car in an attempt to make her happy. It didn’t work, she still was never happy.
The end for me came at a Christmas occasion. We went shopping in early November, and she tried on some leather coat and she gushed how much she liked it, but couldn’t afford to buy it. Yeah yeah I get it, YOU want it for Christmas. So like an idiot I did go buy it for her, and I even gave some thought on how to give it to her. My plan was to surprise her with it when on Christmas day we would get ready to go to HER parents home for dinner ( we never went to MY parents home )and I would take the new coat out of my hiding place and give it to her. When I did so, she said “it isn’t even wrapped.”
That was the last time I EVER did anything for her.

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

It is the same with 100 percent of women, Artboy99. The last real gift that I bought a girl was diamond earrings. She shrugged it off. I never even bought her flowers after that. From that point on, I always kept anything that I bought a girl under 10 bucks, until I finally stopped all together. I found women prefer quantity over quality. They are hoarders, and too stupid to understand value. That is why women cannot do finances.

[Anonymous 18]

Removed wrote:

even when it makes a woman, who tries to shame me, cry

IMO behind each female that resorts to shame for my personal choices lies a scared child.

They MUST shame. Without which their own reasons for existing become dull.

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Very well said, Numerator.

[Anonymous 38]

Good for you, man.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Removed wrote:

Women seemed to become attracted to me due to my contentment, and men seemed curious to how I had that, being that they were force fed the idea that you only get that by being with a woman.

Pure enlightment

The idea that they are not the source of your contentment drives a woman insane. Either she must be the source of your misery or of your pleasure. It doesn’t matter to her what one. Either will do so long as it’s her that’s the cause and therefore the center of your attention. Your feelings are secondary.

Removed wrote:

At this point, women are agitated that they see a guitar has completely replaced them in my life. Men typically ask me about learning how to play guitar, and/or share with me how they are miserable in their current relationship.

Setting an example to other men what contentment looks, like and how to give it to yourself. would frighten any woman and give hope to any man. Keep up the example like a light house beacon.

Removed wrote:

I am financially grounded, able to follow through on my hobbies, without anyone guilt tripping me on how I spend my money; and I am not stressed about someone’s emotional instability, that would drag me down so that they could feel better. I am no longer someone’s sex toy, ATM, nor emotional shoulder.

These are the rewards sovereignty.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Artboy99 wrote:

Well said.
I am having the same experiences, content and happier than I ever was being with a woman.
The last woman I was with over 21 years ago was never happy with anything I did and she worked very hard at destroying my interests because everything I did was for me not for her. I of course never complained about anything that interested her and in fact I encouraged her to do those things that she enjoyed.
I was restoring my 1968 Chevelle. I funded the restoration by selling parts off of several parts cars I purchased. I would by a car for $300.00 and take off the pieces I wanted then sell parts to other enthusiasts. A fender for $300 paid for the original purchase, then after that it was all profit that I could invest in my own car. She never got that concept and argued with me all the time about money and how my job isn’t providing “us” the lifestyle “we” want.
I wish I hadn’t sold that car in an attempt to make her happy. It didn’t work, she still was never happy.
The end for me came at a Christmas occasion. We went shopping in early November, and she tried on some leather coat and she gushed how much she liked it, but couldn’t afford to buy it. Yeah yeah I get it, YOU want it for Christmas. So like an idiot I did go buy it for her, and I even gave some thought on how to give it to her. My plan was to surprise her with it when on Christmas day we would get ready to go to HER parents home for dinner ( we never went to MY parents home )and I would take the new coat out of my hiding place and give it to her. When I did so, she said “it isn’t even wrapped.”
That was the last time I EVER did anything for her.

Is she breathing? You are still doing something for her. ALL of you know what I mean.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[SimpleLifeParticipant 439]

Artboy99 wrote:

The end for me came at a Christmas occasion. We went shopping in early November, and she tried on some leather coat and she gushed how much she liked it, but couldn’t afford to buy it. Yeah yeah I get it, YOU want it for Christmas. So like an idiot I did go buy it for her, and I even gave some thought on how to give it to her. My plan was to surprise her with it when on Christmas day we would get ready to go to HER parents home for dinner ( we never went to MY parents home )and I would take the new coat out of my hiding place and give it to her. When I did so, she said “it isn’t even wrapped.”
That was the last time I EVER did anything for her.

Haha. Pretty standard female behavior. Since going mgtow one thing I really noticed is how great and peaceful holidays are. A day mostly to myself with an enjoyable, relaxing lunch with my aging parents. No traveling around to visit annoying, noisy relatives of hers with bratty kids in tow.

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