Hive Mind, Vindictiveness, & Entitlement

[Anonymous 0]

Sorry if this rambles. I just have to complain about the hive mind, hamster mind, projecting, vindictive, and controlling character of my last girlfriend. So annoying. It amazes me that she could be so sweet, but if she didn’t accept my personal decisions, she couldn’t help but disrespect my boundaries and try to shame me and control me. Then she couldn’t help but project all sorts of false bulls~~~ about what I believe and do, etc, etc, from her hamster mind, and no doubt from the hive mind too. Then she’d be vindictive and say s~~~, which she (probably?) doesn’t, believe, just to hurt me. I hate how she would twist things around and blame me for her own flaws, and take no accountability. She truly is an adult child, so immature. It just is unbelievable to me that another adult human being can be so short-minded, compulsive, not emotionally intelligent, and so on. I hate that I believed for so long that women can generally be reasonable, kind, and fair minded, but experience has shown me time and again that even if I try to be respectful, kind, and fair, they don’t have the capacity to do so: mother, sisters, aunts, ex-wife/girlfriend/fwb, etc. They truly have poor relationship skills, particularly when it comes to disrespecting boundaries, and they don’t know how to work through disagreements respectfully at all. I’m not claiming I’m perfect by any means, but I make a solid effort to educate myself, and practice good relationship behaviors. After a certain point, I just gave up trying to care about her at all.

I would like to have close, woman friends, but I wonder if women are even capable of being good friends at all. Certainly, my last girlfriend wasn’t, and she probably loved me more than any woman has. I want to give women a chance to be a good friend, but I wonder how many more times I’ll have to be burned before I finally give up hope.

On occasion, I’ll ask a woman what it means to her to be a good friend. I think the most common response is honesty and loyalty. I can understand loyalty for sure. What summarizes friendship for me goes beyond loyalty; to me it’s an attitude of “what can I do to help you?”

My ex-girlfriend horribly wrecked my interest in her. I have in the past had a hard time getting over a past love, my ex-wife not at all because she had hardly fulfilled me in any way. My ex-girlfriend did please me often, but in the end her needless vindictiveness destroyed my feelings for her. Huge boner killer. Oh well.

While I have my own beliefs about MGTOW, I’ve been completely convinced for over 4 years about the MGTOW principle not to marry, have kids, or co-habitate. I’m persuaded to go monk, but my instincts still drive me to pair or bond.

Processing the Red Pill is so surreal. It doesn’t seem that gender relations should be so difficult, and yet our evolutionary instincts seem to drive such a wedge at times. It makes me sad.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22514]

Once you fully integrate AWALT, you will not want to have women as friends.

Trust me it will be a relief.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

You are still in the red pill rage stage it will pass with time. You were taught a valuable lesson, the lesson of female nature. Learn from it grow from it and put it behind you.

“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”

― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

Credit goes to OldBill for the above quote I learned from him and applied this to my everyday life and it has worked wonders.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Anonymous wrote:

Sorry if this rambles.

I see myself in your writing.

You spell out the reason for me joining here.

C~~~s have become so vindictive that the normal good-hearted or simple-minded man “has no chance” to cope and survive them.

Men need help from those of us who learned either the hard way or the smart way. I am a combination of both.

And you now belong to the smart learners. Since you did not marry the c~~~.

Thanks for contributing your story GenXRex. We need more voices like yours.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

not emotionally intelligent,

They are but the don’t give a s~~~ about anyone but themselves.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Brother you sound very young mid early 20s? The red pill rage is hard to take but it’s better to talk it out your not lone and what your feeling is very common, men are the only ones that can be trusted and truly loyal you would understand this bond if you ever served in the military that deep trust in someone. Listen to the older brothers on this site. I wish you well on your journey.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Also what is screwing you up is your justice morality vs care based morality in your mind your feeling I do a b c so I should recieve a b c in return which is the rule in most cases when you deal with other men. Care based morality based on “mah feels” and how something makes me feel vs what is just and right. Think about a child who gets in a tantrum over being told not to stay up late or not to play with fire they cannot see the good intentions only rage at the parent for being mean….. think of women as larger children then things will make more sense to you.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[TrailbossParticipant 1844]

Why think about it at all? If you are MGTOW, or aspire to be a true MGTOW, nothing about the hive matters. You cannot be friends with a wild animal. You cannot make friends with radioactivity. Or herpes. There is not reason to dwell on the hive, other then to torture ones self. #MANOUT! It works.

An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Friendships end where a woman’s needs begin.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Anonymous 54]

There is no such thing as a female freind.

They dont think of it like a Man does.

I have some female colleges that have respect for, I call my freind.

But not in reality.

It just doesnt work that way.

If you get freindly, theyll want free s~~~ from you.

Work on her car ect..

But it wont come back to you like it does with other Men.

Just dont bother with them.

Unless you like working for an ungrateful c~~~ for free.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Romulus wrote:

Friendships end where a woman’s needs begin.

So true.

When that sweet loving unicorn suddenly turns into an insulting bitch from one second to the next after she sees your “non-nest compliant” place. Or your old but luxury car…

Then you know that her friendship was all a charade and her smiles are only the facade.

Women are fake in all they do.

They are all in it for the nesting instinct. That “only” includes your wallet. The rest of you is also “only” measured up in her materialistic needs.

Some men are stupid enough to “man up” and give these s~~~ty characters “what they want”.

But there is a shift in the trend.

How many women end up alone with cats on welfare because NO MAN ever “manned up” for their demanding asses?

That always makes my day and brings a smile to my face.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

Are used to try to have female friends but after I fully ingested and accepted the red pill rather than being purple pill most of my life, I realized that it’s just not possible anymore. Women are just little children and their loyalty changes with their mood according to how they “feel“. Everything about them is dictated by their emotions like a little child.

So now I take a kind of big Brother/leadership approach when dealing with my sister my mother women that I still have to see. They are just little children in my eyes.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[narwhalParticipant]

The nature of women doesn’t bother me like it used to. I’m not saying I like, I just see it as natural. It’s like getting mad at the dog for peeing on the rug when you left him inside for 9 hours. It’s going to happen, so I’m not surprised when it does.

As for why women behave so badly when they don’t get their way, I don’t think they really see who they are. It’s like they believe that it’s ok for them to be nasty because they are the weaker sex, and their nasty behavior creates equality. At the same time, they see men as stronger, and somehow more capable of handling their crap. They aren’t really hurting us that much, and we’re a pussy if we can’t handle them.

Seriously, they honestly believe that calling you an asshole is less hurtful than you calling her a bitch because she’s a woman and you’re a man. Taking a way your life savings and destroying is not that big of a deal. You’re a man, you’re suppose to deal with it.

In a sense, they are right. We can deal with it. However, we learn from our mistakes.

Ok. Then do it.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3763]

Great post, narwhal.

I don’t have anything else to add, I’m getting better with my red pill rage too. Almost there.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

When you truly understand and accept women and ‘the game’ for what they are and the way that they really are, you just won’t want much to do with women, to be honest; such acceptance and when you subsequently walk away from women and ‘the game’, this brings tranquility to your life, then you turn to things that truly make you more productive/happy in your life, without a woman. You just need to get past the Red Pill Rage.

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