Here is Eskimospy

[EskimospyParticipant 841]

Me becoming MGTOW is something that I slowly evolved into over a period of years. I could tell you stories but that would make my introduction too long so I’ll keep it short. I’ll just say that I’ve come to find that in the minds of too many people a mans worth is based on how well he can live up to the expectations of women and all without this man having any expectations from her, only the hopes that he can satisfy her demands. I came to realize that no man can actively pursue such a venture without sacrificing his own self respect. So for me being MGTOW is at it’s core about a man having self respect or at least learning to respect himself, and to do so without any need for any female approval, that we have this one life and to use it to gain and maintain female validation is a waste of time in that one life. It’s not worth it. But the pursuit of self respect despite what others may think is very well worth it in this one life.

[13-JzzalParticipant 134]

Welcome man.

Eskimospy wrote:

I could tell you stories but that would make my introduction too long so I’ll keep it short

Don’t worry about that. If you want to share a story, do it. No matter how long it is you will find people here who will read it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Welcome @eskimospy. Been meaning to welcome you since you joined. Now Im; just embarrassingly late. You should feel free to tell the stories without feeling like they are too long. They are what other men read and some introductions are EPIC and invaluable. But your profound realization will do nicely!

Eskimospy wrote:

I’ll just say that I’ve come to find that in the minds of too many people a mans worth is based on how well he can live up to the expectations of women and all without this man having any expectations from her, only the hopes that he can satisfy her demands.

That’s a mouthful right there.

I had an ex who once said “I’m bored”. A very usually female complaint. Like it’s a man’s job to entertain her. But she wasn’t bored. She was bo-RING. And that’s what I told her in no unforgiving terms. It p~~~ed me off, because she accused me of “working too hard”….. but at least I never opened my mouth to say “I’m bored”. Ever. It makes me see red when I hear someone say it. “Well find something to do for f~~~ sake!” Then I told her “the bathroom floor is dirty. Clean that. Then you won’t be bored anymore.” Now she’s looking at me like Im a f~~~ing asshole.

Here I am thinking 27 hours a day isn’t enough…. and a t~~~ looks at me and says “I’m bored”.
Get out of my life(!), woman.

I know she wanted me to take her out, entertain her and even lick her pussy but I don’t want to f~~~ a useless t~~~ that only responds or functions when I do all the work to make sure she isn’t “bored”. Then I realized she wasn’t bored….. she was BORING. With all there is in the world to learn, do, see , think and experience, a person who says “I’m bored” needs to GET A LIFE..

Not a man’s job to be the man SHE wants.
It’s his job to be the man he always wanted to BE.

Eskimospy wrote:

I came to realize that no man can actively pursue such a venture without sacrificing his own self respect.

Bingo. Welcome to MGTOW and the forums.
Please tell your stories. It will surprise you how many will read and enjoy them top to bottom.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

I wish I could say something at least as eloquent as KeyMaster.

Sadly, I can’t.

What I can say is that you are spot on my friend.

Welcome.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[Anonymous 18]

Welcome brother.

You managed to say a lot in few words. Appreciate your introduction.

[UntamedParticipant]

Welcome, Eskimospy. Glad to know that another man won’t put up with the bulls~~~ any more.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Keymaster wrote:

Not a man’s job to be the man SHE wants.
It’s his job to be the man he always wanted to BE.

I understand this well. My ex-partner blamed me for her not being happy once! How ignorant can one be?

Perhaps if they got out of their comfort zones and tried something/s they would find a hobby or a purpose, though it is futile trying to convince them.

I remember going on a holiday to Bali once, there was a man who cooked omelets at the breakfast bar. To him it was his raison d’etre (life purpose) to cook omelets and he did it with such passion.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Anonymous 29]

@ Eskimospy Welcome.

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome brother.You managed to say a lot in few words. Appreciate your introduction.

I couldn’t have said it better.

[WallyParticipant]

Eskimospy wrote:

But the pursuit of self respect despite what others may think is very well worth it in this one life.

Wecome! And well said! Like the others have stated, would love to hear more.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Eskimospy wrote:

Me becoming MGTOW is something that I slowly evolved into over a period of years.

That’s kind of my story too, but you got here in the end, and that’s what counts.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Welcome!

Please share a red pill story!

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

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