I am an asshole involved with a much bigger asshole

[red_johnParticipant 24]

There is this woman (30 year old) from my home city who has been pursuing me for quite a while. I moved away since. And since I know her from like 4 years ago, she was dating 3 guys i know of and I met them often. It’s like she did not give a s~~~ about them and she treated them like crap in front of me. Anyhow, I am attracted to her physically, but there is no way in hell i see her as commitment material – even MGTOW philosophy aside.

This week, I am in my home city so I called a few people to catch up. Three days ago, I had a drink with her, slept at her place and we did everything in the book. It just fell on my lap and I did not ask if she was seeing someone. The boyfriend knocks at 11 pm, and she jumps out of bed then kicks him out. She had maximum one day of remorse after that and says that she hopes I don’t have a bad opinion of her. Quite some woman’s rationalizations and moral’s gymnastics I have seen. “Relationships are complicated” and so were the usual excuses. My answer was plainly that her stories with her already ex are not really my problem.

Now she wants me to spend the week-end at her place. I don’t mind tagging along as my parents place is not very comfortable for me. Any advice for playing it smoothly and avoiding any mind f~~~ she has in store for me? I am off wednesday, but she is already talking about arranging for a visit in april. Gosh… I have other plans in the town where I work and live anyway.

My guts are telling me that I am an asshole, but by far not the biggest one in this story. Your take guys?

[WarratahParticipant 895]

Well, you already know she’s not relationship material. You also know she’s good between the sheets. I’d say have yourself a great weekend! And then duck, dive and avoid! It’s payback time – give her one for all of us! If a woman behaves like a slut then she deserves to be treated like one.
As long as you go into the weekend determined to enjoy it and NOT GET HITCHED – you’ll be fine. Play her game (just be gone by Sunday night)

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[Anonymous 42]

red_john wrote:

she was dating 3 guys i know of and I met them often

Merry-go-round-madness! Are you stupid? 3 c~~~slammers that you know of! How about all three four of you have fun at once! Take turns filling various holes, then suck each-others dicks, that’s what she is doing! Who’s jissum is in that hole you’re about to descend on? Eat her out and tell me how it tastes? An orgy is going on, weather you realize it or not, accept it or not! You’re better off throwing your dick in a garbage disposal! ((((((((C~~~ CAROUSEL))))))))

S~~~! F~~~! STUPID!

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

MGTower is right f~~~ing with hoes at first seems fun but what if one of those BFs catches you? You aren’t the only one hittin that! Think about  who is really pimping here..

Is that beat up pussy worth it? In my heyday I had woman coming over every other day three max a week. Fun for a little bit then they start finding hair bands and cigarettes with lipstick on them and drama starts.

Now I am stage 3 Mgtow and realized no local pussy is worth it! Me no dick on call..

[red_johnParticipant 24]

Oh wow… Some people are misreading the situation. I agree she is having too much “fun” in my opinion and I should not be condoning her behavior, but we all how this works: women take no criticism.

She tells me she has been exclusive with the past 3 BFs over the past 4-5 years. Now she wants to be exclusive with me. She broke it up with the other guy the next day we had something. Basically, she is monkey branching to me. But there is no way I am giving her that. I am only keeping moderate contact.

It’s not really a “hoe”-case but a typical hypergamous female, who jumped off the bridge in order to upgrade / got bored with the previous one.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

My take is that she is a common scramble-head female playing head games with multiple men and you are one of them. I’m not sure that this makes you an asshole. If you play and beat her (whatever that means) at this game, she’ll certainly refer to you that way. If you play and lose, you could land in jail, hospital, court over a paternity suit, STD clinic… many other mechanisms of losing while playing a woman’s game that I can’t even guess at.

Just look clearly at this in a cost-benefit analysis: what are you getting from this? What is it worth to you? What is it costing you? What are the risks that it will cost you more than what it is worth? Answer those questions clearly and you won’t need any input from me to decide what to do…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[red_johnParticipant 24]

I thought I should keep you guys posted. Thank you for advice, even if some of them are quite harsh. But I need harsh.

I did not ask for anything, but the girl has all the “girl friend behaviors”: she calls often, showers me with compliments, wants to visit, makes plans, buys me stuff (mainly alcohol and food). If I did not know better, I’d think she is genuinely fit for the role. When i asked her to get an STD test if she wants to keep seeing me, she just complied.

My cost/benefit analysis: When I visit my hometown, I have a nice place to crash at that is not my parents. I<span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>t does not cost me anything for now. My emotional well-being could very well be on the line if I get attached. I know how ruthless she can be. I am a bit disgusted by her mask, if that is a mask at all. Maybe this is really female nature I am witnessing.

But not showing anything. Never talking about MGTOW, about the personal philosophy I came to in the recent 2 years. I changed a lot, but she probably sees me as the Mr Nice guy i was before – read compliant non-threatening guy. There is just too much distrust/red pill anger in me. Maybe I should just tell her to f~~~ off now already.</span>

[Anonymous 42]

Assholes, dicks, and pussies!

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