Hi fellas

[countrybreakfastParticipant 16]

Glad to be here. I’ve been reading through a lot of posts for the past few days, and it’s incredible that so many different types of men, from all backgrounds, can unite together under one banner.

Let me tell you my story. I’m a very shy, introverted kind of guy, so when I was younger, I fell in love with the 2nd woman I had sex with, because deep down I knew that I wouldn’t have many opportunities like her. Perhaps that drove me to stay with her far past the expiration date of our relationship. She seemed amazing. She was a virgin who seemed wholesome, gentle, and kind. I’m an artsy guy who loves literature, painting, and jazz music, and she seemed to fit me like a glove.

We met one summer while she was visiting my city due to a college exchange program. By the time summer came to an end, she moved back to her hometown, and I followed behind a few weeks later. I turned my back on my best friend, and left for, what I thought, was my salvation. At first, things were incredible. We had sex everyday, and we did everything together. You know the drill. As time went on, things started to get stale, and I desperately tried to keep her happy. I got a full time job, and I took 5 courses a semester. I bought her tons of useless s~~~, and asked her to move in with me since she was having trouble financially, and she was getting bullied by her roommates. That wasn’t enough, and she increasingly got depressed. She would tell me that she was attracted to other guys in her classes, and me being the desperate blue pill schmuck I was, I told her that was okay. To her credit she never cheated on me while we were together, however things got dark very soon.

One day, I was writing a college essay, and she woke up from sleeping 48 hours straight. By this time, she had gained fifty pounds, and was an insecure wreck. She was constantly jealous of other women, and even forced me to walk out of “Sideways” because she pictured me being unfaithful to her during that scene where Paul Giamatti’s friend tried to grab his wallet back. That day, she seemed more depressed than usual and I pressed her on it. She said something that utterly shocked me. She said she was depressed because sometimes she wished her father would die in Iraq so she could get sympathy from her friends and family. You know in movies where something f~~~ed up happens to a character and the incidental music gets all off tone? I swear I heard that. That was what made me decide that I needed to get out of Dodge, however, it took me two more years before I could. As f~~~ed up as she was, I felt like I couldn’t abandon her completely until she was in a better place, because I’m a nice guy. Slowly, I became more withdrawn from her. I even dropped out of college and worked more so I didn’t have to deal with her. I stopped taking her out, and eventually she got sick of me, and broke up with me. It took me two years to get over that s~~~, and try dating again. I still had hope, but all the girls after that were narcissistic, and chased after assholes.

I haven’t had sex in 10 years because she f~~~ed me up so bad, that I’m just terrified of women, and I want nothing to do with them. I don’t even want to be friends with them. Every single woman in my life has f~~~ed me over. I was abandoned by my birthmother, and my adopted mother is a real controlling feminist bitch. My mother has refused to get a job since 1996 despite having a master’s degree in English, and forces my dad, who has stage 3 prostate cancer, to continue working at the age of 72. She has no f~~~ing remorse whatsoever. My dad just had to take a bunch of tests at the hospital and instead of taking the rest of the day off, he went right to NY and then DC for work. I am infuriated and desperate, and don’t know what to do about this. My dad is the sweetest, gentlest soul I know, and my mother is killing him slowly.

I’m glad that I dodged the marriage bullet, but I’ve just given up on relationships with women. I’m a gentleman, and I treat women with respect, but they just want the assholes. I even had this girl I had a crush on when I was 17 tell me that I was the kind of guy she would pursue when she is in her mid-30’s, after she got tired of boning rapey dips~~~s. I am glad to be posting here, especially since it’s helpful to know that I am not alone in my journey to go my own way.

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

well my friend that is the world that feminazis wanted to create.
At least you have woken up to the truth.
And no, at least half the men out there are treated like this.

Do you know of the pareto distribution? 20% of men (aka assholes) get 80% of women.

turn on, tune in and drop out!

[PenumbraParticipant 41]

Welcome!
You are indeed not alone!

I even had this girl I had a crush on when I was 17 tell me that I was the kind of guy she would pursue when she is in her mid-30’s

Yep. That’s when she knows her ass starts to match your purse.
Bullet dodged!

Every man dies. Not every man lives.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Welcome brother,
Thanks for baring your soul. I hope you find that many here can relate to your previous plight. I’m glad to hear you dodged the Marriage bullet as well. One thing that concerns me though, is where you state

countrybreakfast wrote:

I haven’t had sex in 10 years because she f~~~ed me up so bad, that I’m just terrified of women, and I want nothing to do with them.

If I may say so myself, I too had endured somewhat of the same distress (however on a lesser scale, but we aren’t going to compare and contrast two hells now are we?) Please, if nothing else, try not to let someone that you no longer have contact with still manage to control your emotions and current state. There is an irony in that which is hard to see for yourself at first, but it will come in time. Don’t ditch a person physically and yet mentally, still allow yourself to be trapped.

