Hello I am….

[LuckieLuukeParticipant 9]

…new to MGTOW concept, and it feels so liberating to hear other people saying things i didnt dare say before. I live in Sweden and here its P.C to be feminist. And being P.C is the most important social thing here cause most often we sit and have “fika” ie coffe and get along.
Anyway im 34 and have been in 3 major relationships.
1st The woman left me by sending an email saying she never wanted to see or hear from me again. I cannot believe i lived 2 years with a person who hid their true self so well, she never complained about our relationship up to that point. I did many things for her, helped her etc and i was not even worth an expaination at the end. The 2nd girl slept with another man, I broke up but I was so “weak” and in love with her that I forgave we got back together again. Then she left me for another guy.
The 3rd and most recent the girl asked me to marry her, i said ok. I loved her and hadnt found a better woman prior to her so lets go, I wanted a family. She wanted to buy a house i said ok. She wanted kids i said ok, she had 2 miscarriages. Through the relationship she insisted that something was wrong with me: I couldnt handle difficult feelings. She told me over and over how i cannot understand her. When i ask, what did i do wrong? what did i say? what do you want me to do, say? she didnt know. All she knew was i was doing it wrong. She told me i should sense when she is sad, whats going on and help her. I said it takes alot of time to build such a close relationship and even after time i cannot read her mind, she has to tell me. At least meet me half the way.
She never complained that she was sad because of friends, work, etc only thing wrong was me. She even told me that maybe i as a human being am not able to have deep connection with other people. I got depressed and actually started doubting myself! I asked my friends and family if they agreed with her and they all said HELL NO! what the f~~~ she on about? Thanks god for family and friends. So i told her this is her problem and not mine. And i will be there to help her, lets to go couples therapy or do something else about it. Then she left me. She still wanted to be friends and said this is not something strange that happened. And I was the one who couldnt handle difficult emotions? yea right. If she only could see my pain and acknowledge it. This was half a year ago and im still depressed. Even thou i considered her family she didnt want to fight for us. She gave up. Why even bother? that question led me here. It´s so nice to admit this to myself. Thanks for reading, it helped me just writing this post.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Women always blame the man, my friend calls them lilly pad jumpers like frogs, they never leave a guy unless they walk away with a lottery win or for a guy with more money.

You had a lucky escape.

[Anonymous 6]

Welcome…

Paragraphs are our friends!

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Women cannot take responsibility for their faults or mistakes, and they are emotionally unstable to boot. Women want telepathic slaves that cater to their every whim, and it is not what we are. Do not blame yourself, as it is not your fault that she could not communicate. It is not your fault that she could not find happiness in herself. It is not your fault that she was emotionally unbalanced, as this is a woman’s nature.

Welcome to the jungle.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22514]

They want even more than that.

They demand you know what’s wrong with them, when even THEY don’t know what’s wrong with them.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 18]

LuckieLuuke wrote:

She even told me that maybe i as a human being am not able to have deep connection with other people.

Only a woman could say a thing like that.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

LuckieLuuke wrote:

She still wanted to be friends and said this is not something strange that happened

Yeah, don’t do that. She’s a taker. Some people give energy, some take it. She’s a taker. She’s moved on to someone else to suck the life out of but still wants to be able to drain you when she needs it. Get the hell away from her. You don’t have kids and you are divorced. Here’s how the conversation goes:

I still want to be friends.
I may be put in a horrible situation at some point in my life where I make such a bad decision that when I die I end up in hell. If that happens, I’ll se you there. Otherwise f~~~ off.

One chance, per person, per lifetime, NO exceptions.

Welcome brother.

Order the good wine

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

Those two miscarriages could’ve been her testing you if you were willing to put up with her if bad situations like this happen in a relationship, or her aborting the babies of the men she probably cheated on you with, she eventually became crazier because nothing good comes from killing children….

She dumped mixed emotions onto you on her way out to guilt trip you, she probably felt guilty for cheating (again i make this assumption), she couldn’t handle you being so independent and not worshiping her vagina up and down like a little slave.

The problem that i see here is that she had the miscarriages, she expected you to feel bad and empathetic to her even if those could’ve been another man’s kids, you showed that you wanted to move on from that situation as a “couple”, she took that as you being too independent, took her emotional s~~~ storm and dumped it on you, plain mind games, you need to understand that no matter how nice a woman “looks like” she will always play games.

[MACHOParticipant]

LuckieLuuke wrote:

It´s so nice to admit this to myself. Thanks for reading, it helped me just writing this post

Welcome LuckieLuuke, here you can share and find true friends.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

LuckieLuuke wrote:

She told me i should sense when she is sad, whats going on and help her.

Welcome.

It is not your fault that you don’t have psychic abilities but that was never the real problem.
She was probably projecting her own insecurities and neurosis onto you as it couldn’t possibly be her fault in her mind.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

My way of dealing with that crap is to say “Sorry, I failed Mind Reading 101 in college”.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings LL,

The description of your Red Pill is excellent.

LuckieLuuke wrote:

…..Why even bother? that question led me here. It´s so nice to admit this to myself.

The lesson learned when the same thing happened to me was “My give a damn got broke.”

So, where are you on the MGTOW Road?

Are you at a place in your head where a group of women talking sound like a bunch of hen’s clucking or are they “fascinating” to you?

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[RandallParticipant 32]

Your friends and family are correct, there’s nothing wrong with you. I think she used that line to feel less guilt for doing you that way. I hope you can tell her to f~~~ off. I’m sorry you have been a victim by several women and I have as well but it’s not your fault. You were willing to go through couples counceling to fix the problem and she refused so that should tell you she didn’t want to fix it and just wanted out. You did the best you could she didn’t put any effort into it at all.

[Anonymous 8]

Welcome to MGTOW brother.

[LuckieLuukeParticipant 9]

Thank you everyone for the comfort and backing. It means alot to me and feels great, as a man i was brought up to sacrifice myself for women and not express my feelings because im just a man who should take it. Its so liberating to acknowledge that and do something about it. Everything you all say makes sense to me. It makes it easier and ok.
If i would have read it a few months ago I probably wouldnt have agreed but i know better now. My ex was a feminist (surprise) so i didnt get much room for what men need in this world.

TaxGuy: don´t worry, i got as far away from her as possible when she broke up. I left the same evening, and never wanted or tried to be friends.

The manipulated mad: Im at the beginning of the MGTOW row. Truth be told i look at my parents who are still in a truly happy and loving relationship. I still want a life partner like that, yet im starting to see that it might not be possible.
So since i just swallowed my pill, when i hear a group of women talking it makes me interested in testing this brave new world i find myself in.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Thanks for sharing and welcome!

Reading your post it sounds like you got a major case of bitch brain going there. I assume this is because you grew up in Sweden. I’ve heard nothing good about that place.

I recommend:

1. Leaving Sweden

2. If you can’t leave then beat them with their own weapons. Be a complete asshole to everyone. It’s better to be hated and feared then to be loved and abused. This is especially true in repressive, socialist, feminist hellholes like Sweden. F~~~’em! What can they possibly do to you there?

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