Hello MGTOW brothers. What a biatch…

[DaveVParticipant 450]

I just joined after discovering this website a few weeks ago and thought I would introduce myself and why I came here. Happy I did find this.

I was married, abroad, very young, due to family and peer pressure, as it ‘was the done thing’. 23 yrs old. Stupid I know. After leaving uni, I joined an international company where I traveled alot, spending weeks to months in different countries. The company paid for nice accommodation, and flights, the works. I loved it. The ex, got everything, maid, pool side resorts, yoga, shopping etc never had to lift a finger, if she didn’t want to. Never pressurized her to do anything she didn’t want to. We were engaged for two years and she knew what my job would entail and the implications, and I discussed this at length with her before we were married, and she said she was ok with it.

After two years, she complained she missed her mum, and friends wanted to go home. She loved the lifestyle with me, but I told her I was would have to leave the company and take up a job with a smaller company in the uk, and our lifestyle would not be as good. She agreed wholeheartedly. She had stunning looks and I suppose I was blinded by that, so I agreed – (when really I should have told her, f~~~ no !).

I moved back to the UK, bought a small house, put down a deposit. She saw her mum and friends, but several weeks in, she started to complain she had no one to clean the house, to do the shopping, there were no beaches nearby, and no good shopping areas. She also complained she had little free time because of the housework…which amounted to making herself food and do shopping for meals. She hated the weather as well. I also had to work longer hours in the UK, and with commuting adding another 1.5-2 hrs per day, I was out the door before she got up (I was up 5 am, she got up 10-11 am because that’s when I would get txt saying there is no cereal that she likes or no nice croissants etc), I was typically back 6-7 pm, whereas my previous job I was back by 4 pm.

In the end, things deteriorated to the point I was grateful to be at work and dreaded coming home. She would complain to everyone, her mum, her friends and my parents that I wasn’t treating her ‘right’. It came to a head, and she said to stay with her mother. I told her go ahead. She stormed out without taking much stuff. She was gone 2 days, and it was such a relief, I cannot tell you. Her mum and brothers came rounds asking me to take her back. I said ‘no’. She left, she was unhappy, so let her do what she wants, I have no desire to make her stay if she wasn’t happy. Funnily enough, my brother in law’s all agreed with me, my father in law was really supportive towards me. My mother in law actually really liked me, and even her sisters loved me and didn’t understand what the issues were.

However even after all that, I was still hesitant about what to do, the ‘white knight syndrome’ I suppose. That was until my mother and father came round and had a quiet word. My father said, ‘there is something seriously wrong with this woman’. My mother said, ‘ this woman is a b*itch, you take her back, you will suffer’. First time I heard my mother swear like that, but I think she wanted to slap some sense into me.

After three days, I went around my ex’s mother’s house, all her belongings in three suitcases, her passport and all other legal documents. Dumped them at the door, left a note, rang the door bell and walked off (they were in, I called in advance). I said,’ this is all her stuff, if there is anything else that’s missing, just text me’.

For the next 3 months, her mother, father, brothers would harass me almost daily to take her back. I didn’t reply. I changed my phone, changed the door locks, put up a security camera and alarm.’

8 months later, I heard from her solicitor demanding my house, car, pension, cash statements etc. I was shell shocked, so went to see a solicitor who told me the truth about system here. That was when I took the red pill. I thought all was lost until my solicitor started to prepare my case and asked for documents. What saved me was my short shortsightedness….I was married abroad, and didn’t register the marriage in the UK nor was it recognized by the UK courts (at the time). In the eyes of the law, we weren’t legally married. As she had walked out, and we didn’t have kids, there wasn’t much she could claim. The case was thrown out when presented.

15 years on, I have regained my sanity, much happier, have more money, paid off my modest house (nothing special but its mine). I have traveled the world with work, seen great places, done loads, met great people (and women) around the world, since taking the red pill, and whilst I have female friends, I will never co habit with them (f~~~ marriage), not unless it’s her place. I cannot see what would persuade me to get married again.

I am indifferent to women now, I don’t hate them, I don’t really care about feminism. All I want to do is to ensure decent honest blokes (from all walks of life) are not screwed and their lives destroyed. And sadly, as I see it, the best way under the present system in the UK, is to have nothing to do with them.

