I ADMIT TO HAVING BEEN BRAIN-DEAD

[Anonymous 14]

Dumb ass got married in 94.
Gave her a house, car, baby… everything she ever wanted.
Let her stay home.
Eventually, lucky to get some form of “reward” sex maybe every 4 months.

Came home from work one day after 8 years of marriage to hear from her how I was going to get “served”.
ZERO balance in “our” savings account after she moved all the money out ($100,000?) just prior to me saying hello to the sheriff.

Courts screwed me with incredible amounts of child support and alimony – half my 401k.

Because of this she hasn’t had to work for over a decade.

Since, she has done ABSOLUTELY NOTHING with her life but act like a total privileged parasite and riding the c*** carousel loaded with total losers.

I try not to be angry about all this and think that karma will kick in at some point and she will get hers.

I am ashamed and embarrassed for being so damn stupid.

But I will say this: GETTING MY FREEDOM BACK WAS WORTH EVERY BLOODY CENT.

I have been MGTOW for 13 years and am now MGTOW for LIFE.

Hello Brothers!

[Anonymous 16]

welcome brother.
Like you i took the red pill the hard way…
Karma… dont think soo.
But you are rigth mate. You are a free men. And never,ever again we are going back.
MGTOW all the way to hell.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome VESPASIAN! Congratulations on your freedom and welcome to a community of supporters. I have felt the shame of being duped too. It passes with time and reflection.

[Anonymous 14]

Well her free ride will be ending soon, she’s hit the wall pretty damn bad and will have 0 income. I’ll be sitting back in my comfy chair with a nice glass of scotch watching the show.

[Anonymous 14]

BlacqueJacqueShellacque wrote:

Welcome VESPASIAN! Congratulations on your freedom and welcome to a community of supporters. I have felt the shame of being duped too. It passes with time and reflection.

Even after 13 years I still feel shame…

Thank you

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

But I will say this: GETTING MY FREEDOM BACK WAS WORTH EVERY BLOODY CENT.

Welcome to the brained dead club! My freedom cost me. But yea ,worth every cent. Mgtow 11 years. Welcome Brother!

[Anonymous 14]

Anonymous wrote:

Like you i took the red pill the hard way…

Yes it was the hard way. I do hope young men educate themselves using this forum.

My thanks to everyone participating here.

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

BlacqueJacque Shellacque wrote:

Welcome VESPASIAN! Congratulations on your freedom and welcome to a community of supporters. I have felt the shame of being duped too. It passes with time and reflection.

Even after 13 years I still feel shame…

Thank you

No need for shame. It’s a beautiful dream. Some of us ,like me,take the hard road to learn that’s all it is . A dream.

[Anonymous 14]

Thank you Old Sage

[Anonymous 14]

Thank you “NO”

Since divorce i have learned clockmaking, watchmaking, – back to playing guitar, flute and violin, photography and doing WHATEVER THE HELL I WANT.

My only “major” issues i have now are new tires for the vette and maybe having some small dings in my BMW removed.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I try not to be angry about all this and think that karma will kick in at some point and she will get hers.
I am ashamed and embarrassed for being so damn stupid.

Welcome! And stop that.

Karma will get her, but it will get you too if you are wishing bad s~~~ on her. And half of all marriages end in divorce, so you are just in a different half. There is no majority. Half of all men are so damn stupid, me included. But more stupid is living with someone that hates you, someone that doesn’t deserve you. So I actually pity the married guys I know that aren’t happy.

I went through the shame and embarrassment for a little while too, but here’s the thing: No one cares. I told people at work and they were shocked at first, but they have their life to live and I have mine. They aren’t sitting at home on a Sunday afternoon wondering if TaxGuy is ok. And I don’t want them to.

It sounds like you have moved on pretty damn well, so pat yourself on the back and enjoy where you are. You are a free man. You have everything.

Order the good wine

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings V,

About the motion too…

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome … to the brained dead club!

I second the motion.

By the way, like in the TV series “Braindead,” being married was like having most of my brains eaten up by extraterrestrial bugs.

Anonymous wrote:

I am ashamed and embarrassed for being so damn stupid.

