Welcome DT. And thanks for joining. Of course we read it. MGTOW always read it. Top to bottom. They may not always respond because your story (as you know) is common, and we get almost exactly the same words from men who arrive from all other cities and different lives – exactly the same way. So thank you for dropping it.
I have family in Toronto and know exactly where you came from… and how you got here.
But here is something you may not know….
When we finally started getting serious she broke it off because she told me “she didn’t trust me”
That’s very convenient. But the f~~~ing bitch doesn’t know anything about how trust works.
RESPECT is earned.
TRUST must be freely given (or not) until it is abused or taken for granted.
When women say “i don’t trust you” it’s a f~~~ing s~~~ test. And totally transparent. This is every woman’s lazy way of sitting back with her arms folded, thinking she can say 4 words… and now she expects YOU to stand on your hind legs to somehow jump through hoops to *prove* you are trustworthy. She does this for her own entertainment so she can sit back and say “AW, how cute. Look what I can make him do.” Never fall for that s~~~. Here’s why…..
Women will tell complete f~~~ing strangers (online or offline) the most intimate details of their relationships and sex lives with strangers and everyone else before the guy they are in a relationship with. We actually had a woman here(!) who did that last week. She came and asked us about how to get her boyfriend to engage in her sex and bondage fantasies and we told her to f~~~ off this website and talk it over with HIM.
99.999% of the time when a woman says “she doesn’t trust you”, it means you can’t trust HER. She doesn’t even know the meaning of the word.
TRUST works like that. People tell hairdressers, bartenders, complete strangers sitting next to us on an airplane (and even people online!) some completely personal things we don’t discuss with friends or family. And why? Because those people can’t hurt us. You girlfriend can. Your family can. Your wife can. Your boss can. Except complete strangers won’t … because they don’t give a s~~~. You automatically “trust” more easily people you don’t know… before the people who are closest to you.
You don’t EXPECT someone to prove trust.
You either trust them FREELY… or you choose not to.
That’s how trust works.
But women think RESPECT should be automatically given to them….. and TRUST must be EARNED. Both are f~~~ing lazy as s~~~. They are cop outs. They are trying to get off easy. And it’s pathetic. “You need to respect women”…. and “I don’t trust you” are complete bulls~~~. You want to break up because you don’t trust me? Fine. LEAVE. Go get a puppy to perform tricks for you instead. You will trust me freely or you will not. Your choice. Or get out.
Simple as that.
So the next time a chick says “how do I know I can trust you?” you know exactly what to do.
Ask her: “How do you know you CAN’T?”
You will not prove you are trust worthy to anyone. They will, trust you. Or they won’t. When you make a business deal you shake hands. Right there, a stranger trusts that you do the job… and you trust that you will be paid for it. You don’t ask them to PROVE it right then and there. That would be tacky. Just like a woman who says “I don’t trust you”. OK then. Get out.
Trust is up to THEM. Respect is up to YOU. As a man, you will learn this – like it or not. As a woman, this would get lost on her and she will get mad – because you called her out, you know better, and she won’t get her way. She knows she has got WORK to get respect. And “I don’t trust you” is a goddam LIE. She will trust some stranger before you, so you get rid of her when she says that.
Thanks for the inspiring thought.
You just got here and you already made a valuable contribution. And probably didn’t know it.
Cheers.
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