Have a relationship but never get hooked?

[dragonkidParticipant 23]

Just wondering how you guys date and never get attached to a woman? I have a brother who is dating a feminist, met her, i know it will end in a divorce long term.he tried asking me how do i stop from getting hooked? My idea was to surround myself with like-minded people like yourself.I suggested for him to join this site, as an older brother trying to help out a younger one. How else do you guys do it?

[night2769Participant 2]

Everyone learns at their own pace. I would think maybe you were more objective to your surroundings and noticed things others didn’t. It is a good sign that he is asking rather than you making the sales pitch to him.. every man knows what happens if you say something about another current chemical addiction. They say your just jaded due to you don’t have anyone. It was good of you to tell him to change his environment. The biggest step is to change ones perception of reality. Time will tell but I will give you this piece of advise… Every women is a feminist until they get into court and then they roll out the victim mat faster than a politician taking a bribe. It is always better to rent then own. Just my 2c!

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Keep it short. Women work by chipping away at you piece by piece. A war of attrition before you cave in because you’re nagged to death. Keep it simple and short if you have to date, but once you’re mgtow, it’s tough for me to even stomach women. Anymore, it’s too dangerous with false rape allegations and all that.

So dump them and be done with it.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

dragonkid wrote:

Just wondering how you guys date and never get attached to a woman?

I’ve always wondered how men allow themselves to get hooked.

Basically there are few simple guidelines, most of which are things not to do.

Eliminate your desire. This is the first and most important thing. Learn that sex and women are take it or leave it, not a necessity. Do not pursue women. They will pursue you.

Have no f~~~s to give. Do not give a f~~~ what women think about you. Have no reservations about letting them know you don’t give a f~~~.

Do not date. Dating is just a ritual on the path to marriage and enslavement. If you have no intention of being a married slave, there’s no reason to date. That’s not to say you can’t go do fun things you enjoy with women, but then it’s just two or more people doing a thing they each enjoy together. It’s not a date.

Never EVER spend money on women. Do not buy her drinks. Do not pay for her dinner. Do not pay for her tickets. Do not loan her money. Do not “help her with her bills just this once”. No flowers. No birthday presents. No valentine cards. Learn to tell waiters: “Separate checks, please!” so that it becomes automatic. The woman should have no problem with that because you are not dating her. If she does have a problem with it, then SHE is the problem, and she just blew her one chance with you.

One chance, per woman, per lifetime. No exceptions.

No single mothers. Single mothers blew their chance before they ever met you. No exceptions.

Get a vasectomy. More importantly, get the paperwork proving it. Children are nothing more than a giant f~~~ing liability for men any more. You do not want to be tied to a future single mother. Do not let her know about your vasectomy. Let her find out the hard way when she tries to trap you with an Oops! pregnancy.

Always at her place. Never at yours. Don’t even let her know your home address if you can at all help it.

Always take separate vehicles. You do not want to be subject to her schedule. You do not want the responsibility of her being subject to yours.

There’s a lot of other situational stuff like only ever at her place and always driving your own car, but most of it is pretty clear when the situation arises. After a while it all becomes obvious and automatic. The most important thing is always being able to bail out at a moment’s notice for any reason or no reason at all. Having no desire or f~~~s to give makes that possible. The rest is mostly just keeping it possible by avoiding entanglements, legal or otherwise, that might prevent it. Like she can’t claim you got her drunk if you don’t buy her any drinks.

night2769 wrote:

It is always better to rent then own. Just my 2c!

And it is always better to test drive than rent.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

sidecar wrote:

dragonkid wrote:

Just wondering how you guys date and never get attached to a woman?

I’ve always wondered how men allow themselves to get hooked.

Basically there are few simple guidelines, most of which are things not to do.

Eliminate your desire. This is the first and most important thing. Learn that sex and women are take it or leave it, not a necessity. Do not pursue women. They will pursue you.

Have no f~~~s to give. Do not give a f~~~ what women think about you. Have no reservations about letting them know you don’t give a f~~~.

Do not date. Dating is just a ritual on the path to marriage and enslavement. If you have no intention of being a married slave, there’s no reason to date. That’s not to say you can’t go do fun things you enjoy with women, but then it’s just two or more people doing a thing they each enjoy together. It’s not a date.

Never EVER spend money on women. Do not buy her drinks. Do not pay for her dinner. Do not pay for her tickets. Do not loan her money. Do not “help her with her bills just this once”. No flowers. No birthday presents. No valentine cards. Learn to tell waiters: “Separate checks, please!” so that it becomes automatic. The woman should have no problem with that because you are not dating her. If she does have a problem with it, then SHE is the problem, and she just blew her one chance with you.

One chance, per woman, per lifetime. No exceptions.

No single mothers. Single mothers blew their chance before they ever met you. No exceptions.

Get a vasectomy. More importantly, get the paperwork proving it. Children are nothing more than a giant f~~~ing liability for men any more. You do not want to be tied to a future single mother. Do not let her know about your vasectomy. Let her find out the hard way when she tries to trap you with an Oops! pregnancy.

