How I became the master of my own life

[freehikerParticipant 6]

I’m 24 years old guy living in the Southern hemisphere. I came across a MGTOW video on youtube and I realized this is the way i always have been. here is my little story:

I was an average kid in the school who was born and raised in a village. I never chased girls in high-school as my upbringing had told me i was not old enough to have a girlfriend. Still, i had one at the age of 16. we were together for 3 months and in those 3 months she  just made me allergic to bulls~~~. Too much bitching and whining and she felt like a parasite who wont let me do anything I wanted to do. I used to have a small piece of land where i grew salad vegetables to sell to the local restaurants on the nearby highway. I spent a lot of my hard-earned money buying her stuff and taking her out on dates and long rides on my motorbike.
Calling her every night and morning, wishing her morning/night. listening to her bulls~~~ stories and gossips of her friends, even singing her goodnight songs.  I quit after 3 months and told her she was too much for me to handle as i had better things to take care of. She did a HUGE drama and sent texts and called MY friends complaining how unfair i had been to her as i used her for sex. ( would have been much much cheaper to spend on a hooker ).
I focused myself on studies and work and with some money in my pocket from my small business, i always had things i needed and kept a good motorbike, successfully staying clear of the parasitical “hot girls”.
I had a serious relationship with a Dutch girl at 23. She was really good and sincere and she was older than me. we met on a hike and it turned out to be a nice relationship. She was a 6 or 7 and I really liked her. went Dutch on dates ( she paid full on some ). It was all going really good.
She had to leave the country for visa reasons and she went back to South Africa where she had stayed earlier and she saw Capetown as her home. She wanted me to move there with her and i didnt wanted to set foot in the most violent and racist country on the planet ( active anti-white govt policies… im not white ). we were in a long-distance relationship for over a year and then the distance broke whatever we had between us.
I know that i have not lost anything  as I never spent money to open her legs. I’m happy the way i am living and currently studying to further my career and I’m glad i got off easy.
I DO NOT plan to have any relationship in the future. I’m happy spending all my money on myself and regularly go hunting, hiking, fishing and all such activities. free as a bird with no cage in sight. It’s really a great feeling when you decline the advances of women who think you are their next host to sponge-off. Honesty is not valued much these days.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Freehiker. Pleasure to welcome you.

“My friends complaining how unfair i had been .. as i used her for sex”

It’s such transparent bulls~~~ when women behave like they are “used for sex”. And I make a point of calling them out on it – every chance I get. Your girlfriend wasn’t “used for sex” because you didn’t TAKE anything that she didn’t willingly GIVE you.

Women pretend they were “used for sex” whenever a guy JUST DOESN’T LIKE HER ANYMORE. But instead of admitting she is too much trouble, a greedy bitch, a selfish parasite, not interesting, not worth it etc… she blames the guy, and pretends he “used her for sex”. Women simply REFUSE to accept personal responsibility and admit there is something wrong with them, they are not likable, she’s an entitlement princess, or you don’t see her as a wife or the mother of your children. SO you break up with her and now you “used her for sex”.

It’s a s~~~ test and a great big fat f~~~ing LIE.

A man doesn’t get to say he was “used for money” either. She can’t reach into his wallet and STEAL it unless he SPENDS it on her – himself. She didn’t TAKE anything form her that he didn’t willingly GIVE her. But if he signs a marriage contract, he’s agreeing to giving it away now. Thank whatever God you believe in that it isn’t YOU.

The girl who loves to pretend she was “used for sex” will be the first to cry false “rape” after she has sex on a first (or third) date, and the guy doesn’t call her back the next day. But she can’t really pull that stunt on her “boyfriend”, so AGAIN, thank whatever God you believe in that it wasn’t YOU.

He “used me for sex” just p~~~es me off.

NO bitch. He just DOESN”T LIKE YOU. Accept it.

Big gratz on your freedom , Hiker. Enjoy it. And welcome to MGTOW.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

“How I Became the Master of my Own Life.”  Such a Powerful Title.

