Hypocrisy and crazy.

[CrimParticipant 31]

I am beginning to think that this is the MoD of all women, specifically American women.

“you once told me that you’re interested in seeing other women, and I know I said that I’m okay with an open relationship, and I know that you haven’t seen any other women, but I’m not okay anymore…so I’m breaking up with you via facebook while you’re asleep and don’t even know we are breaking up”….”oh and I’m going to go home and f~~~ 5 different guys in one week. Thanks for all the good times and the attention you gave me, but I don’t need you anymore”

[Math RoninParticipant 86]

I’d text her back and say “good cuz I didn’t want to hurt your feelings after I banged your friend this weekend…LOL”

But seriously, don’t you just love it how women can change their minds? Hell, they almost have a constitutional amendment saying they have the right to do so (so called “womens prerogative”).

Of course, if a man does the same thing, he’s called on the carpet, told he’s wishy-washy and then the women will tell him she can never trust him again (“You say you love me now, but remember that time when you said…blah,blah,blah, and then changed your mind? How can I believe you this time?”)

Hope you didn’t waste too much time or resources on this conniving bitch. Me, I’m a bit vindictive when someone is disloyal to me: I’d be tempted to post her letter on my fb page where all of our friends could see what she is really like while she is asleep.

 

[CrimParticipant 31]

Spent a year and thousands on the woman. Things were fan-f~~~ing-tastic for the first 9 months. I really dodged a bullet to get out so soon. We had begun talking about marriage and kids and whatnot…really lucked out.

I offered to get her a gym membership cause she wasn’t happy with her body. She said “i’m too tired all the time to work out”. Now she’s moved back in with mom and dad and is exercising her ass off and entering bikini competitions and s~~~.

She had low self esteem when we first got together, now she’s got all kinds of thirsty guys throwing themselves at her…which is probably why we broke up to begin with.

[YAZParticipant 140]

I’ve been addressing this issue with friends & colleagues over many beers the past 6 months or so…..

 

Ain’t it f~~~in’ funny…….

 

That if a man screws around on his wife, he is a misogynistic man-whore.  He has no morals, no values, no sense of decency.  He’s put in a position where he has no chance of self defense.  Even if wifey cut him off, became a total beeeyotch, or used him to the nth degree for money, property, etc.  Even after a divorce or break up, if the man gets some pussy action immediately…..he’s considered “on the rebound.”

 

When a woman screws around, society casts a web of empathy on the cheating whore.  All she has to say is that she was in an abusive relationship.  No evidence or history of abuse?  Not to worry.  She just states that it was verbal abuse.  And the man only did it when no one else was around.  I’ve even heard the reason “She wasn’t getting enough attention.”

Folks are generally happy when the woman sleeps with the first stud muffin after a divorce.  She’s finally getting the love and affection that she deserves.  She finally found someone worthy of her time.  Isn’t that sweet?  We’re so happy for her.

People buy this crap because it is ingrained in our societies that women are natural victims.  And they play the role very well.

Whore Magnet

[Math RoninParticipant 86]

LOL….reminds me of the old saying “when a person breaks up and says it’s them, it’s really you” in reverse. She was the one who wanted to go out and screw around, and projected that onto you. Classic

[YAZParticipant 140]

Math Ronin wrote:

LOL….reminds me of the old saying “when a person breaks up and says it’s them, it’s really you” in reverse. She was the one who wanted to go out and screw around, and projected that onto you. Classic

 

Yep.  Can you say “Mind F~~~?”

 

Projection plays a huge role in the victim mentality.  It removes accountability.  A very useful tool that acquires empathy, which is a VERY powerful tool.

Consider this humorous observation that we can all relate to:

 

You’re at the pub and you can’t help but notice the gal that’s wearing the low cut top….showing off some good cleavage.  She notices that you caught a glimpse of her puppies and gets p~~~ed off.

“He’s staring at my t~~~.”

It’s your fault that you saw 75% of her boobies.  She’s not accountable for her choice of attire; nipples are covered only because the law requires it.  She received the attention that she craves by showing off her t~~~, and gained empathy at the same time.

This is why I wear sunglasses at the beach even on a cloudy day.  LOL.

Whore Magnet

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Crim wrote:

I really dodged a bullet to get out so soon. We had begun talking about marriage and kids and whatnot…really lucked out.

