Hell on Earth

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2729]

So I just had lunch with a previous co-worker and friend. Great guy. One of the nicest people you will ever meet. I hadn’t seen him in about 10 years, and I was surprised by how much weight he had put on. We are talking about having-a-tough-time-walking, circus-tent-shirt big. I know he has diabetes, so I am concerned.

After the normal chitchat and catching up, I asked him if he was still married. Last time I saw him, he wasn’t very happy and they were getting counseling. He told me that they were still married, so I asked if they had worked through their troubles.

The answer was an emphatic NO. In fact he is even more unhappy with his marriage. He can’t stand her and described their relationship at best as “roommates.” I asked if he had considered getting a divorce. He said yes, but he didn’t want to hurt the kids and knows he might lose them in a divorce. So he wants to stay in the relationship until the kids are out of the house.

Trick is, the wife talked him into another kid. So they have a four-year-old, 10 yo and a 22-yo that is still in the house. Hopefully my face didn’t betray my emotions. I am sure that bitch knows he is sticking it out for the kids, so she pumped out another to keep him chained to the family. Then the explanation for his weight came out.

He is so miserable, he confessed that he has thought several times about killing himself. In his desperation he even prayed that his wife would die. I am trying my best to be supportive, but holy hell this is a perfect example of blue pill hell.

I point out that no matter how bad the divorce is it’s still a helluva better alternative than killing yourself. He agrees but feels stuck. I discuss other options such as moving out and living with his 22 yo son, or even crashing at my place.

He is currently on two anti-depressants and confirmed what I suspected: He is letting his weight go and not taking care of his diabetes in a roundabout way of ending things without actually pulling the trigger.

He feels he was forced into marriage, kids, and is now stuck. He was thinking about getting his Master’s degree, but his wife doesn’t want him spending the time and money on it. But she wants him to make more money. *deep breath*

We talked more, and I promised to keep in touch. I also made him promise to call me anytime he gets to a hopeless point again.

Gentlemen, blue pill hell is real. Been there myself and many of our brothers are living in it.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[HaymakerParticipant 226]

But if he was so miserable 10 years ago why did he decided to get yet another kid? I just dont get it sometimes… well I hope he makes it out alive and well.

Always going big, Yeah you know the kid, Call me haymaker.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2729]

Haymaker wrote:

But if he was so miserable 10 years ago why did he decided to get yet another kid?

I know, counterintuitive and not logical. But the marriage is so bad and you are so miserable that you start grasping for what you think are possible life preservers.

I didn’t ask him why he had another, but I have been in his shoes and know how it plays out. My marriage was on the rocks. I was miserable. The wife had an affair, but I was desperately trying to make it work.

In these situations, the wife will start talking about having another baby: Remember how cute they are? Remember how wonderful they are? You are such a great, loving father.

She gets you to believe that having another baby will be the cure; that it will help bring you both closer together.

Total bulls~~~, it’s obvious now. Actually one of the worst things you can do in a failing marriage. But I have seen this have-a-baby sales pitch in my life and other failing marriages.

For all I know, she didn’t even tell him she was off the pill. I wouldn’t be surprised.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Anonymous 3]

Haymaker wrote:

But if he was so miserable 10 years ago why did he decided to get yet another kid?

Due to emotions. This blue pill dude is driven crazy by emotions. There is no logic. He was miserable 10 year ago, but maybe, her wife tried her female practices : pretended for some time that “everything is getting better” and the miserable dude felt some false hope and they had some sex 4 years ago, and so the youngest child got created. And after that, the wife has no reason, and does not feel like to keep behaving good, and so, after years, the guy feels miserable again.

[Anonymous 42]

Knock on wood! <knock knock> I can jump in my car and just GO, anywhere, anytime, for as long as I want! The last time I did the spontaneous “GO” I went skiing in Colorado. While I was inhaling the fresh scent of cedar some poor slob was smelling dirty diapers

MGTOW in Aspen^^^^^

Or>>>>>>

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

This is just one more reason you shouldn’t get married or have kids. Women will just add more ball of chains to your legs until you can’t even move without their permission!

Blue pill hells are the worse.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[HitmanParticipant]

that guy is committing slow suicide.
hell on earth is right.
he needs a good friend right now.
stay in touch with him and don’t push too hard but give him some TRUTH .
do right by him,his C~~~ wife sure isn’t ..

[WarratahParticipant 895]

Sounds as though CPT Obvious cares more about this man’s health than his own wife does. Not surprising really.
Married women know all too well the social and economic benefits of early widowhood.
I was married to a woman who quite subtly at first and then quite blatantly advised me to kill myself because of all the benefits (mortgage paid off, life insurance blah blah blah) it would bring ‘the children’.
She came close to convincing me.
And of course suicide doesn’t need to involve a gun or a rope. Untreated diabetes – like CPT Obvious’ friend – is good, working too hard, smoking too much, drinking too much, driving too fast, not seeing a doctor regularly – these are all good ways to shorten a desperate life.
In my small rural community I know of three mysterious car accidents this year alone that have resulted in the deaths of the driver – all married, middle-aged men.
A life of quiet desperation.
Final thought, CPT Obvious – for the love of God, do not share your concerns about your friends health with his wife. Do not tell her that you are encouraging him to see a doc/ take his meds etc.
She WILL ensure that your friendship is terminated.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[FuckMeSpectator 215]

He is much stronger then me because I would shoot myself were I in his shoes…but then again I am strong enough to have never married a Caucasian American WHORE!!! Bubba Z

You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2729]

I was thinking about what @WarHar said, so I wanted to get a read on the wife. I told my friend we should go out to dinner sometime and to bring his wife.

His response was no thanks since his wife doesn’t like me because I assaulted her once. I did a “WTF?!” He told me her story that when me and my ex were watching their kids some 10+ years ago, I walked her to the car, forcefully grabbed her arm and yelled at her.

I told him that never happened, I remember watching their kid once, she came to the house and I was cordial and gave the kids back at the door. End of story. He acknowledged that it’s likely not true.

That c~~~ knows I am divorced and is trying to drive a wedge between us. What THE F~~~ is wrong with women?

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Colonel GaveAFuckParticipant 77]

One of women’s favorite tricks is making a man believe following her word will result in his own happiness. It rarely does, and in the rare instance it does a step soon after will lead you right back down to the hell you thought you were escaping.

[NewgroundsParticipant 558]

You can lay out a bread crumb path but there’s little to no chance it’ll stick, he truly believes he’s on the path to happiness because he’s only doing what he’s been told to do since childhood.

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