How The F~~~ Do You Get Over Red Pill Rage?

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

You don’t get over it, you use it for something constructive.You can’t dissipate this sort of anger, but you can channel it into something that benefits you instead of handicapping you. Finding a healthy way to vent your anger makes everything else so much easier. Workout, play games, make youtube videos and rant til you can’t rant anymore. So long as you do something with this rage and don’t just bottle it up, then it turns inward and becomes destructive.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

I just had to accept the fact that they will not change. The rage went away after I stopped expecting them to be angels.

Of course, I still hold them accountable as adults. I just never expect them to act like such.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

After I learned the true nature of women; I was angry for about 2 years or so. Then I read up on Evolutionary Psychology, as well as articles that link much of human behavior to our genes. Probably the biggest article: one that knocked my socks off on just how large a part our genes play in our behavior was an article about 2 identical twin boys born to a Jewish Father and a Catholic German Woman just before the outbreak of WWII. The parents split up when the twins were 6 months old. One kid stayed with the Father in Jamaica, the other kid went with the Mother to Nazi Germany. There was ZERO contact between the two siblings until many years later when both were adults. They met each other for the first time in Germany. Both had mustaches trimmed the same way, both married women that were very similar to each other, both had the same style in grooming and clothing.

It was after reading this article that I realized just how important evolutionary psychology plays in women’s behavior. With the exception of the last 5000 years: the human race lives in very small tribes of hunter gatherers, in constant danger from nature as well as other tribes. Life was precarious…both men and women developed patterns of behavior that allowed for the human species to survive.

For men it was solving problems and manipulating nature around them (making tools, figuring out how much to lead on running game when throwing a spear or shooting an arrow, how to build traps, going to war with other tribes, hunting, etc.) For women: their survival depended on mating with the most aggressive male who was also a good hunter, and being able to manipulate men in order to get what they needed in order to survive.

To this day we see these patterns of behavior in both men and women. Asking and expecting people to change their behavior based on 2 million years of evolution because those characteristics are no longer needed and in fact are detrimental in today’s world with civilization and modern technology is ridiculous.

Most of the hyper aggressive and violent men that women are sexually attracted to; are in prisons (for good reason). Our technology and civilization based on that technology has changed at a much faster rate than we as a species have evolved.

Our laws reflect biases in favor of women. These laws are left over from a time when women were not equals in society (couldn’t vote, couldn’t get a decent paying job, were stay at home mothers, etc). These laws no longer accurately reflect the needs of today’s society. And these laws do not take into account evolutionary psychology: human behavior. Because of this women have incentives to behave badly, and families are torn apart.

And ever since women got the vote: they have been pushing for entitlement programs that benefit women, and as these programs have grown, women have in increasing numbers viewed males as more disposable than they did in the past. The state has in effect replaced the role of the father and husband.

So what to do?
Obviously we can’t change the world. The only thing we can do as Men; is to protect ourselves.
The first step in protecting ourselves is to distance ourselves from women. NEVER MARRY and NEVER Co-habitate! By doing this women are powerless to use the system to forcibly extract wealth that we generated by our hard work.

Family Laws and Family Courts main purpose is to transfer wealth from Men to Women directly.

The other transfer is indirectly through taxes with tax money being allocated to entitlement programs that benefit women.

To fight this latter: a man can simply NOT work or work under the table and/or live off the grid. Can’t collect taxes from a man if he doesn’t have money. This is one way; but when you are old and grey…too old to work you will need shelter, food and medical care.

A better way is to save your money, invest it, then when you have built up enough wealth. Get citizenship in another country, transfer your money out of the United States and give up your US citizenship.

Most countries tax people based on where they live. Only the US taxes people based on Citizenship.
For example: get Israeli Citizenship, move to Israel, turn in your US passport, show 5 years of tax returns, file all of the paperwork, and give up your US citizenship. Then move to Ecuador and get Ecuadoran residency and live there as an Israeli Expat. Ecuador does NOT tax money that comes in from outside of its borders. The money can be held in investment accounts in Panama or the Grand Cayman Islands. Or you could even live on a sailboat (living aboard a 30 foot sailboat costs an average of $20K per year for everything) and you could just sail around the world. Weighing anchor when you get tired of the weather or fellow boaters or when you just want a change of sceneary.

The cost of living aboard a sailboat gets even lower if you don’t eat and drink ashore, and if you anchor instead of tying up at a dock or mooring line and paying fees.

For spare cash: you could do boat deliveries. Lots of sailboat owners move and need their sailboats moved to a new location.

[LightBringerParticipant 440]

In for answers. I thought I was over it, but even just today on a forum some girls were being utter c~~~s about U GO GIRL type of thing when guys needed help, and I started raging so hard. I finished my screed and thought ‘why the f~~~ am I still so angry years later?’

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I have some tips here that may help. Pick and choose. I have my own take, and never had the relationship stuff as bad as other guys. I would say I have a decent BS filter overall, dumping a stripper at one time I was seeing after I got enough out of the trainwreck I was witnessing, and I never married. However, I have dealt with a bunch of issues and had to deal with them. Here is some things, and I may be blunt here, but sort, and discard what you don’t like:

* Get a life. In short here, focus on what you need to do, limit the scope to your own stuff. Have positive and constructive things you can benefit from, and focus those. In short, it involves finding your place in the world, that you can get resource so you can better order your life to help you. I had “get a life” as a blunt way of summing it up. Really short, so long as you have holes in your life, you will focus on how the world sucks.