Been there.

Done that.

And got the tee shirt.

However, I had plenty of warnings……. which I ignored.

It good we all tell our stories here. Hopefully the young men of the world will read this and see the bulls~~~ that women and courts inflict on hard working men…

Bravo on the great reply “No.”

Anonymous wrote:

karma will kick in at some point and she will get hers.

One way to grease the wheels of Karma is to get your story out.

It helps to upchuck all of the s~~~ you had to take.

And describe how you and others were reacting during the whole process.

When you are ready, kindly write more detail to share here at MGTOW.

You can always add more to your introduction in the empty reply box below.

Or create a new post in the other sections of the Forum like Marriage & Divorce; Blue Pill Hell.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Welcome sir. A lot of us have learned a hard lesson on our way to getting here. There is no need in being ashamed. The information you had was obtained through lies and brainwashing.
Congratulations on getting your freedom.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Anonymous 14]

TaxGuy wrote:

Welcome! And stop that.

Karma will get her, but it will get you too if you are wishing bad s~~~ on her..

Yeah really I’m not hoping bad s~~~ for anyone, but she cannot live like a freaking princess her entire life.

I am simply eagerly anticipating her dethroning.

Thanks for taking the time to send your thoughts.

[Anonymous 14]

Mr. Spock wrote:

Welcome sir. A lot of us have learned a hard lesson on our way to getting here. There is no need in being ashamed. The information you had was obtained through lies and brainwashing.
Congratulations on getting your freedom.

Yes sir, she came from a large Catholic family, death till we part, “I would never leave you unless you cheated on me” etc etc – all TOTAL BULLS~~~.

Thanks for writing.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I hear ya. I like to say that I don’t wish anything bad on my ex, but if it’s going to happen I’d wouldn’t turn down a front row seat!!

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 14]

The Manipulated Man wrote:

One way to grease the wheels of Karma is to get your story out.
It helps to upchuck all of the s~~~ you had to take.
And describe how you and others were reacting during the whole process.
When you are ready, kindly write more detail to share here at MGTOW.

I realize now that she was always a miserable person, always wanting something, never satisfied…
My father was surprised, he actually thought she had that old world wifey thing going.
I think all her miserable friends supported her in her supposed misery too – they get together and bash men and have epic misery fests.
I worked full time, six figure salary, didn’t do any dope or abuse booze, didn’t cheat. When not working I was doing things around the house but had a hard time trying to do things I wanted to do, like working on the car or any hobbies. If it somehow had some benefit for her it was ok. If I didn’t want to go to yet another family thing on her side (she was one of 13 freaking kids) she would hold it against me. She used sex as a weapon and leveraged it against me. Went through massive periods of NO SEX and knew that if I got it somewhere else I would be putting myself at serious risk. Man made prison.

A real kicker too is when these women go see their doctors and tell them they are “depressed”. There is no talk therapy or anything, immediately the doctors simply put them on some mind altering drug that destroys the ability to have orgasm. How the ____ is that going to help a relationship?

I was fooled by a nice quick smile, a nice body and some good sex.

The smile was s~~~, the body went to hell and the sex was all an act to capture my ass.

[Anonymous 14]

TaxGuy wrote:

I hear ya. I like to say that I don’t wish anything bad on my ex, but if it’s going to happen I’d wouldn’t turn down a front row seat!!

Yeah Bro, nice glass of scotch, fine cigar, put your feet up and let the show happen.

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

The Manipulated Man wrote:

One way to grease the wheels of Karma is to get your story out.
It helps to upchuck all of the s~~~ you had to take.
And describe how you and others were reacting during the whole process.
When you are ready, kindly write more detail to share here at MGTOW.

Went through massive periods of NO SEX

the sex was all an act to capture my ass.

There is no sex after marriage.

NEVER GET MARRIED

HEED OUR WARNING

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

Even after 13 years I still feel shame…

Welcome V
No need for shame just realize it’s all part of the Feminist programing. They f~~~ you over and then blame you and if you feel shame then they don’t have to because it validates them.
Don’t do it, make it her shame because that’s who it belongs to.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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