Hi new here

[drrragonsParticipant 6]

Hi everyone, just like to introduce myself. I seperated from my wife of 15 years, a few months ago. We have an 8 year old daughter and we get on really well. Before we seperated, i spent more time with our daughter then my wife did and my wife seemed to get jelous. Anyway long story short we had lots of issues and i wanted to leave. I have a bad back and I needed to figure out how to survive. I tried to talk to my wife about it and things got worse. I threw something one day after she was badgering me and next thing I know I have an AVO. I live on my own now and dont see my daughter as much as both her and I want. Her mother is so controlling and just makes things difficult for her own agenda. Shes really wearing me down and i just want my daughter half the time or even close to half the time and her to just leave me alone. My daughter constantly wants to stay with me and her mother makes her go home. I just want to scream and make this nightmare of control and abuse go away. Just when my wife acts normal and i think everythings going to be relaxed and ok she screws me again by ignoring me and controlling both my daughter and I.

[bladeParticipant]

Hey bro . The c~~~ still been a c~~~ . Welcome dude this is where you will find some sanity .

Welcome bro .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[MACHOParticipant]

drrragons wrote:

I threw something one day after she was badgering me

What did you throw?

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[bladeParticipant]

Hey drrrragons ya forgot to tell the bro’s ya didn’t even get to eat ya pizza lol .

I feal left out i never got a dv or avo . I need to loose my s~~~ and up my status . Lmfao

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 25]

welcome

it’s hard not being able to see your child as much as your child wants. if you keep being there and doing what you are, being a great dad for her it’s not too many years away until she can vote with her feet and decide to come live with you

my ex tried to get me into trouble by calling police and making false accusations. unfortunately for her I am trained to spot suspicious behaviour so I was recording at the time. Then I know what the police are like so I recorded them too. It’s great that I now have evidence of police falsifying records and there’s not a single thing they can do about when I tell everyone. I spoke to a criminal solicitor about it and he told me if police ever tried to use it against me I can produce the evidence and judge will be furious at the police for deliberately creating a misleading report

[Anonymous 0]

Hello and welcome Drrragons.

Sounds like your legal systems no friend of man. Which part of the globe are you joining us from?

[bladeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Hello and welcome Drrragons.

Sounds like your legal systems no friend at man. Which part of the globe are you joining us from?

he’s an aussie bro .

Our legal system here is well and truly f~~~ed .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome.
i was arrested on false charges,
my ex dragged me through court,
i had to use credit cards to get money for legal fee’s,
i went 20 grand in debt,
was threatened by the ex i would never see my kid.
.
after aprox 3 months apart from the child,
the ex started letting me see our kid,
now i have the kid more than the ex does.
..you are in a TEMPORARY situation.
give it time,
be available to take your kid at every chance.
things can change.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome buddy. I’ve got no wife and no kids but I can sympathize. Enjoy the forums and learn from the others who have been in your shoes. Some of their stories will bring you great hope.

[bladeParticipant]

There are a few guy’s on here in your situation bro . Imickey a member on here is simular he was loosing his s~~~ last week i hope he is ok . Woman just love the fact of owning you threw ya kids . Ya exes are like tail gaters .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings drrragons,

You are not alone.

The stories of other men who have gone through the same s~~~ storm as you can be of great help to you.

There are “maps” here to help you avoid trouble.

Cheers, you have stumbled into a Gold Mine!

Keep digging into the Forums and study the Archives.

Many of us here are happy to help you through this rough time in your life.

Feel free to make Posts in the Forums asking for advice or just to vent what is happening to you down the MGTOW Road.
Some of the issues you brought up can be discussed in the Marriage & Divorce section.

Here are some suggestions for your Introduction:

Do not give out any information about yourself that will enable our Great Enemy to identify you.

I am going to ask you some questions that you are not required to answer.

The reason I am asking is because I want you to think about what is waiting for you down the MGTOW road.

Too many men, especially myself, who have spent their time as Blue Pill slaves have had no lives during that time outside their marriage and/ or relationS~~~S.

Blue Pill men generally have few hobbies, friends, future goals, and interests on the Plantation because all of a man’s resources, including mental/ time, are used up serving his adult child woman and HER children.

What is your education/ training?

What kind of work have you done?

Have you been living in the city, suburbs, or rural areas?

What are some hobbies that you would like to explore?

What kind of fun things do YOU do?

What are your plans for the future?

drrragons wrote:

……..I threw something one day after she was badgering me and next thing I know I have an AVO. ………………………………………………………………………………………………………. I just want to scream and …….

Been there myself.

There are a lot of things going on under the surface that brings a man to “Crazy Town” whenever we are influenced by women.

We end up doing very bad self-destructive things when we are involved with women.

I believe that a man’s hormones, pheromones, or whatever gets out of whack in situations like yours.

These days, I have been thinking a lot about “Chemistry” which is a part of the influences of women.

Perhaps you can work with me here to help better describe the circumstances occurring under the surface.

I don’t have the words or ideas to express what is actually going on yet, but I have made some attempts to discuss these ideas in the Forums.

The ideas starts with this short lecture about how a parasitic insect controls the brain of another. Click the link below:

Parasitic-jeweled-wasp

The next link is a Post I made about Pheromones and relationships. Don’t be distracted by the focus on intimate activities. There is also a component of a kind of magnetic induction which is part of emotional hijacking that is not discussed in that thread. I believe that this “Chemistry” and emotional hijacking also happens by being in the same space as a woman. Furthermore, there is a withdrawal phase that is similar to a Heroin addiction:

Blue-pill-men-are-really-pheremone-addicts

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome, Brother.

Try to see what happened not as something that wears you down, but something to learn for, while trying to be better.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Welcome.

As Hitman says its all temporary.
Your ex has moved on, Your daughter will too.

You need to look out for numero uno.

[Author]

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