Hooters, Ojo's Locos, Twin Peaks Dating Tips

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Good morning Gents,

Recently, went out for a drink with a close buddy of mine. He LOVES these three above mentioned establishments. On arrival, he asks the (pretty, young, scantily clad) waitress what beers were on the menu. She replies, “I’m not sure.” WTF! He literally had to ask her to get the drink menu so he could make a selection because she was to lazy to walk to the bar counter and provide a tap menu on her own accord.

These type establishments are excessively expensive, have poor service, and take advantage of men. What irks me the most is this guy is a Dr., is loaded, is fit, well spoken, well dressed, etc. He shows interest in a waitress, she smiles, he tips handsomely, gets her phone number, and she texts messages him days later requesting he visit her at work. WTF! They never are interested in meeting for a drink somewhere else etc. They are only interested in having him visiting them at work so he can fork over more $$$$$!

We need to smarten up and just say “No” to this nonsense. Good day.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

I do remember a girl I liked not so long ago asking me to visit where she works. I suppose my non compliance will have to suffice.

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Well played Argon, Well played.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Strippers do this sometimes. I was all excited the first few times i got a stripper’s number; most of them are casting a net for regulars to come to the club to give them money.

Took me a while for my bluepill self to figure that out.

I did eventually f~~~ one of them, but it wasn’t worth it. An escort would’ve been cheaper & easier.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Yep. And it’s men who enable this kind of s~~~ to happen. Next time you find yourself at Hooters or Tilted Kilt or pretty much any restaurant or bar where the waitstaff is dumb, pretty and has fake t~~~, just stop for a moment and realize that nearly every man there is on such a program.

You could do them all a favor: “Excuse me, gentlemen, your attention for a moment please. How many of you are here because your waitress gave you her number and asked you to come visit her at work?”

You could be the god of chaos.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

The Playboy club(s) in the 1960s-80s specifically didn’t allow the bunnies to fraternize with the johns customers. Instead, they were supposed to encourage them to come back to the club and spend money. There was a whole list of bunny etiquette so that they didn’t essentially wind up hooking out of the clubs. The Playboy clubs were sort of a cross between a traditional men’s club (sort of) and a skeezy strip club. They did alright for a while, during the magazine’s zenith, then collapsed shortly after. There have been a couple of attempts to bring it back.

For these various cheaper and sleazier alternatives (Hooters, et.al.), I’ve never understood, at all, the attraction. I assume there are similar rules for the girls, although I would guess that legally such rules are almost impossible to enforce. That said, I assume that the girls have been taught to milk tips by convincing morons to come there and spend money and tip heavily, whilst at the same time being on the lookout for *real* morons like your friend who can be thrown into baby (or false dv) jail or a marriage indenture.

I think that strip clubs where the girls also hook are the most honest alternative. Why not suggest your friend just go to one of those? Still illusions and lies that the girls ‘like’ you, but the transactions are at least mildly more straightforward.

There’s also Nevada, where various forms and venues of prostitution are legal. That works too, and including airfare, hotel, and meals, it’s probably still much, much cheaper than dating one of the local Hooter’s sweeties.

Apropos of everything, Klute was a great film. It has Hanoi Jane, who is not my favorite person, but she is more than competent in the role. It’s about a prostitute back in the days where the majority of women in their 30s didn’t have 100+ c~~~ counts. It’s an oddly innocent film, in retrospect, about a man who kills whores.

OP: Your friend is almost a cliche. “The waitress really likes me! I should tip her heavily!”

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[AttonParticipant]

Sounds like a good way to loose customers.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Fellas,

Thanks for all your responses. We have got to stop enabling these type establishments. Pathetic, just plain pathetic to watch this nonsense.

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Your friend might not be as smart as you thing he is..

[narwhalParticipant]

I see it as a two part question.

Could a woman working at breasteraunt or strip club be attracted to a customer? I’d yes. Woman are attracted to money and power and men typically display that at these places. She most certainly could be lying to get more tips, but that does not mean that always is. I’d even go far as to say that there is a good chance that she is enjoying flirting with you…as she likely enjoys the flirting.

The second question…is it worth doing anything about it? I’d say definitely not. Even if she does honestly likes you, it’s very clear that she like a lot of people, not just you. You aren’t going to get special treatment from her unless you give her extra reason to. Not worth the effort. And if you don’t want her to flirt with other men, then she is not an option.

I would not want to give any stripper or waitress like that to have my phone number, therefore I do not want hers. For one thing, if she is a prostitute on the side, I don’t want the cops coming after me just because my number is in her phone. Besides that, I would not want to start making plans to go to a establishment just because someone is working there that night.

I have had a stripper offer to give me her number before. I always ask “why?” They don’t want to tell you that it’s only because they want you to come back and give them money again. It’s fun to make them admit that. They want you to believe there’s something more.

Ok. Then do it.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

There is one place like that close to me. Patrons are 30 year old working professional men, all seem to do well, well dressed etc. All stumbling over themselves to get a hug or a selfie with one of the slutty bartenders. The bartenders are all in their 20’s, attractive on the outside, rotten on the inside.

Last time I was there, a girl tending bar actually grew up just down the street from me. She’s only two years younger than me but my f~~~ did she hit the wall hard. She was always a dumb skank, even back in high school.

So her shift ends and she’s sitting at the bar with a c~~~tail. A few minutes later, Chad walks in, sits next to her and I just smiled. Chad was in a tight white T-Shirt, worn pair of jeans but nice shoes. Most likely worked at GNC or was a personal trainer judging by his physique. Some things never change.

[QodeshiymParticipant 28]

Well, let’s say you get the number for one of these Hooters/ Ojos Locos/ Twin Peaks girl, & she tells you after a bit of teasing to come see her at work sometime? What does she say, then? “Oh, I can’t date my customers, but I thought we could just be friends”?

Men don’t have that kind of time to waste — for that same reason, I don’t accept a girl’s social media request at a bar/ club if she opted not to give her number.

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