How do I stay steadfast when she's always in my space

[BasiParticipant 2]

I’m a 24 year old young man who has had a lot of difficulties with women. I even had a girlfriend who allowed my friend to have sex with her in his CAR and RECORDED it. The disrespect! I knew all about it though, she thought she was breaking up a good friendship. I haven’t been able to trust or have a girlfriend after that experience. It forced the red pill on me, loosing interest in dating.. I’ve been partially MGTOW until I actually found you guys on you tube. (my big brothers, uncles and fathers) I salute you all for your help through sharing your experiences. I’ve been truly enlightened and everything I do these days solely has to be on my terms and beneficial to me. I don’t have friends anymore because they are all shallow blue pillers who think I’m being extreme with my decisions. I recently started talking to a girl at my job after she continually approached me for a couple of weeks. I let her know I wasn’t ready for any kind of relationship but we could hook up if she’s fine with that( which she isn’t) she’s been confusing me and I need help! I’m easily seduced and I think she can tell when she’s getting to me. How can I stand my ground regardless cuz I see her throughout the week..

[joetechParticipant]

At 24 your hormones are raging and so are your emotions. It sounds like you need to expand your social circle a bit more. Find some new hobbies and meet new people. Don’t try to replace your ex GF. That’s probably what that girl at work is thinking. The less interest you show in her the more likely she’ll move on to someone easier to control. Be set in your ways and uncompromising…this really p~~~es them off. Better to be p~~~ed off than p~~~ed on. A lack of interest on your part may send her the message. If not, try telling her your busy. After all, you’re at work, right?

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Many approaches. But since you seem to want to go full red pill (I’m more purple-pill… I will never marry again, but I have two girlfriends who don’t know about each other because I think relationships are a joke, but I still like to get laid — and I have a vasectomy) — I’d say tell her the truth.

That you don’t want relationships, ever. Only hookups. And if you DO hookup with her, be careful, on multiple levels/angles. Condoms — she might poke holes, or tempt you with not using one. Emotionally — she might get in your head and f~~~ your brain up like Hannibal Lecter f~~~ing up Clarisse. False accusations — she could get p~~~ed at you and accuse you of rape, and virtually end your life.

Women are dangerous, like sweaty dynamite. Handle with care.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[BasiParticipant 2]

I have made a conscious decision to not lie about my intentions and it seems to work.. some girls see the seriousness in my new found lifestyle and leave me alone but others think they’re so seductive and convincing to make you ignore your choices.. I really wanna bone her but I don’t want to give her the idea we’ll be together.. I love your purple pill idea

[MagusParticipant 424]

Basi wrote:

I’m a 24 year old young man who has had a lot of difficulties with women. I even had a girlfriend who allowed my friend to have sex with her in his CAR and RECORDED it. The disrespect! I knew all about it though, she thought she was breaking up a good friendship.

Dude. You need a few girlfriends at the same time. That helped me during that age period. When one doesn’t act right you just bounce. That way you can stay aloof and it works out much better. There are probably different parts of your life and you don’t have to worry about them meeting. And if so who gives a damn. Since they are from different segments of your life they move on without problem. (Or they try harder.)

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

There are plenty of PUA sites that will talk you through gaming chicks. We don’t do that here.

Try Reddit redpill.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Basi wrote:

I’m easily seduced and I think she can tell when she’s getting to me. How can I stand my ground regardless cuz I see her throughout the week..

Any relations~~~ with a woman is a horrifically bad idea. A relations~~~ with a female co-worker is well beyond a horrifically bad idea.

Don’t date women. But if you must, never f~~~ing ever date a co-worker. If she persists, tell her that you don’t date co-workers and FFS don’t encourage her…

[MagusParticipant 424]

PUA: Pick Up Artist
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=PUA

I keep learning new things here.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Magus wrote:

Dude. You need a few girlfriends at the same time. That helped me during that age period.

Spot on here. Dude I’m 25, and I always have about 3 girls on deck at any given moment. Most of them just hit me up for a good dicking here and there. If one is being a c~~~, I just give her the silent treatment. Hell, they do it to me at times. When this happens, I don’t fret. I got the other 2 to accommodate my carnal desires.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Rule #1 – you don’t date at work. EVER. Your job is way more important that a hook up, no matter what she looks like. For a number of reasons:

1. You don’t ever give up your job for a girl, ever.
2. Let’s say you hook up and you’re done. But she’s not. She can easily lie behind your back about it to other coworkers and YOU will be the one getting your 2 week notice from HR not her.
3. Let’s say it all goes well. You still have to see her every day. Is that what you want from a one night stand? A one night stand works because you never see her again.
4. You bang her and then develop feelings for her. Do you want your girlfriend there 24/7? Yeah, me neither.
5. It’s great practice for saying NO everywhere else.

I can’t stress enough how horrible of an idea this is. NO DATING AT WORK EVER.

Order the good wine

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Basi wrote:

How can I stand my ground regardless cuz I see her throughout the week..

Repeat after me. “NO”

Say it early and often.

TaxGuy wrote:

Rule #1 – you don’t date at work. EVER. Your job is way more important that a hook up, no matter what she looks like. For a number of reasons:

1. You don’t ever give up your job for a girl, ever.
2. Let’s say you hook up and you’re done. But she’s not. She can easily lie behind your back about it to other coworkers and YOU will be the one getting your 2 week notice from HR not her.
3. Let’s say it all goes well. You still have to see her every day. Is that what you want from a one night stand? A one night stand works because you never see her again.
4. You bang her and then develop feelings for her. Do you want your girlfriend there 24/7? Yeah, me neither.
5. It’s great practice for saying NO everywhere else.

I can’t stress enough how horrible of an idea this is. NO DATING AT WORK EVER.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Pay very close attention to the above.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Pedal row run is right; this site isn’t about dating advice. Our dating advice is very simple—stop it/don’t do it or you’ll be sorry.

[Anonymous 12]

NEVER S~~~ WHERE YOU EAT
do not f~~~ a coworker. no matter how hot, no matter what the circumstances.

for Gods sake do many things BUT THAT.

Listen to Bill Burr and rub one out before you head out to work – you will see her “in a different light”.

Stop listening to your Dick, F~~~ssake. Shoot a load and clear your head.

[Anonymous 54]

F~~~ her sister.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Basi wrote:

I recently started talking to a girl at my job after she continually approached me for a couple of weeks. I let her know I wasn’t ready for any kind of relationship but we could hook up if she’s fine with that( which she isn’t) she’s been confusing me and I need help! I’m easily seduced and I think she can tell when she’s getting to me.

The Great Swami sees lots of painful redpills in your near future.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Confucius say: man who date c~~~ get rekt

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

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