I don't get relationships.

[RobbySpectator 71]

I apologize in advance as this is a bit of a rant.
So here is my story. I’ve always been stumped at what to do about relationships. I live in a traditional home so a relationship is strictly dating or talking on the phone unless you are married.. barf. So basically you have to keep asking her on dates or talking with her on the phone or else your telling her you don’t like her. This just sounds wrong to me, going on dates and talking on the phone all the time uses up too much time and money and it would just obligate me to get married / become a slave.
My problem is if a girl likes me and I like her back I still have to break her heart and not ask her out which she then probably goes home hating herself. So from this understanding of relationships it seems to me like I only have two options: be a miserable loser and give up most my free time and money or continue making some great women feel inadequate. For now I guess I’m sticking with option two.
Thanks for reading. Anybody else going through similar experiences? Any advice would also be greatly appreciated as I don’t like option two either.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Let me help you out:

There is no such thing as a “great” woman AWALT They all suck—its their nature.

“Break her heart?” Are you f~~~ing kidding me? Son there is no heart to break—

Why are you wasting time, effort, energy and emotion on this crap? … That is like p~~~ing into the Grand Canyon and trying to fill it up with your pee.

Get a grip and forget about them. (unless you’re a young guy and you need to pump & dump.)

PS who cares if you make a woman feel inadequate? First that is impossible because they think they are little princess/queens.

This is just nuts—are you sure you’re not a tuna?!

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

This just sounds wrong to me, going on dates and talking on the phone all the time uses up too much time and money and it would just obligate me to get married / become a slave.

I have seen a lot of men with bitch brain I have been a man my own self with bitch brain. You are either very young or very female and Pistol Pete gets the credit for you tuna

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[HitmanParticipant]

here’s the deal,
you get sex,
she gets a slave.
good for her,
BAD FOR YOU !

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Robby wrote:

I apologize in advance as this is a bit of a rant.
So here is my story. I’ve always been stumped at what to do about relationships. I live in a traditional home so a relationship is strictly dating or talking on the phone unless you are married.. barf. So basically you have to keep asking her on dates or talking with her on the phone or else your telling her you don’t like her. This just sounds wrong to me, going on dates and talking on the phone all the time uses up too much time and money and it would just obligate me to get married / become a slave.
My problem is if a girl likes me and I like her back I still have to break her heart and not ask her out which she then probably goes home hating herself. So from this understanding of relationships it seems to me like I only have two options: be a miserable loser and give up most my free time and money or continue making some great women feel inadequate. For now I guess I’m sticking with option two.
Thanks for reading. Anybody else going through similar experiences? Any advice would also be greatly appreciated as I don’t like option two either.

That is a weird f~~~ing way to think about it but I guess to each their own… Relationships do not have to be one way or the highway. To me being in a relationship is a way to pass time, I make it clear upfront that I am not wanting any kids or marriage and if the person is cool with that we just hang out: Watch movies, f~~~, go on walks, dance, or whatever is fun to do.. also you can do a lot of things for free. You do not need to place a relationship in some sort of fancy box of an ends meets all kind of thing, just do what feels natural. If you like a girl and she likes you why break it off??? Just go with it and set some clear boundaries right away, if she wants more and you do not move on simple as that, just make sure to wrap your jimmy or you may get some unexpected long term coupling you may not want lol.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Robby wrote:

miserable loser

You see yourself like this???^^^

Robby wrote:

great women

You see women like this???^^^

See the difference?

I will defer judgement, but you do sound like Tuna.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I’ve let the KM know I think a c~~~ punt is in the works. I could be wrong But this really has a tuna stink to it.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

PistolPete wrote:

I’ve let the KM know I think a c~~~ punt is in the works. I could be wrong But this really has a tuna stink to it.

Roger that…

OP, if you are that deep into golden vagina worship, then I want you to know, you can rise above & get out of it & break through.

I was once there myself.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Look this is either a c~~~ or a brother in serious need of MGTOW intervention!

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

PistolPete wrote:

Look this is either a c~~~ or a brother in serious need of MGTOW intervention!

Indeed! If not a c~~~, certainly on the edge of cliff that I was on, and it f~~~ed me 6 ways from Sunday.

So glad all that s~~~ in my life is ancient f~~~in’ history.

[OldBillParticipant]

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[RobbySpectator 71]

I’m glad you guys understood me so well. There’s no use trying to explain myself now as I can see I’ve overstayed my welcome. Going to go swim in the ocean with my fellow tuna and worship some vag, bon voyage!

[narwhalParticipant]

eh.

The way I see it, you’ve agreed to follow this phone call dating rules based on your family traditions. Ok. You realize this doesn’t really work for you, so you chose not to participate. No problem there either.

Where I see the issue is that you feel like you need to take responsibility for how someone else feels. You don’t. You tell her that you aren’t interesting in dating. That has nothing to do with whether or not she’s adequate. If she takes that personally, that’s her problem, not yours to solve. She’s a grown up who doesn’t need you to cuddle her like a child.

