Hello

[sparcsParticipant 130]

Hi Fellas,

Want to say hi and introduce myself.

I’ve been a member since April, reading, learning and growing. I can thankfully leave “healing” off the list as I’ve avoided contractual enslavement, more through good fortune then through a plan or mgtow knowledge.
I was one of those guys that saw things somehow didn’t add up. Society told me I was a loser or there was something wrong with me for being a Bachelor 🙂

I was introduced to this site when reading about mgtow on a Pattaya board with links to Sandman videos. Since coming here I’ve found a huge wealth of information and it was actually this site that introduced me to Ayn Rand (boy was my education lacking to only find Ayn Rand this late in life)

My compliments to everyone here, a very valuable site in terms of information and brotherhood.

[Anonymous 54]

Welcome Sparcs!

Your not a loser.
You’re smart!

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Welcome my brotha

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother!

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 0]

Hi Sparcs,
welcome onboard.
Everything is right with you being a bachelor.

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

WELCOME TO THE FOLD
AND ENLIGHTENMENT OF YOUR SPIRIT AND IVE BEEN A BATCHELOR NOW FOR SOME 29 YEARS. AND HAPPIER THAN I HAVE EVER BEEN, ENJOYING THE SMALL AND LITTLE THINGS IN LIFE THAT THIS WORLD PUSHES AWAY OR DOES NOT SEE AT ALL.

GLAD YOUR HERE TO COMBINE YOUR WISDOM AND TO HELP OTHERS WHO HAVE FELT LOST AND ALONE.

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

sparcs wrote:

Since coming here I’ve found a huge wealth of information and it was actually this site that introduced me to Ayn Rand (boy was my education lacking to only find Ayn Rand this late in life)

Better late than never. I read her objectivism book every decade and am amazed by what I learn each time. So basic yet so hard to do in your life.

Good going so far my brother

Peace brothers

[The SavedParticipant 101]

Welcome, sparcs.

It would be good to hear about some of your pre-MGTOW experiences.

"A man's feelings are inconvenient to a woman's needs".

[joetechParticipant]

If you’re interested in past men’s rights advocates, look up Sid Ciller from the 70’s. He used to write pieces for Penthouse.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[sparcsParticipant 130]

Thank you very much for the warm welcome guys.

My pre-mgtow experiences are pretty ordinary. I was a blue-pill/white knightish sorta person until my 30’s when a woman told me “if you don’t get married now, you never will”. Thats when I started gmow.

I regret the money I spent during my blue-pill days. There were many financial decisions based on what I thought was attractive to women and now in hind sight I shouldn’t have made those decisions.
All in all, I avoided major financial disasters.

Perhaps more than “not adding up” I watched some men go through hell in their lives just for being a hardworking good husband/father.
I’ve also met married male friends I haven’t seen in a few years conversationally enquire about my marital status and kids. When I replied single/no-kids their passionate replies of ‘your f~~~ing lucky” also re-affirmed my decision to gmow.

I’m in Toronto, do IT work, Unix is my main specialization but have done a bit of everything in the past.

And thanks Joetech, I’ll check out Sid Ciller.

Also, thanks for re-iterating that I’m not a loser for being a Bachelor. I suppose a good part of this sites attractiveness is the validation of the decision process I and many others followed.
I can stop searching for that elusive nowalt unicorn 🙂

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome.
A good app to down load is TOM LEYKIS.It is an online radio show and teaches alot of things.Like a radio mgtow.Funny as f~~~ to and takes no s~~~ from woman callers.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Welcome sparcs you’re in good company here. A lot of good guys & a lot of wisdom.

Don’t sweat the bachelor comments/bulls~~~. You’ll soon be able to recognize shaming language for what it is – someone else trying to influence your behavior for their benefit.

Welcome!!

[joetechParticipant]

Wait till one of your married friends comes up to you some day and tells you his wife’s leaving him. If only there had been a MGTOW when I was young. You’ll get so much satisfaction out of turning those guys onto us and watching their wives trying to figure out why nothing they’re doing is working anymore?

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Sparcs

[sparcsParticipant 130]

Thanks guys.

I’ll check outTOM LEYKIS. Although he sounds familiar from youtube, I’ll look into the app.
But I have to ghost a bit and be care full of anything on my phone. Work environment.

BTW, the ghosting concept is terrific. I use it when driving and I feel a touch of road rage or what passes for road rage, I just tell myself “just ghost along buddy just ghost along”
Not its original meening/purpose I’m sure, but a great borrowed mind set

[sparcsParticipant 130]

DorkShit wrote:

sparcs wrote:

Since coming here I’ve found a huge wealth of information and it was actually this site that introduced me to Ayn Rand (boy was my education lacking to only find Ayn Rand this late in life)

Better late than never. I read her objectivism book every decade and am amazed by what I learn each time. So basic yet so hard to do in your life.

Good going so far my brother

I’ve read objectivism as well, great book. I’ve read all the Ayn Rand I could find and then realized I skipped Fountainhead and went right to Atlas Shrugged. I’m reading Fountainhead now, great book.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome !
enjoy brother-man !!!

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

You discovered MGTOW while talking about Pattaya? That’s interesting, if not an oblique kind of connection.

Glad you found us. But I’m mostly glad you know you’re not the odd man out anymore. You are among the most sensitive canaries in the gynocentric coal mine. And that’s no small thing.

Welcome!

[YorickParticipant 32]

Welcome, winner!

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