D. G. I. Don't. Get. Involved. (Be happy, and stress not)

[Anonymous 43]

wow

Welcome amigo.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, DaveV
Beer’s in the fridge

[Anonymous 0]

Amazing story. You really dodged the proverbial bullet. Welcome.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Welcome.

It’s amazing how many stories are just a different version of the same one. You make a life choice with a woman, you go through the pros and cons of making the change, you talk about what things you will give up and what you will get in return. For some odd reason, women can’t comprehend what they have until they don’t have it anymore. Then they it all, and it’s the man’s fault for not providing her with EVERYTHING.

Many of our stories are just another derivative of this story. THANK YOU for sharing yours.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 25]

welcome

you did right not to take her back. good for you

nice to hear she wasn’t legally married and got nothing. would have loved to have been a fly on the wall and see her face when the lawyer told her ha

[Anonymous 6]

Welcome brother and thank you for that earlier post about marriage in the UK it was very informative.

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

WELCOME TO THE FOLD BROTHER. YOUR STORY REMINDED ME OF A SONG AND DANCE I HAD HAPPEN TO ME AT A.A. SINCE I WAS THE MANAGER OF THE PHACILITY. ONLY A COUPLE OF YEARS INTO MY SOBRIETY AWAY FROM METHANPHETIMINES. I WOULD SEE THESE NICE LOOKING GIRLS ALL F~~~ED UP. AND THINKING HEY MAYBE I CAN EXPLOIT A S~~~UATION. THIS ONE GIRL WAS A MODEL IN FACE AND BODY. F~~~ SHE WAS HOT. SHE HAD HIT ROCK BOTTOM AND WAS GETTING KICKED OUT OF HER THEN PLACE SHE WAS LIVING. STUPID ME CHANGE ON MORAL ATTITUDES NEVER HAPPEN. HOOK-LINE-SINKER I WAS CAUGHT, AFTER A NOON MEETING SHE CONVINCED ME TO DRIVE HER OVER TO HER FLOP AND LOAD HER STUFF UP IN MY TRUCK. I DID AND TOLD HER I HAD A EMPTY ROOM FOR HER TO USE TILL SHE GOT ON HER FEET. OH F~~~ NEVER AND I MEAN NEVER INVITE A GOOD LOOKING GIRL INTO YOUR HOME. BEHIND THE LOOKS LIE A F~~~ING SUCCUBUS JUST TWISTING IN THE WIND. NOT EVEN A WEEK WENT BY BEFORE I WAS DRAGGING HER S~~~ TO THE CURB. SHE DID NOT WANT ANYTHING RELATED TO OVERCOMING ADDICTION. RED FLAGS ALL OVER THE PLACE BUT NOT THINKING RIGHT AND STILL EARLY IN MY SOBRIETY. F~~~ING HARD LESSONS LEARNED. HOW F~~~ING STUPID AM I???? 2 YEARS LATTER A SEMI-GOOD LOOKING BLOND HAD THE SAME S~~~UATION HAPPENING TO HER, OH HERES OLD F~~~HEAD JIM, HE’LL SET YOU UP WITH A PLACE TO LIVE. THIS F~~~ING C~~~ LIKED TO START FIRES ON HER BED. OH F~~~ NO. OUT YA GO. THE 5 YEARS I SPENT AT THAT A.A. CLUB SHOWED ME ONE THING CLEARLY. STAY THE F~~~ AWAY FROM ANY OF THESE F~~~ING ACCIDENTS WAITING TO HAPPEN. THEY WILL MIND F~~~ YOU AND SEDUCE YOU INTO F~~~ING ANYTHING. SETTING UP BOUNDRY’S WAS ANOTHER HARD LESSON TO LEARN. I LOOK BACK ON IT NOW AND LAUGH.

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Welcome brother.

Your story reminds me of every c~~~ I ever known. There is nothing that you can do to make them happy. They are built that way. Women are the personified unhappiness. Surely because they can’t do s~~~ and they get told by society that they don’t have to do s~~~.

