“you once told me that you’re interested in seeing other women, and I know I said that I’m okay with an open relationship, and I know that you haven’t seen any other women, but I’m not okay anymore…so I’m breaking up with you via facebook while you’re asleep and don’t even know we are breaking up”….”oh and I’m going to go home and f~~~ 5 different guys in one week. Thanks for all the good times and the attention you gave me, but I don’t need you anymore”

But seriously, don’t you just love it how women can change their minds? Hell, they almost have a constitutional amendment saying they have the right to do so (so called “womens prerogative”).

Of course, if a man does the same thing, he’s called on the carpet, told he’s wishy-washy and then the women will tell him she can never trust him again (“You say you love me now, but remember that time when you said…blah,blah,blah, and then changed your mind? How can I believe you this time?”)

Hope you didn’t waste too much time or resources on this conniving bitch. Me, I’m a bit vindictive when someone is disloyal to me: I’d be tempted to post her letter on my fb page where all of our friends could see what she is really like while she is asleep.

I offered to get her a gym membership cause she wasn’t happy with her body. She said “i’m too tired all the time to work out”. Now she’s moved back in with mom and dad and is exercising her ass off and entering bikini competitions and s~~~.

She had low self esteem when we first got together, now she’s got all kinds of thirsty guys throwing themselves at her…which is probably why we broke up to begin with.

Ain’t it f~~~in’ funny…….

That if a man screws around on his wife, he is a misogynistic man-whore.  He has no morals, no values, no sense of decency.  He’s put in a position where he has no chance of self defense.  Even if wifey cut him off, became a total beeeyotch, or used him to the nth degree for money, property, etc.  Even after a divorce or break up, if the man gets some pussy action immediately…..he’s considered “on the rebound.”

When a woman screws around, society casts a web of empathy on the cheating whore.  All she has to say is that she was in an abusive relationship.  No evidence or history of abuse?  Not to worry.  She just states that it was verbal abuse.  And the man only did it when no one else was around.  I’ve even heard the reason “She wasn’t getting enough attention.”

Folks are generally happy when the woman sleeps with the first stud muffin after a divorce.  She’s finally getting the love and affection that she deserves.  She finally found someone worthy of her time.  Isn’t that sweet?  We’re so happy for her.

People buy this crap because it is ingrained in our societies that women are natural victims.  And they play the role very well.

LOL….reminds me of the old saying “when a person breaks up and says it’s them, it’s really you” in reverse. She was the one who wanted to go out and screw around, and projected that onto you. Classic

Yep.  Can you say “Mind F~~~?”

Projection plays a huge role in the victim mentality.  It removes accountability.  A very useful tool that acquires empathy, which is a VERY powerful tool.

Consider this humorous observation that we can all relate to:

You’re at the pub and you can’t help but notice the gal that’s wearing the low cut top….showing off some good cleavage.  She notices that you caught a glimpse of her puppies and gets p~~~ed off.

“He’s staring at my t~~~.”

It’s your fault that you saw 75% of her boobies.  She’s not accountable for her choice of attire; nipples are covered only because the law requires it.  She received the attention that she craves by showing off her t~~~, and gained empathy at the same time.

This is why I wear sunglasses at the beach even on a cloudy day.  LOL.

I really dodged a bullet to get out so soon. We had begun talking about marriage and kids and whatnot…really lucked out.

Bro…you are correct in stating this. You have really lucked out! It’s best that this has happened now because otherwise you’d be out a lot more than just money. Time…that’s the thing I have wasted. I could have been doing a million other things with my life, instead of living in a city she dragged me to…I’m partly to blame for letting it happen, but I was so in “love”.

You can’t get back time. I’m only 28 but 8 years is a long time to have wasted. A year is still a long time to have wasted on a woman, but at least you can get out now and not give her a damn thing except your middle finger in the air.

”Thanks for all the good times and the attention you gave me, but I don’t need you anymore”

And you can say that right back to her in ten years when the c~~~ carousel is done with her and she’s looking for a retirement plan.

Crim wrote:

Spent a year and thousands on the woman.

That was your first mistake.

Never spend money on a woman.