Always at her place. Never at yours. Don’t even let her know your home address if you can at all help it.

Always take separate vehicles. You do not want to be subject to her schedule. You do not want the responsibility of her being subject to yours.

There’s a lot of other situational stuff like only ever at her place and always driving your own car, but most of it is pretty clear when the situation arises. After a while it all becomes obvious and automatic. The most important thing is always being able to bail out at a moment’s notice for any reason or no reason at all. Having no desire or f~~~s to give makes that possible. The rest is mostly just keeping it possible by avoiding entanglements, legal or otherwise, that might prevent it. Like she can’t claim you got her drunk if you don’t buy her any drinks.

night2769 wrote:

It is always better to rent then own. Just my 2c!

And it is always better to test drive than rent.

Great post,you nailed it!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[dragonkidParticipant 23]

Thanks , noted.

[dragonkidParticipant 23]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Anymore, it’s too dangerous with false rape allegations and all that.

So dump them and be done with it.

I am just saying, if you have a one night stand, that has a higher chance of turning into a rape allegation probably. A woman feels used, you will have more partners, increasing the chances of bumping into someone crazy. In a relationship if you break it off well enough, she will probably not file rape, it will be hard for her to say, “he raped me because i didn’t give it up in the 6 months we were dating!” she will also have some feelings for you, and won’t do it.

night2769 wrote:

I It is always better to rent then own. Just my 2c!

Yes, women lose value as they age, a man’s value just increases if he keeps his finances in order, will be constant supply of pussy, keep upgrading.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

And another thing:

dragonkid wrote:

I am just saying, if you have a one night stand, that has a higher chance of turning into a rape allegation probably.

Just say no to one night stands. You should know a girl personally for at least a month before you even consider finding out if you want to f~~~ her. That’s four weekends minimum of going out and doing fun but platonic stuff together, preferably with other people you both know. Because you are not dating. Due to some basic consequences of our biology, women are more reproductively conservative than men but far far hornier. The longer you draw things out and express no interest in her because you’ve eliminated desire, the more she will want you. Soon enough she will be desperate to f~~~ you, and your circle of friends and associates will all be well aware of it. And after you’ve had her (at her place, never yours) your circle of friends, especially the female ones, will all know it and know it was fully consensual. Because she will tell them.

A woman feels used,

Which is why you do everything to make her think she is the one using you.

You are the prize. And the moment she thinks she’s won you, she will brag to all her female friends. because that’s what women do.

All of which is her destroying any chance she might have had of making a false rape accusation.

increasing the chances of bumping into someone crazy.

They are ALL crazy. When you think you’ve met one who isn’t crazy, that’s when you have to look out.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

There’s nothing to be hooked about!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[dragonkidParticipant 23]

sidecar wrote:

And another thing:

dragonkid wrote:

I am just saying, if you have a one night stand, that has a higher chance of turning into a rape allegation probably.

Just say no to one night stands. You should know a girl personally for at least a month before you even consider finding out if you want to f~~~ her. That’s four weekends minimum of going out and doing fun but platonic stuff together, preferably with other people you both know. Because you are not dating. Due to some basic consequences of our biology, women are more reproductively conservative than men but far far hornier. The longer you draw things out and express no interest in her because you’ve eliminated desire, the more she will want you. Soon enough she will be desperate to f~~~ you, and your circle of friends and associates will all be well aware of it. And after you’ve had her (at her place, never yours) your circle of friends, especially the female ones, will all know it and know it was fully consensual. Because she will tell them.

A woman feels used,

Which is why you do everything to make her think she is the one using you.

You are the prize. And the moment she thinks she’s won you, she will brag to all her female friends. because that’s what women do.

All of which is her destroying any chance she might have had of making a false rape accusation.

Sounds good man, sounds good indeed. I will try it out maybe.

[IAmManParticipant 228]

dragonkid wrote:

In a relationship if you break it off well enough, she will probably not file rape, it will be hard for her to say, “he raped me because i didn’t give it up in the 6 months we were dating!” she will also have some feelings for you, and won’t do it.

Absolute horse s~~~. She has a high chance of trying to f~~~ your life over. There is even more incentive to do it after a long relationship. Think about how she needs to get back in the good graces of family and friends. Sometimes daddy doesn’t approve of her slutting around so she needs ammunition.

I cared for a wife for a while(total relationship lasted ~3 years). When she wanted more than the occasional cheat she decided to leave to break up another family to scissor with the wife. Anyways, her final parting gift was to call the police and tell them in so many words that I was Hitler. Towards the end of the relationship she had fallen apart to the point that I did everything for her: work, chores, errands. She slept all day until she was ready to hit the town while I was away to squirt on somebody. I took care of her, loved her, and gave reason for almost any decent human being to know that I cared. Oh and she was the one to leave.

So let me reiterate: the statement that if you sacrifice more for them and in return they’ll refrain from falsely accusing you is butt f~~~ing stupid. I’m not saying you are stupid. But wise up man or they will get you.

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