How To NGF About What "She" Thinks

[Hombre LibreParticipant 261]

Hi, Brothers!

As my 71st birthday approaches in a couple months, I am reviewing some of the newer things I learned. (By “newer”, I mean within the last 25 years or so).

Here is a link that you may enjoy:

http://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/07/18/stop-living-for-the-approval-of-women/

You may have read this before, however, repetition is the father of learning.

I trust that you guys will find a use for this information.

All the best to you all, HL.

[Hombre LibreParticipant 261]

By the way I don’t agree with everything he says, but we intelligent men can filter out the crap. HL

[KeymasterKeymaster]

It’s pretty good and has value, minus 2 critical flaws:

“There are a lot of women out there who are desperately waiting for their men to show up as men.”

( Then why do their work their asses off to emasculate their men on purpose ?? )

“Be more of the man she actually wants you to be.”

Busted. Female writer?? I wouldn’t be surprised.

That’s what the entire message comes down to. As long as were talking about changing attitudes, I would stop the author right there and say: “No. The art of manliness is about being the man HE always wanted to be“. Who gives a s~~~ if it pleases her at all. Female disapproval is as worthless as her approval.

It’s masked as pro-male and anti-female-approval, but “being more of the man she actually wants you to be” is ABOUT achieving female approval. It also reveals she’s trying to turn you into a weakling wussbag on purpose. LET HER HAVE HIM. IT’S EXACTLY WHAT SHE DESERVES.

If a woman is displeased with the supplicating weakling she made efforts to cultivate, then she’s her own problem.

That’s a big part of NFG (no f~~~s given).

Hombre Libre wrote:

but we intelligent men can filter out the crap.

Yes we can 🙂

Female disapproval is as worthless as her approval.

In the author’s defense – and in the interest of fairness – it’s categorized within “Dating, Marriage, Relationships & Family”. It’s about how to make that work – or at least not fail. It’s exactly like Jack Nicholson’s line to Helen Hunt: “You make me want to be a better man”.

The film was perfectly titled “as good as it gets”.
….. which is just another way of saying “not good enough”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Great article. I’ve been guilty of seeking female approval. This is one area where women are COMPLETELY CONFOUNDED – on one hand, they want us to do what they say, yet on other hand they instinctively lose respect for us if we do so. What more proof do we need that feminism has confused the s~~~ out of women??

[KhalithParticipant 41]

I had dealt a lot with that recently after I broke up with my fiancé. When I made my first post on the forums it was right after I had an epiphany.

I just asked myself “why am I seeking this approval from a woman?” I couldn’t come up with answer at all and from there I sort of “red pilled” myself. It was an important moment in my life.

[Anonymous 3]

Women do not have the merit for approval to be granted. You wouldn’t seek approval from a child so why women?

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