Holy s~~~!!! I have just been attacked by a deranged harpy and her black knight

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

This is bats~~~ crazy! My system is still working out the excess of the adrenaline…. Here’s the story

My daughter is 6.5. I picked her up tonight from my ex and was driving 20 miles back home, when I decided to stop at a liquor store for a pint bottle of vaadka. The store is called “Total Wine” – it’s a liquor superstore with a big parking lot shared with “Whole Foods”. I knew what I needed, and I knew where it was, and that it would take me under five minutes for me to get what I need and get back to my car. My daughter was sick and she was playing on her phone in a childs seat in the back. It was around 9pm, outside temp was 30F. I am a free-range kind of parent who offers my child as much responsibility as she is willing to take. I asked her if she wanted to go to the store with me or stay in the car, and that I will be right back. She said she would like to wait in the car. I went to the store, got what I came for, and got out of the store, when I saw some white trash broad standing next to my car, and her black younger BF going towards the store. I suspected that something was up right away. They didn’t yet know that I am the father and the owner of the car. She said to her BF: “Get whatever you need, I’ll wait here”. I knew I was in trouble. I approach the car casually. She confronts me in my face – “Is this your car?” – “Yeah, why would you care?”. “Is this your baby in the car? How old is she?” – “None of your business”. I proceed to open the door and get in the car, while she’s screaming – “This is my business! I am a mother too!” I slam the door and lock them. She jumps to the front screaming that she’s writing down my license plates. Her boyfriend stands behind the car – not directly behind (he’s a coward! LOL), but  at at angle. They both act really surprised this is going on – I guess they expected me to confront them and argue with them, but I am not stupid – I just keep pulling out of the f~~~ing parking lot. Her boyfriend kicks my car, tries to smash the window with his fist – fails, tries it again – I keep pulling away – they keep chasing me on foot while calling the popo at the same time. My daughter starts freaking out, says: “Daddy, drive quick – the police is going to get us”. I drove home normally, trying to stay as cool as I could be. Told my daughter what happened, reassured that I am not in trouble, and told her to never trust anyone outside of family because of all the crazy people like that. The s~~~ was intense

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Sky-OParticipant 18933]

 

Multiple issues here.

You mentioned that the lady might have written down your license plate number. I live in the US and there are more than a few states here where if someone were to report that incident and use your license number as a reference point: the end result would at the very least be a visit from CPS.

After all, a child was left inside of a vehicle when you went into a liquor store. Leaving her in the car when you went inside is a separate issue from the fact that it was done outside of a liquor store as opposed to a place like a church or a place that might have been safer.

Secondly. I do not have any kids, but I have a few guy friends that have kids they are able to have a couple of times a month, while the mother has custody. In every single case that I am aware of with my buddies, they all abstain from drinking alcohol when they have their visitation time with their kids. None of them are specifically required to do that, but their attorneys advise that in cases of guys that only have their kids periodically and their is a custodial mother. Random stuff comes up in court all of the time and the last thing any of them want to deal with is a kid telling their mom that dad drinks (moderately or even a lot). Your situation puts you directly at a liquor store with your child and witnesses. Although not illegal, it is still not advised.

And kids talk. It sounds like your daughter got excited enough over the entire situation and threat of a black guy attempting to break your vehicle window, that she will more than likely at some point tell her mom.

 

 

 

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

What I did was completely legal where I live in MN and no, I am not your stereotypical russian -I am not an alcoholic. I know the dangers of CPS very well. Ex won’t do s~~~. I knew what I did was reckless and I won’t do it again. This is exactly what I told my daughter – next time you’re coming with me. She agreed. Nothing really happened here- everyone is safe and sound. I never though I would ever this s~~~ unfold firsthand. But I thought I should share because this is just …wow! Crazy bitch
I wasn’t putting anyone in danger! Opposite – I was f~~~ing attacked, alright? I am very glad this turned out fine

You Americans are crazy – advocating for taking away children from parents who let their children walk to a playground and back! The f~~~? I was f~~~ing riding buses by myself when I was 5, I was walking to the kindergarten. Nobody ever drove children to schools in Lithuania where I grew up? Children f~~~ing walked alright?? And no – nobody got abducted in white vans or nothing. Even some of you MGTOW guys are very conditioned by the society about certain stuff. Children grow up being retarded if they never taught to be responsible and self-reliant

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Vector VikingParticipant 413]

You may have put yourself in danger in this instance. I hope it works out well for you, and yes, I agree that we Americans have some serious nutter issues that we place on ourselves. You’re also right that it very much has to do with social conditioning. Fear makes people buy stuff they don’t need to feel better and less scared, when you get down to brass tacks about it. Since you live in the US now, these problems are now your problems.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I am sorry that I put my daughter through this. But I hope that this will teach her a good lesson to never trust strangers, government or cops

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

If your daughter was properly dressed, I do not see a problem. Automobiles offer little by way of insulation on account of the glass windshield and windows.

As for their reaction, f~~~ them.

I would advise filing a police report re. attempted vandalism so that there is a paper trail should the identity of either gutter rat becomes known.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Sorry man…not justifying the actions of those strangers but I am a father of two boys.  In this day and age you dare not turn your back on your child like that…EVER.  There are some sick mother f~~~ers in this world and I’ll be damned if I spend the rest of my life living with the horror and regret that I turned my back on my kid for a few minutes out of convenience.  NOT A GOOD IDEA MY FRIEND!  Ask John Walsh from the show “America’s Most Wanted” about this.  I don’t even want to mention what happened to his little boy.  The topic seriously upsets me as a father who loves his boys dearly.

Don’t ever do this kind of s~~~ again please.  I’m begging you bro…

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[experiencedParticipant]

Know this:  We care enough about you here, to tell you what you don’t always want to hear.

I’m  sweating having read your story.   Consider the world a, “no lone zone” for your kid,  i.e. they should never be left alone.  There are enough actual monsters out there and for all anyone knows, what happened could have been ‘plan B’ as a cover.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

You could always do what I did the last time some nosey busybody forcibly tried to make my business her business and threatened to call the police on me.

I called the police myself. On her. The police took my statement, charged her with menacing, and I went on my way.

If you’d called the police right then and there and told them something like: “This woman and her boyfriend are threatening me and frightening my daughter and attempting to damage my car and won’t let me leave,” they’d have had an entirely different spin on things when they arrived. They’d have your spin. When you know things might get documented, it’s generally best to make sure your side is right at the top.

Also if your phone is capable of video, as soon as you’re off with the police (assuming they don’t want you to stay on the line), stop talking and start taking video.

[BiG_WeaselParticipant 116]

I have a daughter myself, and the line about giving your daughter “as much responsibility as she’s willing to take” really turned my opinion against you on this topic.  She’s 6, and at 6 she’s barely old enough to tie her shoes, let alone take on any other responsibilities.  She needs to be in your visual range at all times, and not left in the car for any reason whatsoever, especially a run into the liquor store. I’m with the other guys here, you screwed up, and I think its gonna come back to bite you.

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