How to deal with blue pill friends?

[HyperionParticipant 34]

I have a friend who´s constantly complaining that he want a gf, he complains so often I can see typical behavior of someone depressed and I try to help him saying “he can do alot of things being single” but he refuses saying “I want a gf to be happy” (what?) I´m tired of this s~~~.
Should I stop being his friend or just ignore him?

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

Girl-friend is an obsolete term in my opinion. Thinking of maybe dream killer, it is more befitting.

[Jon the Ex-SquidParticipant 298]

There was a fairly wealthy family who really wanted a baby lion. Their friends and family thought they were crazy and tried desperately to change their minds but alas, to no avail. They sought and sought until at last, one day, they were able to buy a baby lion on the black market. Life was wonderful for this little family as they raised this cute little kitty cat in their home. There were even pictures of their beloved daughter laying in bed with the lion snuggled up beside her under the blanket. Then one day, when the lion was older, it ate their daughter. And the family was sad.

[Anonymous 1]

My opinion? Just walk away.

One of the things I am learning is that there is only so much you can do for others. If you push too far, you will end up being blamed for whatever goes wrong on his life, even though you have nothing to do with it.

And to be honest, I can relate with your friend. I had this phase too, as I had friends that were trying to get me out of this way of thinking (despite them being blue pill men, that’s how deep I was on “the matrix”). And, as your friend, I ignored the warnings. Some of us only learn through experience.

So, my advice would be, protect yourself. Ignore him at first, and if he persists with this way of thinking, walk away. Maybe he will wake up in time, maybe he will wake up too late, maybe he won’t wake up at all, regardless of what happens, his life is his responsibility, and is out of your control.

Good luck.

[lonestar77Participant 406]

You can walk away and ignore the moron, OR sit back and enjoy the joke of a show which his life will be soon enough.
This way it will be a constant reminder to you on how lucky you truly are. I look at all my married friends and thank god that somehow I made it through my 39yrs without getting caught in the biggest trap of man kind..pussy.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Put it to your friend this way: Who will want to date you to take on the responsibility of your happiness? What you are saying is that you are unhappy and expecting someone to fix that for you. Why would any woman want to start out with a miserable bastard that she is supposed to make happy?

You make yourself happy first, and then you bring that to the table. Now you have an asset to bargain with.

Of course the beauty of that is that once you make yourself happy first, you realize you don’t need a woman to do that for you………………Red pill moment.

Order the good wine

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Used to be like him!
Whatever anyone said i still felt the same, you cant help him. He has to find his own way in this world.

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[RoyDalParticipant]

@Norleras;
I would not abandon a friend just because he is blinded by his genetically programmed urges and impulses. He made his bed, and now he must lie in it. If, and when, he wises up (an extremely rare happening, but happen it does), then be there for him. That is if, and only if, he turns out to be a friend and not merely someone who is friendly because he needs to use you a while longer.

It is tough to tell these apart, and I have been fooled by the latter too many times. Oh well, every once and again the mud turns up a gold nugget.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

I tell every blue pill man I know the same thing: “I reserve the right to say, ‘I told you so.’ And eventually I will get to say it.”

And I leave it at that.

I’ve even made a respectable bit of change over the years betting them I will eventually get to say it. Which I generally use to buy them a beer to cry into.

[HyperionParticipant 34]

Thanks for the responses, I will try to give him some advices but if he ignores me then I will ignore him.
I forgot to say, he is “in love” with one of his female classmates which is bi, the other 3 are lesbians (there are 4 females in his classroom)

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

Depression is contagious, stay clear if he aint changeing.

[Anonymous 3]

Judging by what you have said, he’s probably one of those less attractive guys who has little success dating, and is blaming everything on himself.

Agree with him but take it a little bit further than he does. If you outright voice disagreement, chances are, he’d get very defensive and try to prove you wrong, instead of opening up to what you’re really saying. Don’t take it too far though, or you risk sounding sarcastic and confrontational.

Perhaps try something along the lines of this.

He: “I want a GF to be happy.”
You: “Yeah, you’re right. I know exactly what you mean. It’s almost like the only way us guys can be happy. *Sign* If only women see it like the same way…”

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Anonymous wrote:

There was a fairly wealthy family who really wanted a baby lion. Their friends and family thought they were crazy and tried desperately to change their minds but alas, to no avail. They sought and sought until at last, one day, they were able to buy a baby lion on the black market. Life was wonderful for this little family as they raised this cute little kitty cat in their home. There were even pictures of their beloved daughter laying in bed with the lion snuggled up beside her under the blanket. Then one day, when the lion was older, it ate their daughter. And the family was sad.

I spent decades like your friend. Aliens landing on my front lawn could not have convinced me that I was being foolish, and that a) women were not ever going to make me happy because they were selfish children, and b) only I could make myself happy. Lots of people tried to tell me to do something else with my life. I ignored them.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

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