How can I trust again?

[KaMtnParticipant 73]

I really need input on peoples thoughts, or their previous/current relationship(s) may help. I was raised, thought, and live in a western world. I’m Canadian, even in Canada, it’s hard to find loyal girls. Honest to god, I’ve only met two girls that are loyal and normal. Every other girl is fake, including one of the girls I was going to hook up with she wanted to use me for my status. I found out, and dodged that bullet before it hit. What I’m asking if there is any particular way or how to know how to look at women again.. I can’t really find women emotionally attracting at all anymore, only physically. I’d highly appreciate any input, thanks.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

why do you feel the need to trust them?  Don’t trust them.  Look at them as snakes.  maybe you can tame one for a little while, keep it as a pet or curiosity but, given the chance, that snake will bite you because it’s a f~~~ing snake.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Sessna12Participant 119]

Never

You can trust when you are not vulnerable. Go see an asset protection lawyer and a divorce lawyer.

Once you have all your assetts safe from creditors, then you have nothing to lose but time. Which is the way it should be. This is however never 100% guaranteed, and once kids are involved-all bets are off. Plus laws can be changed retroactively.

The most desirable woman is one that has her own business and makes more than you.

Hide your money

Protect your seed

Proceed with caution

Sebastian

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
-Sidecar

[Sessna12Participant 119]

I will quote you. Well said!

Sebastian

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
-Sidecar

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Like you, I only ever dated one or two women that didn’t cheat on me or leave me for another man (or even woman, twice).  They’re usually nice to look at (I say usually because of the increase of land whales), but they’re so boring or unattractive otherwise.  You’re definitely not alone here.  Pay them no attention.  They’re not worth your valuable time.  I never thought I’d say this (at least in the past), but it’s become true.

[KaMtnParticipant 73]

You know what, you guys are right… One of my friends cousins family was destroyed. His mom divorced her husband for his “friend,” in a ten year marriage for no reason.. She then took fifty percent of his property, and cleared his bank account due to the signed agreement. I’m just so confused I hate these garbage western women (most), but I also want a family of my own. Should I just adopt a child when the time is right?

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Proceed with caution but dont let it drive you crazy. Letting the mistrust of women make you paranoid is but another victory for the female collective. Im a liitle different from most MGTow who still have the burning desire to spend time with women at no fault of their own. I have only dated one girl. She wasn’t crazy but wasn’t a NAWALT either. I chose to leave simply because romantic relationships were not for me. My personality doesn’t warrant being sensitive to the needs of others in the context of intimacy. It was tough to realize but I had to be honest with myself and her. It’s not that I don’t trust women because of their existence.  My personality simply doesn’t mesh well with their general wants and desires. I don’t want to give them my money.  I dont want them to give me money. I don’t want to invite them to my home.  I certainly dont want to go their home. I don’t want to travel with them. I don’t want to impress them and I could care less if they impress me. I just want to live free of their standards and I think MGTOW has given me the outlet to do so.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Indeed like the guys said the sky wont fall if you don’t start trusting them again.I remember every time i was about to break free from the blue pill world i had been exposed to loads and loads of this propaganda of how it’s really bad for me if I don’t trust them and how i must absolutely start trusting them again or else my life will be miserable and i will die alone and i will die from cancer and i how my soul will suffer in eternal anguish and blah blah blah blah…

F~~~ that people earn trust.You don’t trust people because you have to.You trust people because of their actions and their ability to be accountable and loyal.

[Anonymous 2]

uchibenkei wrote:

why do you feel the need to trust them? Don’t trust them. Look at them as snakes. maybe you can tame one for a little while, keep it as a pet or curiosity but, given the chance, that snake will bite you because it’s a f~~~ing snake.

This.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I have trusted men and women many times (it must be a character trait since I keep doing it). All but a small few broke my trust, and often for the most trivial of reasons.

“It’s not convenient.”

Convenient? After all we had been through together, you shaft me over convenience? That’s just human nature I guess.

That reminds me, the book 48 Laws of Power covers this topic, and other related topics too.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[KaMtnParticipant 73]

You guys are all right, I really appreciate the comments. Thanks a lot.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Thought she was my bitch, she was your bitch
Her bitch, his bitch, a for sure bitch
You caught feelings, now you wanna kill her
Don’t get upset, dog, that’s just the real her
These bitches love givin’ head, love spendin’ bread
Sellin’ pussy on the low, what you said?

Hook
I don’t trust these hoes

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

To chime in with the other posts here…Every time I trusted, I was betrayed.

Then I wouldn’t trust MYSELF on being a good judge of character, on top of all the emotional other s~~~ that gets added into the mix.

I even have some women that deceived me into believing that they had earned my trust by their “good” deeds, etc.

In the end, the outcome, for me, had always been the same…

Being taken to the cleaners.

Best to avoid the pitfall all together. It’s just not worth it. Period.

It’s a trap, best to avoid, not spring it, in the case regarding the modern female.

[Bl4ckSh33pParticipant 274]

You can’t trust them. All you can do is discipline them and hope for the best. When you’re dating a women treat her like a retarded dog in need of obedience.

I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard Morty then it slowly fades leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are going to do it. Break the cycle Morty, rise above, focus on science. -Rick Sanchez

[KaMtnParticipant 73]

 

Exactly….

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

One can always use smart ways of covert surveillance if you have to trust someone but you can’t
There is a russian saying: Доверяй но проверяй ~ Trust but verify

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

Welcome to… Mgtow… hood. 😛

My Goal: To Leave Society.

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