Holiday f~~~ up

[Anonymous 3]

So my fellow friends I messed up I sent to emails to 2 of my ex gfs I know I know wtf.i was alone for thanksgiving and I eventually gave in one replied with a i hope your doing well too and the other ignored me which is good now that I think about it. So question is why do I keep thinking of my ex well particularly the one that replied I dumped her since i had a suspicion of here trying to monkey branch.its been 4 months of no contact and here I go Sending a stupid email on thanksgiving.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

You are young and thinking with your little head.

You should rub one out and feel better.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 42]

Never go back like a dog lapping up yesterday’s vomit. Rekindling a fire will only get you burned a second time!

[Anonymous 54]

Your brain has been trained to give holidays an emotional meaning.
Dont do that.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

The blue pill is kicking in from time to time. You have to learn to control it, instead of letting it control you.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

The need for intimacy and affection is strong.

Look forward. Look forward to new things.

Close those doors beh8nd you.

Peace brothers

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Man, the purpose of Thanksgiving and the Holidays is to make yourself SCARCE – from the day before Thanksgiving to Feb 15th, you don’t exist. Especially with an EX, who is an ex for a REASON.

Cultural bombardment is relentless and it wants you to “feel lonely” on Thanksgiving. It preys on your feelings and s~~~ like a 75% off sign on Black Friday preys on your wallet. You’re practically OBLIGATED to feel like you’re “missing out”.

Anonymous wrote:

why do I keep thinking of my ex

There was a celebrity (Alec Baldwin??) who once answered “ex girlfriends” when asked what he fantasizes about. They are familiar, and in many ways there is a pull towards the familiar. Instead of trying something new from the menu, we would often stick with what we had before etc.

But that’s all it is. A pull towards the familiar.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 3]

Yeah I wasn’t expecting the whole holidays taking its toll on me it makes sense that I made it so long before thanksgiving since there really wasn’t any major holidays.i tripped up but now I’m on track again Ive been working on trying to graduate a federal law enforcement academy and luckily its been consuming me thanks guys

[Anonymous 43]

delete from contact list and delete from mind

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Anonymous wrote:

So question is why do I keep thinking of my ex well particularly the one that replied I dumped her since i had a suspicion of here trying to monkey branch

Go with the advice of Keymaster and Tom leykis here don’t f~~~ing contact them on the holidays. If you are feeling feelings of love then just rub one out and get your head straight.

And if you are looking for sex its really simple just hang out at bars on the holidays (especially valentines day) and don’t be a pussy beggar, don’t use some stupid PUA pick up line and certainly do not be needy.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[experiencedParticipant]

Came across a quote years ago,

“Your ‘ex’ is your ‘ex’ for a reason”.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[HitmanParticipant]

Your human.
You f~~~ed up.
Learn from it.
Do not repeat.
One chance per woman per lifetime.
Never go backwards.

[LeoYourKingParticipant 225]

Hi Lorddelseis
You need to be emotional intelligent. You have to be aware about your felling at at all time. You were conditioned to have (girlfriend (sex) + girlfriend companionship = Happiness) and (girlfriend companionship (communication) = happiness). You have to break this connection.
1th, delete all photos of them or any memotion triger. Block them form all social media. Block their phone mumber and delete them.
2th, be aware of your feelings (memories and all that s~~~) and think about the bad things of the relationship.
3th, Keep your mind occupied. Get positive hobbies that stimulate your brain and body. Things like sports or going outside or to the gym. I do not recommencement porn, alcohol or any drug.
4th get to know positive people who do not have connection with your Xs or ask your friends not to talk about your Xs.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

and here I go Sending a stupid email on thanksgiving.

How is that a f~~~ up? You didn’t accidentally marry any of them for thanksgiving, did you? Or impregnate any of them or sign a lease or anything like that, right?

Sure it was embarrassing in hindsight, but what of it? Are you concerned about what they might think of you now? If so, why? Who the f~~~ cares what they think? Just delete them from your contact list like they never existed and get on with your life.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

delete from contact list and delete from mind

Delete from contact list and prevent drunk dialing her. Good idea.

Delete from mind, well the brain does the memory thing whether we like it or not. When unwelcome memories come up, focus on something else. Get the brain 100% occupied elsewhere.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[experiencedParticipant]

Many Women’s Gal Pals haven’t a clue when it comes to:

http://biblehub.com/proverbs/18-17.htm

They will believe their Pal Gal even though just listening to the guy’s side of the story would straighten things out.
There will Always be women who do this intentionally and inadvertently.
Ignore them as well.
If they’d sought truth, they’d have asked your side of things long ago.
They did not.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 3]

I felt like I f~~~ed up because I was doing so well getting on with my life ,I felt like I let myself down

[bladeParticipant]

That was no big drama so don’t be hard on yourself. Cool avatar man.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[JVBParticipant]

It’s ok bro. Wherever the conversation stands right now. Stop, delete and never again. Live n learn.

Peace is > piece.

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