Hymen

[bob__Participant 946]

If a woman is not a virgin, then that means other c~~~s have been inside her. Isn’t that sickening? That would be like renting a used fleshlight.

[RennieParticipant]

Well usually. Though supposedly it’s possible to break the hymen through strenuous activity. These days them having a hymen is not a guarantee of anything either, because now they commit fraud by getting hymen reconstruction surgery.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Once my friend was in a relationship with a girl around 25, she was against sex before marriage as she was saving her virginity for her husband, but he somehow managed to have sex with her . He was also going to marry her. After sex she did not bleed and when he asked her in a ”beating around the bush” manner, she said how she was into sports etc. He was so in love with her, so he never took the matter seriously but something started to bug him off from that day.

Also the way she had sex made these feelings stronger. After being 3 years in relationship she broke off for other reasons. My friend later learned how she was banged for a year by her ex in another city who she dumped before meeting him.

He never thought she was a virgin when he met her, but she painted a picture of her being virgin etc etc. When he learned it was a lie it made him think the whole relationship built on lies and deceit.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

I have laid two virgins that I’m aware of. One had blood, and I thought she may have been on her period. I didn’t know she was a virgin. She just told me recently. The other it was too dark to tell, and I really don’t remember clearly if there was blood. Regardless, although it’s special to take a girls virginity, I suppose, I agree more with Taxguy. You want a girl to want your c~~~ over all others she has had. They will wonder. Believe me. I have heard it from women before about that. Just like us, they also like to explore.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

I am very much in favor of #NoHymenNoDiamond but I prefer the shortened version #NoDiamond. Deal with it laydees.

That being said, I have probably had more than my fair share of virgins. Certainly enough to know that those muslim whack job suicide bombers are going about it completely wrong.

Many never admitted they were virgins until after they weren’t, but you can always tell if you know what to look for. They didn’t all bleed. The evidence isn’t in the sheets. It’s in her eyes. They are always just a little apprehensive, a little tense, a little unsure of themselves. Or a lot. Even the ones who are very enthusiastic are still a little nervous about it. And that extra tightness you might feel has nothing to do with her virginity, at least not physically. No, a virgin girl feels “tight” because she’s tensing up involuntarily. No matter how many plastic partners she might have had, no matter how anatomically impossibly huge they might have been, she’s still freaking out a little (or a lot) over the prospect of her first real c~~~. And that is something I have never seen any woman successfully fake, because the same physical and behavioral clues, or rather the lack thereof, are a dead giveaway for women who claim to be virgins but aren’t.

Of course usually the first clue is if she claims to be a virgin. If a woman claims to be a virgin, she probably isn’t. The actual virgins generally keep quiet about it until they can’t hide it any longer.

Oh, and as an aside on the subject of tightness, as I said above, virgins are not necessarily tight. They’re tense, but that’s not the same thing, and it’s very temporary. Real tightness is a matter of exercise and control. If you want real vaginal tightness and muscle control (and what man doesn’t?), the sluttiest rock climber will beat out any virgin any day of the week.

[HitmanParticipant]

popped my girlfriend’s cherry in high school.
a real f~~~ing hassel.
as a young guy i thought it was special.
it was in a way.
now i realize if we stayed together she would have wanted other c~~~s to try..
and i would have been on prozac soon after …
hymen is way over-rated.
btw..i don’t buy the “sports ” line of B.S. either ..

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t care. I’m not a virgin, and have no expectations that she is. Besides hypocritical, it’s not realistic.

I generally try not to judge people on who they’ve been, but who they are and who they will be (predicting based on current behavior). I’d rather sleep with someone who’s made mistakes and learned their lesson over someone who’s clueless and will make mistakes. Mistakes isn’t even really the right word. I want to sleep with a woman wants the same thing I want from sex.

Ok. Then do it.

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