How to be an alpha male with pictures

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Alright, well with little success of trying to vote a certain video into the site’s video archive, probably due to the video dragging too long to make the point across, I decided to have a little more fun in the next topic I am going to post.

http://m.wikihow.com/Become-an-Alpha-Male

With pictures and all, this article is a much easier view than that 28 minute video that I posted earlier so enjoy. Do any of you guys actually agree with this article? Just because you are an alpha male, it doesn’t mean that you have to date girls, even though there are girls who would want to pursue you. I doubt that true alpha males even read up on what it takes to be an alpha male by the way but I just wish to make a discussion. I myself wished that I used some dumbbells in high school rather than later on in life. There were a few people in my high school who did body build and not many people could mess with them unless people would attack them as a group. I hope this will be fun for you all to discuss.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22589]

These “alpha games” all end in the same way. This is how men made themselves big targets. These men stand up, and all but say to the world, “Hey look at me. I am successful and handsome. Please, the rest of the world. Come screw me over in every way possible. Come tear me down every way possible. Come steal everything I have. And have me become a debt slave to some slut that used me and threw me away, only for me to be forced to pay her by court order for the rest of my life, or go to jail, without trial, for the rest of my life.”

When I hear people talking about these “alpha games” I feel like banging my head against a wall in frustration at the stupidity I see before me.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Faust For Science wrote:

These “alpha games” all end in the same way. This is how men made themselves big targets. These men stand up, and all but say to the world, “Hey look at me. I am successful and handsome. Please, the rest of the world. Come screw me over in every way possible. Come tear me down every way possible. Come steal everything I have. And have me become a debt slave to some slut that used me and threw me away, only for me to be forced to pay her by court order for the rest of my life, or go to jail, without trial, for the rest of my life.”

When I hear people talking about these “alpha games” I feel like banging my head against a wall in frustration at the stupidity I see before me.

Well said sir. Why try to be an alpha when you can be a ghost. Less stress, less drama, less problems. Have a spine and don’t take s~~~ from people…but you don’t have to try to be the center of attention either.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

A bunch of lame posturing and clowning for female attention.

Alpha my ass!!!

[chirParticipant]

Translation:
How to be a Alpha Peac~~~….

Some men want to be Alpha peac~~~s. Me I would rather be a MGHOW Owl. Looks kinda funny but you sure as f~~~ don’t want to screw with it.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[CaliParticipant 753]

The only reason I could ever imagine wanting to be perceived as an alpha would be for work-related reasons to get a promotion or something. If I really wanted to be perceived as an alpha, I’d buy some of those fancy alpha pheromones that are so popular in that crowd. Even if it’s just a placebo effect, it’ll still be worth it.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[RiargsParticipant 320]

It is possible to be an “Alpha Male” and not be a player, gay or involved with what we euphemistically call “women” in today’s society.

Admittedly it’s rare, but they’re out there.

"In my many years I have come to the conclusion that one useless man is a shame, two are a law firm and three or more is a Government..." - John Adams

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22589]

Beer wrote:

Well said sir. Why try to be an alpha when you can be a ghost. Less stress, less drama, less problems. Have a spine and don’t take s~~~ from people…but you don’t have to try to be the center of attention either.

Exactly. There really is not long term benefit to being an alpha. It is all ego and confidence that can be torn down at a moments notice.

And you cannot take it with you.

Chir, those pictures you posted are a good comparison. The peac~~~ is looking to be plucked. While the owl only appears when he has too.

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

I remembered this one time that I was room mates with a self proclaimed alpha male. I was scared sh*t of him towards the end of my time there because he would do anything just to preserve his awesome reputation, because he would defend his reputation with his life if he had to. This is why dealing with alpha males are so unpleasant, because they would do anything at all just to protect their reputation with no boundaries at all. This is how it is like to deal with these alpha males and I am sure that the typical alpha males are just one bar fight away to getting hospitalized or even killed.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[jack reacherParticipant 751]

Code Bunker, I think you should consider Riargs comment again. Alpha doesnt necessarily mean pussy chaser or mangina/white knighter. I think it just means being a capable and confident man who has drive. That simple.

