Hello Men. Glenzo here

[GlenzoParticipant 26]

My descrip sums it up well.

Been through some amazing changes in the last 9 months. Was in despair before that over loss of family/last wife in a relationship with guy she knew from college who came to our wedding and my kids being around him regularly.

Since then, I joined mentordiscoverinspire.org. Great organization. As men, we need each other and the only safe place to open up and express our feelings is with other men – not just your drinking buddies, but men who will listen to you, father you as needed and push you to be the best you can be/challenge yourself.

Through MDI I did the Sterling Men’s Weekend. Highly recommended for all men of all ages, especially the young ones, so they’ll be less likely to make the same mistakes I made being exposed to feminization since childhood.

Read a book a few months ago called “No More Mr. Nice Guy.” Started a book group with a few men where we would review chapters and see how they applied. This book has helped me immensely, because it gets to the root of what motivates our behavior, and stops us from blaming others (especially women) and own our choices.

A Sterling friend introduced me to Coffee Meets Bagel and Tinder. I’ve had huge successes with them since March, having a lot of adventures that I never dreamed possible and making me feel on top of the world, scoring with a lot of 8-10s.

Now I’m at a point where I feel it’s taking up too much of my time and interfering with my terms as a man. It’s not that much fun anymore and I miss time to myself, which I don’t get often otherwise because I travel a lot these days for a living.

My STBX asked me to “come home” in March. I would have sold my soul for that result 9 months ago. I told her no, because her motivation was obviously out of not wanting to work for a living, which the judge in our divorce case said she needed to be self-supporting soon (Gavron Warning).

Love and adore my sons. My custody with them is limited, but we make the best of our time together

Looking forward to positive and meaningful interactions with others here.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome brother!
I’m sorry you had to go through that, as many others here have. You seem to be recovering well though. Just be careful as she can pull a lot of tricks to make you want to go back to the plantation. Don’t let her trick you and don’t give her any chance to use anything against you. Women can be despicable creatures once they set out to destroy a man. She will especially be inclined to use your kids against you, so focusing on them as you are is the best thing you could do.
I wish you luck and encourage you to participate in the forums. There are quite a few men here that lived through the same experiences and they can be of great help and support.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Welcome to MGTOW! Never go back, especially to someone who is not even willing to contribute to the financial success of a marriage. I’m getting divorced myself. It’s hard. Lots and lots of crocodile tears and “I’m sorry” and “I’ll try harder.” It’s hard to keep my conviction, but I know its over.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings Glenzo.

Thanks for your Introduction. You are not alone. Looking forward to reading your posts and comments.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[BufordParticipant 935]

Welcome mate.

My son is 18 and i see more of him now than i ever have. He came with me on a recent hiking trip i did for the first time in his life. No women, no hassle, conversation was good but not forced or unnecessary. When i dropped him off at home he gave me a hug and said thanks, and asked me if he could come next time. Awesome.

I know it’s hard, but focus on the quality of your time together. Focus on laughing together, that always worked for me and my son.

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

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