Having plowed a share of women, I can definitively say either porn OR monk-mode

[LightBringerParticipant 440]

To finish the top, essentially having hooked up with a fair amount of women, I can quite definitively say either just looking up porn, or going pure monk mode (no sex/masturbation) are both far better options.

When I was younger it was constant refrain about how ‘bad’ it was the be a virgin, ‘loser’ etc. I never especially cared what others thought, be considered that I should ‘know how it tastes’ so to say before I dismiss it.

I’ve had some good sex, Ive had some gross sex, so laughable interactions etc, but every single one had this in common either A: heartbreak or B: massive waste of time C: Std/Pregnancy scare

For these main reasons it is so much easy to just whack off, be done with it, take a shower and get to it. Not deal with her flaking, her stinking pussy, her deadfish sex abilities, not worry about STDs, baby trap etc etc.

Its truly getting to the point I just dont give a f~~~ about them, and even being offered nearly free sex at times, it comes with so many more ‘strings’ that I just am not interested.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

I’ve always just jerked off, or used a fleshlight. What I really want to get are the high quality sex dolls that are made of silicon.

I’m a 25 year old virgin and will most likely always be a virgin. I simply don’t give a s~~~ if I have sex or not.

The thing that kept me from having sex while I was younger was the pregnancy scares/STDs and false rape/domestic abuse accusations.

I don’t need those kinds of scares in my life. Even if I didn’t have my fleshlight, I’d still rather just jerk off than to deal with women. Even finding hookers can be a pain in the ass if you don’t know where to start.

Plus, I’m waiting for virtual reality sex to get better. When they hit 3rd gen, I’m buying those sex toys.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Trollops aren’t worth the trouble. Visit hamsterx or motherless and be done with it.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

It’s always a mine field. At my age they are either complete losers, psychos, desperate, or they have a bunch of kids often from multiple fathers. Usually it’s a combination of these attributes. Only some of the unattractive ones sometimes understand that they need to actually be nice in order to trick a sucker into roosting with them.

I was never especially talented at pulling slags but due to being sexually active for 20+ years and playing in bands I’ve pounded my fair share of mounds. Since I took the red pill I’ve really started sizing up certain situations with far more scrutiny placed on what it will cost me monetarily. I look at some of the chicks I’ve been talking to and see that they are straight up f~~~ing losers- s~~~bag jobs, kids, and no desire to improve themselves- waiting for a sucker to pay for their s~~~. F~~~ that.

So I wouldn’t say that I’ve gone monk mode but I haven’t been trying hard at all since I broke up with my ex last November. They scare the s~~~ out of me knowing that I could be financially ruined just for knowing one. I think about what a terrible father that would make me if I lost our means of income to some piece of s~~~ slag.

#MANOUT

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

Women aren’t worth your time and sex is not worth your freedom. I’m a virgin too and I wouldn’t have sex even if it was a FWB thing with no strings attached. I’ve had women that wanted to have sex with me in the past. I would be tempted for a few seconds, but after making a cost vs benefit analysis I realized that it wasn’t worth it.

I’ve tried fleshlights too. I own like 6 of them as well as a wide variety of other sex toys. They’re not worth it IMO. Too much work and they don’t feel as good as your hand anyway. People say that I must have a “pretty good hand,” but in reality sex is mostly in your brain anyway. If you can look at porn and/or fantasize, all you need is minor physical stimulation to get amazing orgasms.

I avoid women whenever possible. The ONLY thing they offer is a wet hole, and even that’s not appealing to me. Even if I had a free session with a whore, I’d turn it down. I’d think I was asexual, but I get off great to porn and fantasy so I don’t think that’s it. Real women are just boner killers. STD’s, pregnancy, child support, s~~~ tests…..no thanks!

[Executor MaxwellParticipant 591]

Having slept my around to the top of the pile I can say the only thing I find so great about it is that I know for sure that it is not worth the trouble.

I’ve never declared myself monk mode… officially anyway, but in practice it’s been about 5 years since I done anything relationship wise other than to swat away the gold diggers.

I’ve been much happier that way.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

DarkRyu wrote:

Real women are just boner killers. STD’s, pregnancy, child support, s~~~ tests…..no thanks!

True story. When I was younger and they were more just looking for fun dating was a lot more fun, but now I’m a bit older and a lot of women in my age bracket typically have full on baby rabies, are ready for marriage(looking for a walking wallet), and already have a s~~~load of drama/baggage after a solid 10-15 years of the c~~~ carousel.

Sometimes I think about a fling with a single mom or maybe even attempting an relationship with one who at least has no kids and seems to somewhat have her s~~~ together looking in from the outside, but then reality sets in and I just realize there is a hell of a lot of potential downside and not much potential upside.

Executor Maxwell wrote:

I’ve never declared myself monk mode… officially anyway, but in practice it’s been about 5 years since I done anything relationship wise other than to swat away the gold diggers.

Yup…that’s how I am. I haven’t sworn off women completely but a few weeks ago a buddies wife was trying to set me up with a single mom friend of hers and when I wouldn’t take the bait she asked me “What are you looking for?” “I’m not looking” was my honest reply. I’m sure I’ll have more sex in the future and probably even some relationships with a better understanding of what I’m getting into and just hoping for 6 months or a year of fun, not marriage or a lifetime…but I’m really not looking hard for it and its certainly easy enough to swat away the single moms and the c~~~s who just want you to spend money on them.

[KnxGuy MGYParticipant 19]

25 year old virgin here.

i have a robotic, self heating and massaging lower half of a female at home thats 1000 times cleaner and less of a hassle than 100% of women out there.

and i tell them that to when they try shame me. Twerking butt for the win, the future looks bright and can only improve.

[LightBringerParticipant 440]

At my work I have a lot of 35 and 40+ y/o women that are single moms/ divorced (AKA bottom of the barrel) its funny as f~~~ when they try to lure me in with sex and play the same f~~~ing games they did when 20 (bail, act coy etc) and I just totally disengage instead of chasing. “Do you hate me? 🙁 ” sort of stuff all the time.

Funny but ultimately annoying. Really shows women never I mean NEVER grow up or realize what they had or lost.

[MenorahmanSpectator 185]

I don’t even jerk it much anymore, probably once every 10 days or so. I find it bizarre that people are so obsessed with sex.

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