That is the kind of stuff that got us the solutions we have today, to everything, and will continue to provide solutions. It wont be affirmative action nonsense, hoping another demographic will step up, if only they were facilitated. If they had capability, confidence and drive, there would be no need for affirmative action facilitation.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I always found alpha males to be a big pain in the ass.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[RiargsParticipant 320]

Maybe my definition is dated, but to me an Alpha Male is one who knows himself, knows what he is capable of, knows how to achieve it (or is learning it as he slugs along), and most IMPORTANTLY is intimately familiar with his dreams and aspirations and will not sacrifice them for anybody or anything – especially women.

I know it is common to portray “Alpha Males” as PUA’s, or Players, or as OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) Bosses and Office Managers, or any number of other definitions of just plain mean miserable pricks and Blue Pill sucklers at the tit of the Feminist Gynocracy, but I think this is shortsighted. That is THEIR definition, not mine.

Their definition allows the Sell-Outs, Losers and Lower Orders of Men to be accorded a status and respect they do not deserve – they have all either been 100% women controlled from birth and never questioned it or they have adopted their behaviors at different stages of their lives to score with Hags and survive and thrive in the Gynocracy.

Remember Aldous Huxley’s 1930’s book “Brave New World”? In that fictional world people in society are stratified strictly into groups of “Alphas”, “Betas”, “Deltas”, “Epsilons” and “Gammas”.

The Alphas were the overlords, the big Dreamers with the Big Goals who got the Big Picture, and most all they mastered themselves and then mastered society.

The Betas were the “Middle Management” types, those that could still think halfway decently – albeit not creatively – and they followed and gave orders superbly.

The Deltas were the upper level workers – the shop foremen, the assembly line managers, and so forth.

The Epsilons were the “average” workers – able to follow orders, not think, and then drug themselves with the euphoria inducing mind dulling drug “SOMA” when off work so they didn’t cause problems.

The Gammas – the lowest level of that society – were the mindless drudges, not capable of any thought above the basest impulses, and barely capable of repetitive work. They were the only ones allowed to use the drug SOMA at all times, because what they did for society was so simple even a chimp could do it, and even a drunk chimp can still press a button or a keyboard.

The way I see it today most men in Western Civilization are the equivalent of Brave New World’s Epsilons and Gammas. The average “Blue Pill” factory worker/laborer in the USA today has no idea why he really has a hag Land Whale wife, a huge mortgage, a hideous job, and a mountain of bills. Aside from the pleasantries and diversions of sports, TV, beer/drugs (the modern version of Soma) and sex with whatever hag will have him at the moment, he has no real dreams or aspirations other then to get from one day to the next. He only knows that somehow in some way this is how he “learned” to live. For all intents and purposes this is the modern MGTOW definition of the “Mangina” and “Blue Pill” idiot.

Today the Delta’s are the brain dead simpleton “White Knights” of MGTOW definition. They do what they do and never ever question it, and save Gamma brained women from themselves and their self-imposed disasters time and time again.

Then we have todays Beta’s. These pinheads are incorrectly labeled as “Alpha Males” by society. They are just bright enough to “game” the system the Lower Order Gammas, Epsilons and Deltas can never quite figure out, so they accumulate wealth, possessions and women better then the Lower Orders can – and they are “envied” by the Lower Orders all out of proportion to what they actually are.

Finally – you guessed it – are the modern day true “Alpha” males. These are the guys who can think for themselves, who see reality as well as Human Beings can possibly see it, and who are not constrained by any of the thinking of the Lower Orders of Man.

They struggle valiantly to accomplish their dreams with the steely eyed certainty of TRUE CONVICTION.

They do not accord the Lower Orders any special significance.

And women are below the Lower Orders of Man, so they don’t even register in the minds of the Alphas.

THE MODERN DAY ALPHA MALE IS MGTOW ALL THE WAY!

"In my many years I have come to the conclusion that one useless man is a shame, two are a law firm and three or more is a Government..." - John Adams

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22589]

Riargs wrote:

I know it is common to portray “Alpha Males” as PUA’s, or Players, or as OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) Bosses and Office Managers, or any number of other definitions of just plain mean miserable pricks and Blue Pill sucklers at the tit of the Feminist Gynocracy, but I think this is shortsighted. That is THEIR definition, not mine.

Dealing with alpha men is dealing with a person that will not accept “no” for an answer. Only, this “no” does not involve sex. This ‘no’ involves how alpha men treat sane men. Alpha men will not accept men not falling in line and being obedient without question to said alpha man.

This is henpecking for men. And most men do not tolerate this treatment.

And alpha men will not give five seconds of their time to other men. Though, alpha men will give women the time of day and hurt other men in the hopes of getting pussy.

