"he's a good worker"

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Recently I noticed something very upsetting. An older female relative of mine always mentions this about me. “He’s a good worker.” but only to her female friends. If this comes from a man, it’s good, but my recent skepticism has made me mad. I know women are a bunch of gold diggers, but the fact that she’s trying to sell me like a workhorse to her haven of japing lady friends really p~~~es me off. There’s no other info about me, but I’m a good worker.

TRANSLATION

He makes lots of money.

It’s female code speak. She’s the same one that’s always hounding me to get married and ask about my dating life. I’m not her son either, so it’s not usual parental s~~~. So she no longer even asks why I won’t get married or date, as I’ve already given her answers and she still asked but not anymore. Now she’s decided that I can’t possibly know what I want out of MY LIFE, so she’s trying to play matchmaker. And appealing to the most basal female instinct, MONEY.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

I think you are right about the translation,
“He makes a lot of money”.

Women say this all the time.
Women don’t really care about you. They care about your wallet.

A lady needs and deserves a bigger house for entertaining. And she also needs space for her shoes and beauty supplies. It’s too hard working. It’s much easier to rope and tie some man and extract his assets. They have you sized up, “He’s a good worker”. These gold diggers are shameless.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

No! He’s a good worker! Means potential slave.

When she asks what you do? Etc. Means money

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 54]

When a woman asks you ,what do you do? ,shes asking how much you make. I find it beyond vulger. By her rules i should then be able to ask her,do you swallow,take it up the ass? Women are pigs. If only once in my God damned life a chick walked up and asked me what i like in life.

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

And it doesn’t change even when the woman doesn’t date men. A woman can be gay and still keep security as her most avid relationship concern.

I once read that one of the reasons why Portia de Rossi dumped her ex for Ellen Degeneres, was because her ex couldn’t make anything happen career-wise. There was actually a quote that read, “Francesca (Portia’s ex) tried for years to be a musician and her lack of success always frustrated Portia. Whereas Ellen is Hollywood’s ultimate power lesbian.”

PRIORITIES!

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[Anonymous 54]

Constantine wrote:

And it doesn’t change even when the woman doesn’t date men. A woman can be gay and still keep security as her most avid relationship concern.

I once read that one of the reasons why Portia de Rossi dumped her ex for Ellen Degeneres, was because her ex couldn’t make anything happen career-wise. There was actually a quote that read, “Francesca (Portia’s ex) tried for years to be a musician and her lack of success always frustrated Portia. Whereas Ellen is Hollywood’s ultimate power lesbian.”

PRIORITIES!

I take a sick joy in that .Shame on me !!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

“He’s a good worker”

MANSLATION: “he’s a good little utility that I benefit from”.

And she is waaaaaaaaaaaaay too comfortable enjoying your labor.
Time to make her insecure.

If a woman described me that way to others like I am not even there, I would dump her immediately. It would be like telling other people “she’s got great t~~~ and can really suck”.

At the very most, she is permitted to THINK that about me and she can even acknowledge diligence and dedication as admirable qualities… but if she said “he’s a good worker” to other people as if her approval on that has any weight, it’s time to correct her.

If she’s is not writing you checks for your labor, she doesn’t get to speak like an employer.

That’s what she thinks she is: YOUR EMPLOYER.
And she speaks like you are her employee.

Except…. she doesn’t offer you commensurate salary, vacation time or benefits.

Women make a very critical error in their attitudes and often speak/behave like their approval matters. But any woman who works less than me, fewer hours than me, earns less than me, takes more vacation than me, spends more than me and enjoys eating on my dime….. never gets to say “he’s a good worker”.

“I do not need your approval. You need to earn MINE. So don’t get confused. You may think of me as a good worker, but I think of you as a lazy leech who needs to work HARDER. Being a good worker is what I should be at the minimum. You’re not actually complimenting me, you’re insulting yourself. Because in my opinion, you don’t work hard ENOUGH.”

Men are bread WINNERS.
Women are just bread EATERS.

They are generally MUCH too lazy to say something like “he’s a good worker”. Next to a woman, a Subway sandwich maker is a “good worker”. A man who goes to the gym 3+ days a week is a “good worker”. Someone who uses the stairs instead of an elevator is a “good worker”. Compared to her, anyone who pays for their own drink is a “good worker”.