Bro…you are correct in stating this. You have really lucked out! It’s best that this has happened now because otherwise you’d be out a lot more than just money. Time…that’s the thing I have wasted. I could have been doing a million other things with my life, instead of living in a city she dragged me to…I’m partly to blame for letting it happen, but I was so in “love”.

You can’t get back time. I’m only 28 but 8 years is a long time to have wasted. A year is still a long time to have wasted on a woman, but at least you can get out now and not give her a damn thing except your middle finger in the air.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Women do have honour nor they can they be totally honest like men. Women are worse than children because at least with children you can teach them how to be a good adults, with women they will just say s~~~ and twist things against you.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I meant women do not have honour.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Crim wrote:

”Thanks for all the good times and the attention you gave me, but I don’t need you anymore”

And you can say that right back to her in ten years when the c~~~ carousel is done with her and she’s looking for a retirement plan.

Crim wrote:

Spent a year and thousands on the woman.

That was your first mistake.

Never spend money on a woman.

[Anonymous 12]

Crim wrote:

Spent a year and thousands on the woman. Things were fan-f~~~ing-tastic for the first 9 months. I really dodged a bullet to get out so soon. We had begun talking about marriage and kids and whatnot…really lucked out. I offered to get her a gym membership cause she wasn’t happy with her body. She said “i’m too tired all the time to work out”. Now she’s moved back in with mom and dad and is exercising her ass off and entering bikini competitions and s~~~. She had low self esteem when we first got together, now she’s got all kinds of thirsty guys throwing themselves at her…which is probably why we broke up to begin with.

I’ve been you. You were the guy she needed to help her get her s~~~ together, you were calm and reliable, you supported her and probably listened to a lot of her s~~~. Then she started to feel better about herself and noticed other men looking at her, dangerous types of men who would spend money on her and then f~~~ her, or better still, just f~~~ her and leave.

You served your purpose and are no longer required.

You have dodged a bullet and hopefully have also learned that it pays to be the type of guy that women say they hate.

 

[CrimParticipant 31]

oh yeah. I definitely learned my lesson. Its funny though, she thinks we were equal partners. I was constantly putting up with her s~~~ and I was being “encouraging and understanding”. I mean, good for her. Her s~~~ is kinda almost normal, she’s not super depressed and all. I don’t wish ill towards her, but I am definitely done with her.

Just a pity that now she’s getting in seriously incredible shape, but didn’t feel any desire to work on herself when she was with me. She’s 10/10 would bang material now days.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Anonymous wrote:

<span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>I’ve been you. You were the guy she needed to help her get her s~~~ together, you were calm and reliable, you supported her and probably listened to a lot of her s~~~. Then she started to feel better about herself and noticed other men looking at her, dangerous types of men who would spend money on her and then f~~~ her, or better still, just f~~~ her and leave. You served your purpose and are no longer required. You have dodged a bullet and hopefully have also learned that it pays to be the type of guy that women say they hate.

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Sadly, this is what my ex wife did to me. Sum it up in a nut shell; I could not find the words to say it myself.

I am in my mid thirties, and wasted the better part of a decade including a short marriage. I honestly believe it is tandamount to fraud.

Thank god no kids or support. I was extremely lucky. Yet, I feel that I  will carry the emotional scars from this betrayal to my grave – hopefully many decades from now.

Learn from my mistake – believing the sweet delusion. I am not bitter, just a stark realist. Focus on what makes you happy – but never repeat this mistake again.

 

 

 

 

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[JasonParticipant 282]

I once met a woman who said she didn’t believe in traditional gender roles, where the man paid the way for the woman, etc. I asked her how many men she’d dated that made less money than her. She became very quiet.

In most cases, even if the woman holds a few “conscious” views that look alright on the surface, she very rarely has the self-awareness to actually check if she lives by those views herself. When and if she does so, she almost always spirals into semi-depression, life re-evaluation, etc… Which, in turn, almost always leads to her abandoning the morals she once had, whereas for a man the same situation would usually lead to a closer adherence to said morals. Now, I don’t know if this highly distinctive split primarily comes about due to differences in biology or social conditioning, but I see the same results either way.

And then, of course, you’ve got the outright manipulative liars, who (at least in my experience) make up the vast majority of women anyway, so…

There lies serenity in Chaos. Seek ye the eye of the hurricane.

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