Help – I think I agree to go on a date

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

I have been taking non- credit classes at the local community college for a year or so. They are all in one subject so I’ve had the same instructor the entire time. We have some common interests and have gotten to know each other. He often talks about his wife and her sister.
Before class on Monday he asked me if I would like to go with them to a Mexican restaurant near the school, the classes are Spanish language. I replied that would be fun. He calls me yesterday and asks if I can go on Thursday evening. I answered that I could and we agreed on a time.
Call me slow but I’ve been out of the dating scene for 35 years. While takings a shower last night, it hit me that he is trying to fix me up with his sister in law. She is a widow about my age. I have no romantic interest in a woman and never will. I don’t want to be rude to them and I could have it fun being with them. I just don’t want this to lead to anything more.
How can I handle this?

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[MurineesParticipant 704]

It is just a dinner, not even a date.

Eat the dinner, enjoy it like with a few friends, and then say goodbye.

Nothing complicated.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Murinees wrote:

It is just a dinner, not even a date.

Eat the dinner, enjoy it like with a few friends, and then say goodbye.

Nothing complicated.

What he said. Be zen. Don’t overthink it. Eat dinner, be minimally social, say goodbye, and don’t do anything you don’t want to do.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I say f~~~ her, wipe your dick on her curtains, then steal the cab fare home out of her purse. Then he’ll never do anything like that again.

On second thought, Murinees probably has the right idea. It’s not a date because you don’t think of it as a date. It’s just dinner with your buddy, and the other chick is there so his wife has someone to talk to and go to the bathroom with.

Order the good wine

[MutineerParticipant 1467]

Go through with it, enjoy the food and the company. If she comes onto you tell her you’re stuck in your ways and prefer the single life.

"The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage." - Thucydides

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Yeah, it’s not a date………and water isn’t wet.

You’re being auditioned, and its a date. In fact, a double date. In fact, a double date that is also a blind date. Can’t be more “date” then that scenario.

Married women just love to set these things up for their single friends. Your friend’s wife will be on the phone ten minutes after she is home asking her friend what she thought of you.

I suggest a family emergency arises……..and ask to reschedule the dinner for some time in the near future. Then don’t

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Mutineer wrote:

Go through with it, enjoy the food and the company. If she comes onto you tell her you’re stuck in your ways and prefer the single life.

I make it clear everywhere i go, IM A MONK. i have a celibate vote, i do not have sex, im not interested, im done for.

i have had a girl in my apartment, not too many weeks ago, a colleague, old fling, nothing happened, im a monk period.

if she comes to you make it clear, if the sister or your friend say you guys should go out or something insinuating that you let it drop.

of course if you want to bang her, hey men, your life, but that is a person who is on your zone of action things can get weird.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[GregB0Participant]

Two Time Winner wrote:

How can I handle this?

Murinees wrote:

It is just a dinner, not even a date.

Eat the dinner, enjoy it like with a few friends, and then say goodbye.

Check. Your intention was to practice Spanish in a social setting. Attend the dinner, speak only Spanish and enjoy yourself. You have not obligated yourself in any way for anything besides showing up and being civil.

If she is included in the dinner plans, it might be that she does not speak Spanish … not your fault … or that her accent / inflection helps you in improving your ability with the language.

Go with the flow and have fun.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 42]

In Stealthy’s words, F~~~ her sister! Wipe your dick on her curtains!

[HermitParticipant]

Go ahead and do it. If she even speaks to you at all, ask everyone at the table if there is going to be a four way sex romp after dinner because if so, you don’t want to eat too much. Sex on a full stomach is no fun.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[MonkParticipant 16983]

Two Time Winner wrote:

… it hit me that he is trying to fix me up with his sister in law. She is a widow about my age.

You are almost certainly right.

If she starts coming on to you to meet up later, simply say No. Anything less invites more hassle.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Go and have fun. Good on you for taking clases.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Don’t do it it’s a trap ! Whateva man it’s your life you do you boo boo I always thought alot of mgtow were one blowjob away from the plantation lol everyone has needs do your thing.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[Knarley BobParticipant 2219]

If all else fails, pass a lot of gas.

OATHKEEPERS, not on our watch. MOLON LABE

[HermitParticipant]

Knarley Bob wrote:

If all else fails, pass a lot of gas.

HA! and if that doesn’t work, drink a lot and be obnoxious. Talk to her with a mouth full of food using a lot of words that start with “T”, “P” and “F”.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[VerusParticipant 965]

I’ve had friends do that to me. Nothing to worry about. Nothing happens unless a man makes a move. Don’t make that move and nothing will come of it. Enjoy dinner.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

If the Ole Ho is Trying to TALK to You about all YOUR INTERESTS, Tell her NICELY how much that you HATE traveling, taking walks on beaches, going shopping, going out to eat, going out to the Movies, Social Media, TV, ETC ETC ETC.

Then tell her that you ENJOY staying home EVERY NIGHT ALONE and Reading.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AttonParticipant]

There is more than one person so its rather fine.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

Nothing wrong going out and having some fun, just don’t let it follow you home.

[experiencedParticipant]

Go, only if you agree with yourself, ahead of time, that if put into a conversational interactional situation wherein the only options are
A) you “eating it” with a meek answer or
B) flipping the red guarded switch and feelings are hurt and you’re a jerk,

IT WAS HER WHO PUT YOU INTO THAT TWO OPTION SETUP.

Basically plan for an advanced version of does this dress make me look fat? No your big fat ass more than suffices at doing that on its own.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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