How long did you search for a unicorn?

[hadenough1969Participant 539]

Before you finally accepted there are none?

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Over 30 years of my life.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

I’d say 13 years, give or take. Not that I ever had many opportunities.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[ShineParticipant 1696]

18–>33 swallowing blue pills,
didn’t get myself too c~~~ struck.

Nightlife near me sucked,
wasn’t successful in my younger years.

When I wanted women they didn’t want me,
now they want me I’m happier flying solo.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[OldBillParticipant]

Off and on for maybe 25 years. I’d go through Red Pill phases, Blue Pill phases, Purple Pill phases, you name it. As I approached 40, however, the Red Pill came to stay.

Oddly enough, it’s women I have to thank for it. Women worked very hard to teach me over those 25 years that they aren’t worth my time, my labor, my assets, or my attention.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[hadenough1969Participant 539]

So for those of us new to MGTOW…I guess the faster we realize and accept it the better…

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

hadenough1969 wrote:

So for those of us new to MGTOW…I guess the faster we realize and accept it the better

Would be my suggestion.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Well into my late 30s before I realized it was a lost cause, into my early 40s before actually giving up the chase completely.

[coolthingy450Participant 1223]

Two years. My folks think that they are the exception. Nope, sorry they are not.

My mom and my sister said they will keep a lookout for a “nice girl” I’m sorry but what world do they live in?

Actions have consequences and consequences have prices. Cause and effect at work.

[President CamachoParticipant 941]

Started around age 14 or so. The final nail in the coffin came when I was 27. She was a supposedly “good Christian girl” and I thought for sure she would be girlfriend material, then she turned out to be a lying conniving whore. Some poor schlub married her and now she’s gotten pregnant while he works two jobs to support her.

A Western marriage that survives in the current year is an act of mercy and compassion by the woman.

[Anonymous 2]

Too long

[Anonymous 3]

I never really searched for one. Back then, I would just carry myself a certain way, as best as I possibly could, hoping I would send out the right energy vibration and attract the right women. After a while, I realized it was all in my head and everything was one way, from me to her.

[Anonymous 1]

0 seconds.
I do not like to dig big piles of s~~~ in order to find a diamond.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

I was infatuated with a girl I went to school with from 6th grade to the end of high school, but that was about it. Nothing ever came of it.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

OldBill wrote:

Off and on for maybe 25 years. I’d go through Red Pill phases, Blue Pill phases, Purple Pill phases, you name it. As I approached 40, however, the Red Pill came to stay.

Oddly enough, it’s women I have to thank for it. Women worked very hard to teach me over those 25 years that they aren’t worth my time, my labor, my assets, or my attention.

I turned 40 this year. Recently I’ve accepted AWALT. There a few I deal with who treat me well but the modern cesspit of dating soon teaches you the harsh realities. It’s been a case of a series of red pills for me, each one more bitter to swallow. You can’t afford to take them seriously, or invest anything in them. I recently invited a girl to drive through to see me and she complained the distance was too far so I thanked her for her kind response, deliberately got her name wrong and told her that cancellation had worked well for me because I’d been able to invite someone else instead who was bringing me cold powders and how I thought that was sweet of them (I’ve been sick). Let them know they are replaceable and disposable or ignore them completely. NO special snowflakes, NO unicorns.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Anonymous 1]

For me, about 20 years.

When I hit 30, I realised that something wasn’t quite right with women, but since we are constantly fed romantic crap on TV and in movies, you sort of keep your hopes up.

A few years later I came across Eddie Murphy’s RAW while listening to a comedy station on iTunes, where he talks about the “jungle bitch” that goes from being a nice woman to absolute bitch and I realised it’s statistically impossible to find a Unicorn and that it was a one-sided game where women hold all the power and men are guaranteed to lose no matter what.

I started looking online to see if anyone else noticed this, came across the Spearhead website and after that went down I came across this site, maybe because I googled “women are crazy” and came across a video from Sandman that mentioned MGTOW, and then googled that.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

until my early 30s. The nature of women baffled me for a long time, until I actually realized that overall, I was happier when I was single and not looking than when I was in a relationship or when I was single and dating.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

wrong approach, don’t hunt, they are an endangered species anyway.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[GeraldParticipant 3642]

Until about mid-year this year… even though married. So… taking out the years when I was still a boy who didn’t care about girls… 34 years.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[SimpleLifeParticipant 439]

Not sure how long I searched. I was married young, and post divorce it didn’t take me long to realize that there aren’t many women out there who are worth the effort, if at all. So maybe, 6 years of actual searching.

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