Husband and wife sleeping in different rooms?

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I am meeting more and more men that are sleeping in different rooms than their wives. Is this just me or are you seeing that too.

I know it sounds like a Seinfeld episode. But this is really happening.

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[Anonymous 6]

The guy probably wants a decent night’s sleep where he doesn’t have to fight for the blanket or hear her snoring. Sounds smart to me. Maybe the bed in the guest bedroom is more comfy to sleep on.

[Anonymous 42]

Yup, and her window is unlocked for special deliver by the mailman…

[Anonymous 54]

Stanard procedure when you cant stand the bitch any more.The begining of the end.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

I am meeting more and more men that are sleeping in different rooms than their wives. Is this just me or are you seeing that too.

This was true for me in my relations~~~ in its last year. It was my choice for a myriad of reasons. Not the least of which having the share the air with something that just might not be human.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

This applies to this thread.

She can NEVER tell you what to do.

Bill Burr is awesome for explaining this.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Hey Rhinorage,

You seem kind of new here. Welcome! and thanks for posting.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

At this point it practically is the end of the relationship if a couple can’t even sleep in the same bed as each other. As a teen right now it basically is the fantasy of many guys (including myself) to sleep with a hot chick once you stop wanting to do that you pretty much just admit defeat and end it.

Of course your hot chick will eventually turn into an old bat but for the time being it is nice.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Anonymous 6]

Yea and let’s not act like sleeping with her is comfortable. Spooning equals hair in your face that could choke you in your sleep, and they like to play games like leave you with an erection and then say they are too sleepy to do anything about it.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Hey Rhinorage,

You seem kind of new here. Welcome! and thanks for posting.

I am thanks for the welcome brother.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Anonymous wrote:

Yea and let’s not act like sleeping with her is comfortable. Spooning equals hair in your face that could choke you in your sleep, and they like to play games like leave you with an erection and then say they are too sleepy to do anything about it.

Oh god i wonder where the stain in the bed came from? it might have just appeared out of thin air? now being serious i know all that s~~~ that will occur it is just due to my youth that i would want that s~~~ to occur. I could not put up with that s~~~ for happily ever after but rather just a short time.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[PacifistParticipant 143]

Different rooms? My married brother sleeps over at his girlfriends house (his girlfriend is also currently married no idea how that works) and my brothers wife is dating another guy. They’re staying “together” for my nephew.
He goes to work then goes “home” to care for his son. After putting him to bed he leaves for his girlfriends to sleep. The mind boggles.

[BeeParticipant 700]

We haven’t shared a bedroom for several years. She likes to sleep on the couch. I even bought her an expensive bed that is virtually unused. I bed she hasn’t slept in it 90 days. She also has a nice flat screen tv that is unused.

Sharing a bed is overrated.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Bee wrote:

We haven’t shared a bedroom for several years. She likes to sleep on the couch. I even bought her an expensive bed that is virtually unused. I bed she hasn’t slept in it 90 days. She also has a nice flat screen tv that is unused.

Sharing a bed is overrated.

Bee. Thanks for sharing. How often do you have sex?

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Bee wrote:

We haven’t shared a bedroom for several years. She likes to sleep on the couch. I even bought her an expensive bed that is virtually unused. I bed she hasn’t slept in it 90 days. She also has a nice flat screen tv that is unused.

Sharing a bed is overrated.

Bee. Thanks for sharing. How often do you have sex?

Im gonna guess on the holidays and on his and her birthdays. Since an exchange of gifts (aka her birthday/christmas) suddenly gets chicks back in the mood.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[BeeParticipant 700]

Usually once a week except during menstruation.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I’ve noticed this very same thing for long time. Here’s my list of couples I know who sleep in separate rooms:

Aunt & Uncle: Been married for 25+ years (in their late 70s) and have not slept in the same room for at least the last 20 years.

My Dad & Step Mom: Married 25 years (in their late 70s) and slept in separate rooms for the last 10 years until my dad died.

Close Friends #1: This couple (early 50s) has been married for about six years and together for about 15. They’ve always slept in separate rooms.

Close Friends #2: Married for 12 years (they are late 40s) and she sleeps on the sofa or in a spare room most every night.

I know there are more that I can’t remember, but still, sleeping in separate rooms seems to be the norm after a certain age.

[Al BundyParticipant 245]

I’ve never slept well with a woman in my bed. In fact, for me at least, the ideal is separate residences. You can be together when you want to, but it’s never forced. Never give up the keys to your Fortress of Solitude.

[W]e are MGTOW. We eat shaming language like tic tacs.

--chir

I have known more men destroyed by the desire to have wife and child and to keep them in comfort than I have seen destroyed by drink and harlots.

--William Butler Yeats

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

When you first starting dating a girl it is impossible to think that this could eventually happen to you. For the first six months to a year it will be like being with your best friend with constant booty calls thrown it. You will annoy your friends as you will always be the first to leave to rush home and f~~~, or she will be giving you a blowjob by the side of the road somewhere as you couldn’t even make it home. We have all been there and we all know it ends some point after month six.

Once the honeymoon period is over, the sex will stop and she will be moody and burst into tears and keep mentioning marriage. This is the s~~~ test to end all s~~~ tests. Run now and do not look back. Trust me, it will only get worse once you are married.

Otherwise marriage has only two end game situations :

1)She will want back on the c~~~ carousel. You will get divorce raped, it will all be all your fault and she will keep the house and the money. Strangely enough, after a couple of years you will realise this was the best situation of the two.

2)You will be stuck with a nagging old witch who you actively despise. You will sleep in separate rooms, never have sex and go out of your way to avoid each other as much as possible.

I think the separate bedroom thing is from our parents generation. With no fault divorce women realise they can have it all so will just cheat and divorce you rather than end up in situation 2.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Al Bundy wrote:

I’ve never slept well with a woman in my bed. In fact, for me at least, the ideal is separate residences. You can be together when you want to, but it’s never forced. Never give up the keys to your Fortress of Solitude.

@al Bundy

You, sir, totally get it. Never let her have the keys or get her foot in the door. Separate residences, because once you get them in, you will have a hell of a time getting them out.

Yes, it is your fortress, and you can defend it or lose it.

I love my peace and quiet too much to just give it up.

Frank V.

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