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[SonicParticipant 43]

Hello everyone, 28 year old from the UK. After lurking around for a few weeks and watching lots of YouTube videos I’ve decided I’m definitely a mghow and so decided to join the site. I think I’ve felt like this for about 10 years but didn’t know that there was such a thing as mgtow until I stumbled across some videos, and I’m glad I did.

I do have a question though, what do you say when someone asks why you are (still) single?

 

 

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

I would always just say “well, I haven’t found the right woman yet.”  Then, they can’t tack you as “gay” as they likely will.  They also never really know that the “right” woman, AKA the unicorn, probably doesn’t really exist anyway.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Welcome, drink and be merry! We are all here because we decided to take the red pill and reject the norm of society…it looks as if you have been doing it for quite sometime, good for you…some of us had to learn the hard way.

To answer your question, I would say “F~~~ Bitches, Get Money.”

[revistaParticipant 232]

Hello sonic im from uk too.i just say i like the peace and quiet.

[Anonymous 1]

First, welcome! 🙂

As for your question, I try to change the subject with the usual “I haven’t found the one yet”.

That usually get the ones asking out of my back.

Just play dumb and blue pill, and they will mistake you for one of their own.

Enjoy the forums.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

I respond with “because i want to be”. The most common shaming response from them is “so you’re gay?” to which i respond with “bitch i might be”.

The only downside to this answer is that maybe (very unlikely) some guys will approach you afterwards. Thankfully they’re guys ,thus sensible and you’ll only have to explain to them once that you aren’t gay.

[SonicParticipant 43]

Thanks for the warm welcome guys.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

I tell them I met my soulmate “the one” in middle school and was too blind to see,now she’s a whore and I can’t rewind time so I just accepted the lost and will live for me from now on.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Hi there man, welcome to our humble campfire.

Depending on who Im talking with, I either am 100% in-depth honest why Im single or I just go the generic phrase “didn’t find the right onel/don’t care at all”, both are true, I don’t care to look for unicorns anyway.

Governor Megachris% wrote:

They also never really know that the “right” woman, AKA the unicorn, probably doesn’t really exist anyway.

 

 

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[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Welcome Sonic. Thanks for reaching out. Hope you find that all is well. See you in the forums brother.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! Glad you made it.

Sonic wrote:

I do have a question though, what do you say when someone asks why you are (still) single?

First off, when I am among friends, I move the subject on to safer ground with some distractions, such as: “Nice weather we’re having! Think it will rain?”

If one of them persists, “I haven’t met Miss Right yet,” works well for me, and so does, “Miss Right left for Africa where she is doing charitable works among the orphans.”

A pal of mine tells them, “Miss Right abandoned me before our wedding day; she ran off with a biker gang drug dealer.” That shuts them up right quick, let me tell you!

By the way, I could care less if they accuse me of being gay. I have run this past them: “Well! What does some breeder know about being a real man!” That definitely squelches the feminazi bitches. It so happens real gays are not fooled, but they haven’t taken sides against me either.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BDParticipant 1146]

Sonic wrote:

what do you say when someone asks why you are (still) single?

Welcome Sonic,

Hmmm, first I tell them that I love my freedom, that I do not let anyone direct or tell me how to live my life, … if they push for more info…

I inform them that I refuse to pay for women to spend time with me unless they are a professional.

Most relationships in north america are just a socially acceptable form of prostitution, I refuse to participate.

Enjoy the show here Sonic

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

If someone asks you “when are you going to have kids” (etc).

My response would be “why, are you going to come by every day and lend a hand?”

The question is downright nauseating if you are in an LTR.  The grandparents will tell you how much they want grandkids, and then disappear when you need help.

We got so f~~~ed over by my in-laws.  Each time we had a kid, they blew off any commitment to help because “we want to enjoy our retirement”.  Three kids, never any commitment to help.  The BiL has two kids and suddenly they decide to become involved grandparents, not only that they will watch them ANY time asked.  F~~~ them, I will never forgive them for being two faced to us – and then do the opposite for their son.  They wonder why I want nothing to do with their entire family, I won’t visit their vacation cottage or be involved in anything they do (unless it 100% requires my kids involvement).  When I am forced to associate, I pretend to be nice – but always bolt when nobody is paying attention.  I will not miss them when they die.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 5]

Depends who is asking.

Friends/Family/Other: Tell the truth. “I don’t want a c~~~ in my life. Waste of time and money.”

Co-workers/Boss: Lie. “I have not found the right one yet. Someday! I been on a few dates not too long ago etc.” The reason you lie is because you don’t want to ruin your image. If a feminist/mangina hears the truth, they will use it against you to get you fired.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hello @sonic and welcome very much.

FullMetalExo wrote:

welcome to our humble campfire.

“Campfire”. Great word.

Sonic wrote:

I do have a question though, what do you say when someone asks why you are (still) single?

When cornered with a question you’re not exactly sure how to respond to without explaining yourself to someone who doesn’t deserve it….. it is a good idea to first understand where the question COMES from. Anyone who asks “why are you still single” believes “commitment” is more important than individuality.

It isn’t. That is a female value.

To the asker, they think being single is a problem. In their minds, it’s bad and wrong. But if you replace the word “single” with “unmarried”, the answer takes a complete different tone. “Unmarried” is really the only way for a man to live and you can feel really good about saying that. Single has the stink of death all over it. That’s why they use that word. to them, it IS the stink of death. They HATE being “single”. But unmarried still leave your personal life a mystery. Unmarried means you could be shagging 3 chicks every night of the week. It doesn’t reveal anything about you.

Don’t explain why you’re “still single” because it’s not a negative. It’s only a problem for THEM.

You are… “unmarried”.

“What? I’m not single. I’m unmarried. Single has the stink of death all over it. But unmarried is the only way for a man to live.”

BOOM! You just nuked her hamster.

You can also reply with: “Why? Are you pretending commitment is more important than individuality?”, and instead of explaining yourself, you just got them to explain themselves. You would be amazed to see what is reflected back to you. Whenever someone asks you (or says) something you don’t like or you’re not sure how to respond to it, practice saying “that’s interesting. why would you say that?”…. or “that’s interesting, why would you ask that?”. It buys you time.

This deflects the question right back to them, and instead of getting YOU to explain yourself, you force THEM to do it. In the mean time, you can compose a response in your head that will expose them, instead of yourself.

ALWAYS leave them wondering.
You are NOT required to answer their questions or explain yourself.

Ever.

Successful people will tell you there are TWO secrets to their success:
#1 Don’t reveal everything.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

I tell them I met my soulmate “the one” in middle school and was too blind to see,now she’s a whore and I can’t rewind time so I just accepted the loss.

Forget what I said. This answer is the best. I love it!!!

Lets color it even more: “I met the love of my life in middle school and now she’s an over-the-hill slut and a whore single mother of 3…. from 3 different fathers, who’s on JDate right now looking for a wallet.”.

They will be sorry they asked.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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