Welcome to the site, I sincerely hope you find your peace here. Many of us have.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[countrybreakfastParticipant 16]

Hi Binary,

Thanks for your kind words. Trust me, it’s not only the experience with her that has me terrified of women. I personally know at least 12 women who have falsely accused men of rape after they were rejected. I also have read a lot about feminists who claim that regretting having sex, even with consent, is grounds for rape.

I’m also incredibly shy and introverted, and never really learned how to talk to women, so when you take all of that into account, it equals ten years without sex.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! Hopefully you will use your shyness to your advantage and use it to keep you out of entangling alliances.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 42]

countrybreakfast wrote:

My dad is the sweetest, gentlest soul I know, and my mother is killing him slowly.

AWALT! Even worse!
Welcome to the t~~~ free zone! Welcome to MGTOWdotcom! The best place in the manisphere!

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Welcome. I am sorry that you had to go through this pain. At some point I think a lot of the members here have. Try to keep your head up and enjoy the forums.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

hellraider wrote:

I even had this girl I had a crush on when I was 17 tell me that I was the kind of guy she would pursue when she is in her mid-30’s,

You’ll find that’s a recurring theme around here.

It may also help explain why for the first time in our nation’s history (the U.S.), single people now outnumber married people.

Women have been sold a lie too. The lie is that it they can f~~~ every Chad Thunderc~~~ in town let let him mistreat him in all sorts of ways, and there will still be poindexter waiting there at the end to “truly love ™” them forever. It also includes as a sub-corollary that it shouldn’t matter to Poindexter how may Chads there were before him.”

Problem is, it does matter. Not even so much for the number of guys, but for the insult of rejecting the “normal guys / nice guys” repeatedly until the Chads dry up and the money starts to look appealing.

This insulting dehumanization of the average man and his sexuality to the point of making them a disposable utility item, has resulted in widespread distrust and resentment of women in general by the 80% of regular/nice guys.

Hence MGTOW.

When women ask “where have all the good men gone?”, the answer is that they didn’t get their surprise threesome like Chad did, so we left town. And now it’s too late for her.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[mp357Participant 531]

The funny thing is going without sex is so freaking easy.Especially for us introverts. I’ve had streaks of lots of sex and even longer without female contact and i prefer peace instead of poon. Peace be to you as well,you will find the stories dudes tell here to be a soothing balm for the wounds we have recieved from the she dragons.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Welcome brother and thanks for sharing. It seems you already learned the lesson that self-improvement takes effort, discipline & time, but i hope i see a post from you soon about how it’s also very rewarding.

A brief tale of my own life that struck a chord on reading yours:

countrybreakfast wrote:

elt like I couldn’t abandon her completely until she was in a better place, because I’m a nice guy.

I had a similar history; if you haven’t yet, i’d encourage you to read the first chapter or two of “No More Mr Nice Guy” by Glover. Was a life saver as i went down my MGTOW/RedPill path.

[countrybreakfastParticipant 16]

mp357 wrote:

The funny thing is going without sex is so freaking easy.Especially for us introverts. I’ve had streaks of lots of sex and even longer without female contact and i prefer peace instead of poon. Peace be to you as well,you will find the stories dudes tell here to be a soothing balm for the wounds we have recieved from the she dragons.

I find that to be true. It was hard at first, but it got easier as time went on. However, every so often I get that itch to have sex, it’s unbearable. I just broke down and bought a fleshlight the other day. Lame, I know, but I figure that if women are allowed to buy dildos without shame, men should be able to buy sex toys without shame as well. I am looking forward to the artificial intelligence revolution coupled with VR and robots. Then the gender wars will be over and feminism will die.

Until I discovered what MGTOW was, I didn’t think of my situation as liberating, but now I do. Man’s fatal flaw is their susceptibility to woman’s vagina. Once that is eliminated, we are nearly invincible.

[ALPHA MALE!Participant 29]

…my solitude is very important to me, nobody f~~~s with my solitude and peace of mind…when somebody tries to screw with me I put them straight be it female or male. Respect is earned but if you’re the kind of person who throws themselves at a psychic vampire willingly…THEY WILL SUCK YOU DRY TO THE BONE and you will deserve it cause you asked for it. Nobody can make you do something against your will…EVER!…words of wisdom never fail, but…ignorance will destroy it’s host!!!…remember this fact Brothers!!!

...I'm an Alpha Male, not a bitch!!!

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Believe me my friend dont ever ever ever be that Nice guy women only use that nice guys nice guys dont represent a challenges for women ,me as that badboy type i treat them like crap,but dont get me wrong.im not a criminal or anything like it i work and all that but i treat women like crap and i can senses even married women trying to flirt with me, but since i only need women for sex i dont bother

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