It only SOUNDS like a compliment. But really, she’s insulting herself.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Women will attach themselves to any man who earns, get married then every year builds capital for her… She can go after year 2 after year 10 but sure as eggs she will cash in and get some other fool.

Every year of marriage he is losing at least half of what he builds, add in what he spends to keep the lazy c~~~ and it’s crazy.

They are natural born liars..

[rorickParticipant 682]

Had heard that a lot from married women.. Ask any married women about her husband and how good he is, the first answer you would get from them would be “He’s a hardworking and dedicated man” which means “He’s a f~~~ing salve works 24/7 to fulfill my needs”..

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

An older female relative of mine always mentions this about me. “He’s a good worker.” but only to her female friends.

So make sure she knows that, yes, you are a good worker…

…but you only work for yourself.

Or better yet, encourage her in this behavior. Wait for her elderly friends to set you up with their younger 18-25 year old daughters (which is what these conversation among old women are all about). When that happens, f~~~ their little girls like you’d drive a rental car with full insurance – hard and fast with no concern for damage or depreciation. And when the little princesses inevitably bring up the matter of their expected payout, look them straight in the eye and tell them: “Your mother is right. I am a good worker. But I’m nobody’s provider.”

Chances are your older relative will find herself ostracized from her circle of ex-friends once word of that gets out.

[AttonParticipant]

“he’s a good worker”

Translation he is a good work horse.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Cave woman has always sought the good hunter.

That is true, and in a way is understandable, as this is the way nature works: natural selection. It used to work for humans too because it was a relatively fair deal for the man: he got to pass on his genes, his basic needs were met and he received care and support from the woman in exchange for proving safety, money and leadership.
But now, the man is expected to provide money, safety, household chores, cook, take care of the kids, social life, entertainment, respect, support, etc. And in return he is to receive the PROMISE of sex, berating, nagging, threats, disrespect, stress, diseases and a premature death.
How they thought that would work is beyond me. That is not natural.
What is natural under these new conditions is MGTOW.
Man is the most adaptable creature on the planet, what did these bitches think?
F~~~’em!

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[narwhalParticipant]

Yea, I wouldn’t let it bother me if it’s an aunt, mom, friend, or whoever that’s trying to pawn you off. I’d see it as irrelevant as I’m not interesting in working for a woman.

To be perfectly honest, I’m starting to see judge women more and more by how they take care of their work. Not so much because I want their utility, but because a woman who takes good care of herself is less likely (or won’t try as hard) to get utility out of me. Besides that, her career choice often says a lot about what people she is around and helps shape her views.

Ok. Then do it.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

It’s even worse than you think. Not only do you make a lot of money but being a good worker means that you have an abundance of a second resource they can extract, LABOR.
Money and labor. These are two very big resources that women love to use men for. You being a “good worker” means that not only do you have a lot of money but you also aren’t afraid to get dirty when the job needs done.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I know exactly what you are talking about. Whenever I help a certain female relative of mine she tells me “you are a good man”. She thinks I am good because I am doing something for her. Men as utility objects. As for asking about when I’ll get married, I made it clear to her that its not happening.

[Anonymous 11]

She’s just selling you to her Hive. Once they get a bead on a wallet with future divorce rape potential, the conspiracy to get you married begins.

My niece’s husband is a horrible worker. He does nothing but sit around and smoke pot all day. However, his father enables him. He pays for their house. They just enjoyed a nice all expenses paid 2 week jaunt in Paris on her Father-in-law. Extract, extract, extract…..

[hdvrodParticipant 1109]

Keymaster wrote:

“You’re not actually complimenting me, you’re insulting yourself”

This is 1000% true

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

[STORMParticipant 738]

It’s a bit of an insult to be called a good worker by a female. It’s almost like when they say “he’s a good guy”. What they mean is that you’re a potential slave. It’s a weird situation cause i had a female manager say the same thing about me, i just ignore it. Just pretend she’s not talking, and if any of the gals try to advance on you, ignore them as well LOL.

If we listen to a female at all, It's no longer to find out if they're crazy, we know they're crazy, It's to find out what flavor.

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