I’ve been physically attacked by females on occasion over the course of my life but managed to keep away from that in relationships; the odd girlfriend has pushed and pushed and pushed to get a reaction, initiating low level physicality but I’ve managed to get away from them before it escalated. I had the opportunity to learn the real side of females in childhood which helped me avoid it in adulthood..
Sister was violent; 5 years older than me, so as a child growing up she could physically kick my ass and did so on a regular bases. Felt I couldn’t complain back then as I was a boy and she was a girl – boys were meant to be tougher/harder than girls. As a young child you don’t understand the subtle and sometimes not so subtle verbal shaming, guilt, humiliation or the control it exerts over you. This was my life growing up and being told to deal with it – the attacks were totally dismissed as she was a girl.
Then something happened…puberty, which I soon realised made me stronger, bigger, faster, fitter and for the first time in my life truly able to defend myself, especially given my new found hobbies; weight lifting, boxing and rugby…inevitably she tried to do what she had always done in the past, one too many times. With my new found strength I picked her up and threw her through my bedroom door, fists swinging every one landing. She nearly went down the stairs but for my dad who pulled me off her. Not a very nice situation but she NEVER physically attacked me ever again after that. It was a powerful lesson I learnt that day, that physically/violently standing up to female’s works. When you have smashed their face in they tend to leave you alone, physically at least. Is this what feminists mean by male privilege?
After a childhood of abuse from a female I resolved it myself, on my own without so much as a female social worker, specially trained police officer, equality organisations, child protection groups or teachers (remembering that most teachers are female). I leant very early on that boys are worthless to women as they are not just the attackers/aggressors but women also fail to defend, help or support “equally” those in vulnerable situations. They discriminate, they’re sexist, they’re cruel and they’re manipulative.
The “solution” at the time was very empowering, but now realise as a fully grown adult what a deeply negative one it was to have. Other solutions have to be found to cope with these females. Especially as I see this situation play out time and again in society – where the woman is the aggressor (not always necessarily physically), towards the male and society just lets it happen. If the man so much as stands up to her (again not necessarily in a physical way) she gets all the help and support. Neither fairness nor regard of the reality of the situation seems to be taken into account wherefemales are involved.
The new lessons I have learnt first and foremost is to never allow myself to be trapped by a female e.g. marriage, children, socially, living with them etc etc. I’ve fallen foul of this though a few times. I also try not to subscribe to this “man up” philosophy as it greatly restricts what a “real man” apparently can/cannot do to address the situation and goes back to the shaming tactics mentioned above.
NEVER BE AFRAID OF REPORTING FEMALE VIOLENCE/AGGRESSION TO THE POLICE, FOR SURE THE HELP WILL NOT BE THERE, BUT THE MORE MEN WHO REPORT IT THE MORE IT WILL PROVIDE EVIDENCE AND THEREFORE POWER FOR THE REALITY THAT FEMALES ARE ABUSIVE ANIMALS. NOT JUST TO MEN BUT TO CHILDREN. STAND UP TO THE SHAMING TACTICS, REPORT IT !!!
Quietlyquietly 4 years, 1 month ago.