And yes, I’ve seen that several times. It’s a common tactic for them to shame/blame a man for not pursuing her the way she wants you too. Even if you point blank tell her you are interested, it’s your fault for not being open to her manipulations and putting your own happiness above hers.

Ok. Then do it.

[RobbySpectator 71]

JK I’m back. Thanks Narwhal for understanding, you’re right too. Sorry for being such as sad sack, really the problem is just that I’m still stuck living with my parents so I’m going to try my best to leave my parents house asap. I think I figured out why I don’t get relationships too. Because they’re stupid. I’ll just be friends with whatever girls I want.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Robby wrote:

I’m glad you guys understood me so well. There’s no use trying to explain myself now as I can see I’ve overstayed my welcome. Going to go swim in the ocean with my fellow tuna and worship some vag, bon voyage!

JK I’m back. Thanks Narwhal for understanding, you’re right too. Sorry for being such as sad sack, really the problem is just that I’m still stuck living with my parents so I’m going to try my best to leave my parents house asap. I think I figured out why I don’t get relationships too. Because they’re stupid. I’ll just be friends with whatever girls I want.

I am glad you you got your senses on strait bud, women are not the end game, you are the end game. Get your s~~~ together and make something of yourself, once you do you will feel all the more better.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[ArcParticipant 350]

Robby wrote:

I apologize in advance as this is a bit of a rant.
So here is my story. I’ve always been stumped at what to do about relationships. I live in a traditional home so a relationship is strictly dating or talking on the phone unless you are married.. barf. So basically you have to keep asking her on dates or talking with her on the phone or else your telling her you don’t like her. This just sounds wrong to me, going on dates and talking on the phone all the time uses up too much time and money and it would just obligate me to get married / become a slave.
My problem is if a girl likes me and I like her back I still have to break her heart and not ask her out which she then probably goes home hating herself. So from this understanding of relationships it seems to me like I only have two options: be a miserable loser and give up most my free time and money or continue making some great women feel inadequate. For now I guess I’m sticking with option two.
Thanks for reading. Anybody else going through similar experiences? Any advice would also be greatly appreciated as I don’t like option two either.

First of all, this is a weird way of looking into things; but, I kind of understand where you are coming from because I also came from a traditionalist household and traditionalism is probably one of the largest blue pills in the world. It is the most prevalent doctrine that holds men at birth and yet completely disregards how much women have abandoned their traditional roles.

You need to keep in mind that the world our parents grew up in and the world we grow up in are two very different worlds in terms of the whole dating experience. Before dating was more of a “getting to know you” sort of experience and then the free love movement came along with women’s “liberation” and that gave birth to the hook up culture we have today. Women abuse this new culture by utilizing it to have sex with as many alphas that they can (you know, all the “bad” boys they say they aren’t interested in >.>) while they are young. Then as they approach the end of their biological clock, if they haven’t gotten an alpha to settle down with they settle for a blue pill cuck either by tricking him or trapping him with an “oops” pregnancy and the current laws will keep him trapped. Even then, she probably will still even cheat on him and she could still probably divorce him just to get some cash and prizes. Long story short the three things you need to even get with women are: looks, money, and clout. Keep in mind she still wont necessarily be loyal.

Now days, it’s a lot of time and effort just to date a woman. What are the rewards? Even if you wanted to be with a traditional woman, which it sounds like you do. One, you will most likely not find one; especially not in someplace like college. Even if you do find a “traditional” woman. There is no guarantee she will stay one, not when there is no social consequence or law that will hold her to that standard of beliefs. Take it from someone who has been there. I thought I met a traditional girlfriend; she tried to get me to agree to a three way poly-amorous marriage with me as the boy toy on the side (yeah, I wouldn’t have been the cuck). That’s about as non-traditional as you can get and that is coming from a Catholic Filipina (course, I mostly blame her libtarded now fiance; but even though I don’t like the guy I still didn’t want to do that to him).

You are putting way too much value on the whole dating thing. Have fun if you want to, sure; but watch your ass. All a girl has to do is accuse you now days anyway. That’s essentially what everyone here on the forums was trying to tell you (yes, even the ones calling you a tuna).

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "Save us!"... and I'll whisper "no."

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Relationships:

A mutual co-delusional conspiracy based on a flawed concept called romantic love, held together by a combination of narcissism, co-dependency and irrational fear of being alone, while requiring both parties to give the appearance of sacrificing and giving to the limited partnership corporation, with a mixture of strategic lies, acting and occasional physical union via sex while meeting the other person’s ‘needs’ or at least appearing to, while ignoring the castle made of sand that is the perpetuated fraud of the arrangement – and constantly wondering when you wake up every morning why it continues and maintaining other options at all times.

But that’s just my definition based on observation and experience.

[KimmurielParticipant 480]

If you goto an amusement park, you don’t pay to own, you pay to play. If you took it with you it wouldn’t be amusing, it would be a responsibility.

If women were 50% of an asset that they proclaim to be, there would never be MGTOW.

With that said, goto the amusement park, but if you bring it home with you it will not be fun. It will be an investment with diminishing returns.

"You meet a few exceedingly forsaken, Sit around the cooler refusing domestication" Aesop Rock

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