It’s easy to nag about other’s achievements if you have never tried to achieve anything yourself. And your example is the picture book perfect resemblance of the average lazy AWALT c~~~. Getting up at 11 and complaining that you have not done anything for HER… I know that too well. I had a c~~~ like that for a few weeks and kicked her out…

All brothers on this planet must realize that women are now lazy parasites and feminism has taught them that this is OK and we should “man up” do give these ungrateful bitches everything and even more than everything.

We MGTOW give them the best we can: We set them free. So they have to learn how to get by and WORK. And then the next generation of women might start to value and appreciate things.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Many thanks for your introduction Dave V,

You dodged a bullet, learned your lesson, and are living well.

What a fine example of how to do it!

I look forward to reading your contributions in the Forums.

Alas, it took more Red Pills for me to eventually get it.

And now my view of the biological strategy of “Woman’s Nature” is severer.

This video is only one of the many examples of this strategy found in nature:

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

DaveV wrote:

What saved me was my short shortsightedness….I was married abroad, and didn’t register the marriage in the UK nor was it recognized by the UK courts (at the time). In the eyes of the law, we weren’t legally married. As she had walked out, and we didn’t have kids, there wasn’t much she could claim. The case was thrown out when presented.

God I love a happy ending.
Welcome

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 42]

How come I never hear happy stories about women? Always run run run! I guess there isn’t any happy stories outside of RUN RUN RUN!

[JVBParticipant]

Great story DaveV. You got lucky bro. Good to hear your doing fine and happy. Welcome sir.

Peace is > piece.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Welcome home, brother! I honestly laughed when I read that her own family urged you to take her back. Guess she’s such a c~~~ to everyone that even her own blood can’t deal with her s~~~, haha 😀

I’m glad you are free!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[AutoliteParticipant]

DaveV wrote:

I was married abroad, and didn’t register the marriage in the UK nor was it recognized by the UK courts (at the time). In the eyes of the law, we weren’t legally married.

That was such a beautiful part of the story that it made me cry with joy! (Are guys who cry still allowed this forum???)

[AutoliteParticipant]

The Manipulated Man wrote:

This video is only one of the many examples of this strategy found in nature:

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In Sunday school they taught us all about the wonders and the beauty of God’s marvellous creations.

How is it possible that they missed this kinda s~~~???

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Glad you escaped that one, bro.

Bitches are never satisfied. The more you give to or do for them, the more they want.

Going Your Own Way is indeed the best option.

Welcome.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[DaveVParticipant 450]

Autolite wrote:

In Sunday school they taught us all about the wonders and the beauty of God’s marvellous creations.

How is it possible that they missed this kinda s~~~???

Didn’t God create the Devil and all his minions ? 😉
Didn’t they say Man was cast out of Paradise due to the actions of the Woman ?

So if you believe all that stuff….then by that logic, if guys want Paradise here on earth, stay away from women 🙂

D. G. I. Don't. Get. Involved. (Be happy, and stress not)

[DaveVParticipant 450]

Akanbi wrote:

Glad you escaped that one, bro.

Bitches are never satisfied. The more you give to or do for them, the more they want.

Going Your Own Way is indeed the best option.

Welcome.

Its sadly true. My mate’s attitude was ‘treat them mean, keep them keen. treat them nice, get f~~~ed over twice ‘ (once when you put up with their behavior, and once by the legal system)

D. G. I. Don't. Get. Involved. (Be happy, and stress not)

[DaveVParticipant 450]

Nerevar wrote:

Welcome home, brother! I honestly laughed when I read that her own family urged you to take her back. Guess she’s such a c~~~ to everyone that even her own blood can’t deal with her s~~~, haha ?

I’m glad you are free!

Thanks Nerevar, its good to be here.

I have been told by her cousins, that two of her brothers have refused to speak to her since. Her dad is totally p~~~ed since she has returned to her parents home and is really causing problems and they can’t kick her out as she has no income, no kids, and no real desire to do anything. She is sponging off them and is contributing nothing. The only thing she had going for her, were her looks. 15 yrs on, I can’t believe she will still have them.

D. G. I. Don't. Get. Involved. (Be happy, and stress not)

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