"Hi, my name is Zelenn

[ZelennParticipant 6]

And I’m addicted women.”

Members: “Hi, Zelenn!”

🙂

I’m here to learn a bit more about MGTOW. Been thinking about it for a while, but can’t quite make the decision to write off ALL women. I think I understand MGTOWs arguments and I find myself agreeing with 99% of it. But I’m still on the hunt for the Legendary NAWALT.

I’m 26 years old and have basically decided to go my own way “temporarily” so I can focus on going back to school and improving my career. Hunting for the NAWALT consumes a ridiculous amount of time, money, and mental bandwidth, so for the short term, I am just saying “No,” to all women so I can focus on what needs doing. I still think its possible to find a good woman and have a fulfilling marriage and family, it just requires more time and savy than I am willing to put forward at this point in my life.

I work in medical science. I am a phlebotomist/ specimen processor/ lab assistant for a series of physician’s offices in Florida with a main lab that handles analyses. I want to go back to school for medical technologist and earn that coveted title “Laboratory Scientist.” Then I get to do the really cool s~~~.

I love medicine and biochemistry and anatomy. It makes my day to take vials of blood and inject antibodies into them to see what antigens they attatch to in order to diagnose different cancers. Blood vials are pretty to look at. Centrifuges are so cool. The symmetry of Urine crystals are stunningly beautiful under a microscope. And aliquoting serum for testing is an oddly meditative practice.

I am temporarily saying “No,” to women so I can focus on these things I like best. Glad to be here.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

Been thinking about it for a while, but can’t quite make the decision to write off ALL women.

You really don’t have to.  However understanding what a woman does, who she is, etc is important.  Some guys here have relationships, a few are married, a lot are single.  Some say there is an “anti relationship requirement” to be an MGTOW.  Others don’t.  You will find a mix.

However one common thread among us, is understanding the dynamics of the “modern” relationship.  It is through this understanding that a lot of guys write off women altogether.

As for me, I probably will get back into dating, when I give a s~~~.  However I just cannot muster “giving a s~~~.”  I try to give a s~~~, but I just can’t.  I don’t even give a s~~~ about not giving a s~~~.

Once you observe enough in your own life and the lives of others, you see through the illusion and the desire begins to fade.

You will always be attracted to women, it is just a normal part of biology.  Instead of getting rid of it, just acknowledge it for what it is, and let it pass.  Whether you go MGTOW or become married (assuming the two are different) that desire will always be there in one form or another.  No big deal, nothing to get upset over.  It is just a part of life.

I think I understand MGTOWs arguments and I find myself agreeing with 99% of it. But I’m still on the hunt for the Legendary NAWALT.

One thing you will learn quick about MGTOW is that MGTOWs will savagely disagree with each other a lot of the time.  It is just a part of the game.  Smell any weakness, myself included, and we will put you to the test.

Some guys will give arguments about AWALT.  Others will tell you to go experience it for yourself.  Me: why does it matter?  Things are the way they are.  A woman will not make you any better or worse of a man.  You alone are responsible for that.

The desire to be loved is not something to be indulged but rather conquered.

That being said, avoiding women is unhealthy.  Just acknowledge who and what they are and that’s it.  Hopefully, any insights you gain here will shatter any misconceptions or illusions you may have and give you some peace.

One advantage to being a man is that we don’t have to rush into relationships, like women do, because of our biology.  What a woman has to do by her early twenties can be put off until mid forties for a man.

[Anonymous 42]

Zelenn wrote:

I love medicine and biochemistry

@ Zelenn are you familiar with the 13 elements of life, and pharmaceutical chemical compounds, I only ask because in my searches I’ve found allot of uses pertaining to the compounds I use are also used in your industry for petri dish incubation. I’m into botany, we also use many different chemical testing kits, aqueous, tissue samples, and soil testing, but no use for a centrifuge, although I have incorporated center fugal forces in my flex fuel thermal mass hydronic boiler, another hobby all together. You’re on the right track as far as taking your future seriously, learn all you can, so many people are to lazy, you’ll have no problem finding work, There’s not to many people willing to push the envelope of discovery. You’re already a scientist in my humble opinion. Anybody that experiments with anything is a scientist.

John Doe wrote:

As for me, I probably will get back into dating, when I give a s~~~. However I just cannot muster “giving a s~~~.” I try to give a s~~~, but I just can’t. I don’t even give a s~~~ about not giving a s~~~.

Hey John Doe, you sound just like I did, another ride on the carousel of confusion, I hear a hamster wheel squeaking in your future, look out!

[John DoeParticipant 743]

Hey John Doe, you sound just like I did, another ride on the carousel of confusion, I hear a hamster wheel squeaking in your future, look out!

I blame it on lust and being 25.

Still I don’t think I will be able to get into dating, even if I tried.  That was the point, I tried to convey.  I have a zero tolerance for bulls~~~.  Last date I was on was in 2012 with a slut with a gorgeous rack.  I still ended up walking out on the girl, leaving her to find a ride.

But you do have a solid point, I need to keep aware.

[Anonymous 42]

Brother, we walk the same road, NO tolerance to bulls~~~, but I don’t like cats, and I kill snakes.

[Qbeck01Participant 57]

A lemming may believe it really want’s to run off the cliff, but if it ever stopped and asked “why?”, I’m sure it would have a change of mind. Marriage only guaranties being used as a utility; companionship, love, loyalty these things women cannot offer. We’ve been brainwashed by society to have unrealistic expectations.

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