To Become a Master of my Own Life, these are the lessons I’ve learned from the Brethren and am reinforcing since coming to MGTOW:

EIGHT-FOLDED PATH OF MGTOW

(1) Go my own way

(2) Choose my own path.  Live, Plan, and Enjoy the Freedom of the Open Road.

(3) Take responsibility for the choices I make. Be willing to pay the price for my actions.  Be prepared to reap the benefits of my actions too.  Going my own way reaps more benefits than costs.

(4) NEVER enter into a Marriage Contract…ever. EVER, EVER.

(5) NEVER live with a Woman. EVER.    No keys to my home.  Mi Casa is not Su Casa.

(6) Roses are Dead.  Romance is Bullshiet and Expensive as F~~~.  Romance can cost me MY LIFE.  Alimony, babymama drama, child support=DEATH OF A SALESMAN.

(7) If I want some Pussy, I get some Pussy.  Never get caught up in Pussy.  I don’t need to Own a Restaurant to get a Hamburger.

(a)  Look out for Number One. Pussy is NEVER Number One.  Number 100 either.

(b)  Treat Pussy based on who she really is, not what you wish Pussy could be.

(i)  Don’t Dress Her.  Don’t Try to Change her. Don’t try to Save her.  I’m Not Pussy Jesus.

(ii)  Stop fantasizing hoping that Pussy can become your Wife. Never Wife-Up the Pussy.

(iii)  Don’t make Pussy your Girlfriend.  Girlfriend-ing the Pussy is essentially the same as Wife-ing Up the Pussy.  NEVER dress the Pussy in Wife Clothing.  Otherwise, you will lose your Fukin’ Shirt.

(iv) Don’t share your deepest darkest secrets with Pussy. Keep some shiet even from yourself.  If you don’t, a muthaf~~~a will spill the beans on you if she ever felt betrayed or disillusioned.

(b) Pay your own way. Never pay Pussy’s way.

(c) Pussy paying your way?  Tread carefully. Pussy might decide to cook you a meal, go hiking, take a trip…But be careful…Pussy will usually expect some commitment in return…especially if their emotions get involved.  Otherwise, Pussy will become your Watery Grave.

(d) When Pussy starts to obligate you, get the f~~~ out of there.  Quick.

(e) If Pussy shows any displeasure with you, get the f~~~ out of there. Super-Duper Quick.

(f) Mock my clothes, shoes, taste in music, personal style…Get the f~~~ out of there.  No explanation.

(g) If Pussy doesn’t treat you as an equal, violates your boundaries, or attempts to manipulate you, Get the f~~~ out of there.

(h) Always be in a position where you can easily walk away, in terms of both logistics and your mental attitude.

8. Know yourself and don’t let anyone change the core of your being.  Never let your guard down; Protect yourself and your path.

[freehikerParticipant 6]

between those years, I did had few women i used to have sex with. I never showed any attachment to them and made them feel that I liked them, but they were easily replaceable. That way, i escaped any relations~~~ and still had sex, though not regularly ( gap of many weeks ).

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Freehiker, unless you want to lose man points for wearing a bathing cap I am going to out you as as an Sikh. [;’]. In that other great southern hemispheric nation, Oz, you would be called a “Jolly Swagman”.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[freehikerParticipant 6]

yes, I’m a Sikh, but not religious. In that pic i’m swimming in a river with full clothes on. Will visit Australia soon though.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Yeah, Sikhism looks pretty good as far as religion goes- except you are naughty to  have the premarital sex Mr Singh! I appreciate their lack of clergy, and the egalitarian nature of the religion. Australia has quite a few Indians- they seem to have cornered the 24 hour convenience store and a lot of service stations and taxi drivers. Must make you guys pretty strong swimmers! Why is it so special not to cut hair?

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[freehikerParticipant 6]

It was a symbol of being the way the creator intended us to be. also, only the elite had long hair as the muslim rulers had enforced a very strict crackdown on everything non-muslim. it was an act of defiance and the declaration of sovereignty ( having long hairs and turbans )

the woman was worth it and the sex was good. enjoyed it.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Ahh, that makes sense. It is better to be volcel then incel. I have now been volcel for 3444 days (but who is counting?).

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

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