* Work to get better deals in life for yourself, and stop trying to change the world, or fight what you see as injustice. If you want to try to change the world, go MRA, and get a lot of mock and ridicule as you keep pushing a rock up a hill and see it gets nowhere, which will rage. You can opt out of as much as possible.

* Take an inventory of good things in your life, and have some thanks for these.

* Realize things are what they are and you aren’t going to change them. Only realize your reach is within your grasp.

* Eliminate all myths, BS, lies and anything not useful for yourself. Clear your mind of these.

* Learn how to be genuine about things, and build a positive identity for yourself, in a way that the world isn’t going to get into your business. Your goal is a better life for yourself, not some sort of bigger pointless cause that means you can’t advance unless the world changes. You want to set it up so you have a degree of ghosting and no one gets into your life and pester you. If you are doing MGTOW stuff here, and have them, keep these views away from the world, and look to reframe them. I had suggested, for example, to go with NoWALT, rather than NAWALT, so when you deal with meddlers who want to set you up with a woman or pry, you can just say you have very high standards, and just don’t have time for low standards. You may know all women are like such and such, but the world doesn’t need to know this.

* Set up stronger personal boundaries, so you have real friends and positive social connections, of those who help, and get rid of the weeds.

* Work to get your finances and health in order, so you have additional resources. With this is also included building more filters so you get good information to think on.

* Realize the cold reality is the world doesn’t care you exist. Real friends may and they matter, but not the rest. So long as you keep worrying about strangers and so on, you will get frustrated. Set your life up so you don’t need to argue with feminists, etc… Get out of that.

* Realize that, until you have things to replace rage you have, it will be there.

With all that, the real short is to find your own way in life, own it and focus on it, and filter out and ignore anything that doesn’t fit it. Up your game, as it were, and shift your focus.

Again, take anything I said of value, and use it, and throw out the rest.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[PuebloboyParticipant 18]

Videos like this make it better:

But videos like these make me worried too:

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

I look at reality innelectually and not emotionaly.

Im not going to let people make me angry.Anymore.

I avoid women,limit my contact with them whenever possible and do things so that they dont notice me.
I too spend time in the forest.There too i take precautions.For example animals like bears are best avoided.Im usualy careful to make sure i do not get tick bites.Ticks transmit Lyme disease in my area.Water here can and does harbor dangerious reptiles,leaches and other things best avoided.

Almost in similiar ways to real life.Anamals and things in the forest require careful consideration.

Being angry you harm yourself.Inside.

99.9999% of women are toxic life forms best avoided.

Some men are too.

Think with your head and not with your heart.Unleash your inner nerd.
He has always had more important things to worry about besides what some populiar halfwit acting blonde is whispering about.Or what she might whisper about.His mind had better things to think about besides trying to charm said blonde into paying him some positive attention.Young smart schoolboys always knew this.Some of us forgot these things and some failed to listen .

Eventualy you approach a state of IDontGiveAF~~~nes.

If i got into another relationship there would be things about the woman that i would have to put up with.I choose not to.O f~~~ing well.I shrug my shoulders and walk away.

MGTOW.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[InTheCountryParticipant 199]

It is different for every man I think. Some guys do it easier than others. Some guys kill themselves or other people. For me, I had to go back and try again with dating/sex and get the same s~~~ty result many times before I learned. I had to be so emotionally and mentally full of grief to the point where I couldn’t deny the connection between women in my life and suffering. Only when I began to truly see that pursuing women, or having women in my life was something that caused me grief and that the pleasure/love I was seeing in my mind was an illusion, could I really let it go.

I had to be literally sick of them.

[darreljamesonParticipant 57]

man, what is with all the coders? you guys must be making so much money. I kinda relate with the vibe though. Saturday night and I’m getting an Uber home from the lab because it is getting a little late. This woman, that is driving for Uber Saturday night (irony?), is just amazed that I worked late and on Saturday.

I told her I finally got some synthesis to work that this other guy found but only got to work about half the time, and it had not worked for me yet. I changed some things and maybe figured out why it is so temperamental. Like half the time, there is no reaction at all. If my version consistently works, and I could tell the reaction happened just from the appearance, then I am on my way to yet another paper with my name on it that can be accessed online all over the world.

This is how researchers build a resume. I’m not in there getting hours or overtime, I’m in there isolating the stuff because I don’t want it to get ruined from sitting around too long…since I did the reaction Friday evening, and usually we let it cool and isolate the next day or later that night. This isn’t for a bigger paycheck, it is for a higher paying job and an achievement that will follow me literally forever. Meanwhile, she is earning money 5-10 dollars at a time Saturday night to probably blow on useless crap or rent. If you save that money, invest it, pay down your debt then fine, but if it is just for blowing then my work is a far better investment.

Before you say NAWALT, condemn those women publicly; it's like a signal flare to the good men you can't find. But. first...stop being THAT girl.

[RennieParticipant]

Time. Just took time to process through it. Now I am indifferent and it’s great.

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