OK, so I met this 10/10 chick on some website and knowing how this usually goes down, I moved to telephone and real life pretty quickly. I don’t do a lot of effort on these sites anymore since MGTOW, but I have some remaining profiles that from time to time drag up unexpected pleasantries for the currents of the social web.
She told me she had a boyfriend fairly early but the girl just kept on mailing and texting, romantic as well as sexual stuff. Red f~~~ing flag.
I am single, she pretty much threw herself at me and she had a really nice body in pictures, so I figured there would be little harm in dating her, just to see where newfound MGTOW “chivalry” would lead and if she was a golddigging hypergamist or whatever. In one of the very first emails I sent her, I went ballistic on the fact she was seeing other men online while she had a boyfriend. I told her what I thought of girls doing that, and that I didn’t consider hypergamous sluts suitable for anything but casual sex. I explictly told her she was out of bounds with her boyfriend, and I didn’t want to p~~~ on his honor as readily as other men would. She still wanted to date, she seemed intrigued by my forwardness. She was in for a wake-up call, instead of a booty call.
After a few talks on the phone we met up, the actual date was all nice, she even paid for the drinks as I was the one that took public transport. It ended on a highly intimite note, stole a kiss and a big fat cuddle at the end of it, before boarding my train. The old me would have been ecstatic, but the new me knew that the hamsters were spinning the wheel now, and she would become unstable very soon. I expected she would not commit to an actual date and time date for the second time, and this turned out to be the case. As a hare, blinded by two lights, she sat still in the middle of the road doing exactly nothing to change her current situation. As if she expected yet another man to save her from that situation too.
So today I felt like opening Pandora’s Box. It all came out, crying. Note that these are not my actual responses, I had to mansplain a few things here are there but the gist of it was like this:
“I don’t know what to do”
How about coming clean to everybody and fix your s~~~ girl? I’ve been telling you that for a while now. Either fix whats wrong with your man and stop seeing other men, or stop p~~~ing on his honor by doing so. What is exactly so complex about this. That it hurts your feelings? That’s not going away if you don’t do anything to change that! And by coming clean you will feel better about yourself in the long run!
“It would be better for you if we didn’t meet again”
No, that would be EASIER for YOU, since you obviously can’t handle your emotions as well as I do. I don’t feel a shred of emotional trauma and I still want to f~~~ your brains out. I am used to dry spells lasting for years, so your body opposed to this stupid drama still comes up positive for you. What does that tell you? It tells you this is easy to deal with for me, it’s just math, and you are just trying to weasel out of a commitment with me because you will have to break a previous one first. Yesterday you asked me if I’d wanted f~~~ you if you still had a boyfriend, I know where this is going and the answer is: no.
“I don’t want you to be sad because of me”
I am NOT. F~~~ING. SAD. I am dissapointed and perhaps a little angry. I have been dealing with this s~~~ from the moment I met you and I know exactly what my odds of f~~~ing you for a good few years are. Because honestly, the ease with which you meet other people online will NOT stand when you are f~~~ing me. I told you a couple of times now, and your boyfriend is the one I feel sorry for. Not you.
“I didn’t think of the consequences”
Girl you are 22. What f~~~ing consequences? You have zero responsibilities, and a dozen safety nets! It literally comes down between picking a mate and you get f~~~ing options.
“I feel so guilty, I have brought this upon myself”
HAMMER. MEET. NAIL.
I wonder if it is possible to make these women understand how their behaviour negatively affects men around them. I’m up to that point that I still wanna bang this bitch’s brains out, but I won’t use anything but absolute, harsh truths to get it from her. Up untill now she seems oddly receptive, warming up to the idea she has a choice in being a hypergamous c~~~ or not, but it almost feels traditional, like I’m supposed to tell this broad what to do because she can’t cope with life on her own. Gonna give it a rest and let the hamsters spin for a while. If nothing comes of it at least it was a funny experiment telling girls cold truths instead of what they want to hear.
Anonymous 4 years, 10 months ago.