And the only reason us sane men do not harm alpha men is we know these alpha men are going to screw up their lives far worse than anything we could do to them. So, we sane men just wait to see when the fireworks happen. And we just stand back and watch.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Faust For Science wrote:

Dealing with alpha men is dealing with a person that will not accept “no” for an answer. Only, this “no” does not involve sex. This ‘no’ involves how alpha men treat sane men. Alpha men will not accept men not falling in line and being obedient without question to said alpha man.

I’m pretty sure I’ve trolled just about every guy like this I’ve ever met as they are really powerless to do anything…unless of course he was one of my bosses at work, then I’d say yes sir and do what needed done lol.

[Be Her DaddyParticipant 410]

How to be an Alpha Provider: with video

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Whenever I see a woman “trying” to be sexy, my alarms go off. She’s selling something or running a con that depends on my being horny and stupid and having some money that I’d be willing to part with.

Maybe it’s because I live in Las Vegas where 80% of the women are hot, young mercenaries just out to use their sex appeal to get paid.

Their sex appeal does not appeal to me. I’m not turned on by big fake t~~~, come hither stares, tight skirts, cat eye makeup or stripper heels and I’m not turned on by carefully staged pseudo-nerdy, goofy, deliberately bitchy or innocent victim behavior either.

As Carlin would say, it’s all bulls~~~ and it’s bad for you. I can’t imagine TRYING to be the kind of guy who attracts the kind of women who go after alpha men in order to deliberately invite that kind of crap into my life. Alpha men are marks and women are just waiting for the opportunity for them to accumulate enough wealth and social success for it to be worth their time to take it.

Honestly, the true path to happiness is to ascend to the level where you are most effective and most happy then stay there. If you’re a natural leader, lead. If you’re a natural loner, go it alone. Not every dog can or should be the top one… it’s a fallacy to think so and doubly a fallacy to try to be something you’re not just to get women to f~~~ you.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

What the f~~~ was that? How to be ‘alpha’ for 9 year olds?

2 Assume your position.

I wonder what position that is……

Fuck this planet.

[narwhalParticipant]

Eh, I’d rather be myself.

One thing I’ve noticed in my 40+ years is I’m not at my best when I’m the top dog. Any project I’ve been involved with, whether it be work or social, has done better when I’m not the top guy, but I excel at being the right hand man or something similar. As well, I’ve seen several good men get promoted to the point where they can no longer do their job and are miserable. No thank you.

I understand that isn’t exactly what ‘alpha’ means, but I think the principle is the same. That said, I do think it’s worthwhile to get an education on the whole ‘alpha’ theory and such, and take away what makes sense for you. Just as an example, I’ve take a closer look at my posture, as it does show strength/weakness, whether intended or not. That’s good advice in general.

Ok. Then do it.

[RigParticipant 52]

I have similar view on that as Riargs. And I think that the term “alfa” is understood very broad here.

Some of you see a “macho”, some a ego driven boss and some a PUA. I think that those are alfas in their own fields of operation.
For me an alfa male is someone who rule the rest, by force (physical or mental), get most females by power he posses. Management of this power is his sole goal, cause that is what grands him the status of a an alfa. It’a all about power, ego and domination.

And in most cases those are toxic people. Many fall into arrogance.

I always wanted to define myself rather as a gentleman. And whoa! Stay with me on that one. This word today just a synonym with “alfa male”. And it’s not true. Vintage cars, suit and black-and-white pick of girls in stocking in not the case.
I would pick some points from that “guide” in the pirst post:
1. Be confident. – why? Because you know who you are and you have nothing to be ashamed off. No one is better than you and you are not better then anyone. And absolutely not cause they have kids, house or a massive mortgage.
2. Assume your position. – but first pick it by your self! Then stand up for it. It’s your life.
6. Listen – duh…
9 Be honest. – lying is ineffective. Why would you lie in the first place? To get validation? If you lie are you ashamed of what have you done? (there are many cases but those are good questions)
10 Dress well. – no one should do it. But it does it’s work. Good clothes works not only on women but on men also.
11 Learn how to flirt. – or rather “learn how to handle women”. Take the red pill and know what they are after. Don’t get confused by them, etc.
12 Develop new skills. – as we all should. If something is truly fulfilling its this! Excelling.
13 Above all, be a leader. – of yourself!
…And some more.

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