Has anyone else noticed this in marriages?

[Photon_ManSpectator 47]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

It’s true. I’ve seen women demonize their sons because they act or even just because they look like their father, ya know, the man she married. But, asking a woman to own up to anything when she could just blame someone else is impossible.

Women should NEVER have been given any importance, let alone custody of the children! This is one of the major contributing factors to the feminization of men. Mothers train boys to hate their fathers and their own sex…. To an innocent child the father would naturally seem like the bad guy because he’s heard his mother’s sob stories all his life and she talks about how men used to keep women in check in the west.

Little does he know that his mother is the most foul beast of them all, who will destroy everything if she is uncontrolled. It truly enrages me to think how they trap boys into feeling sorry for them.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

experienced wrote:

You’ve no more reason to be ashamed than anyone on this site, IOW No reason at all. The enlightenment that you’ve provided here will go hundreds of miles to help other guys in the same situation – in other words, All of them.
C~~~DEEZ rely on the fact that men give people the benefit of the doubt.
Men are good natured and women see this and manipulate us – they set up situations where prior training would result in our saying nothing….
Post red pill – Now we say, “OK, all in” and then shred them with the truth.

I have to repeatedly ask myself what is laydeez current price and full cost????
They are not worth it.
They offer an illusion as bait until it’s too late.
I wish I could give you more details, but it’d compromise my identity.
Suffice it to say your “ashamed of”s make me look like a total moron by comparison.

Thanks experienced.

I truly appreciate the kind words and putting things in perspective. I guess I have entered the final stage of abandonment grieving – self admonishment – the “I should have known better stage”. I know this will pass -like all the other stages.

I agree that contributing to this website is important. I would like to believe that I can prevent at least one person from going through the same torment I went through.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

OMG. I’ve witnessed this from married couples as WELL as their parents! No marriage and no kids for me.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

Yeah I’ve noticed it too.

I’ve also noticed that the wife’s parents are generally more welcome in the home. If a woman wants to invite her mother over for an indefinite period, that’s fine. Hell, she can stay for as long as she likes, regardless of how inconvenient it is for the husband, particularly since he now has yet another mouth to feed. If a man wants to have his mother over for an indefinite period, however, he’s called a mama’s boy and told to cut the umbilical chord. And that’s probably the nicest thing that’s said to him – after the laughter has died down, he’s then told that he can’t have her over because it’s too inconvenient.

Have you guys ever seen The Ref? It’s about a bickering married couple played by Kevin Spacey and Judy Davis. In it, Judy’s character had an affair. When the mother of Kevin’s character brings this up over dinner, Judy nearly chokes on her food and shrieks, “You told your mother?!”

Um, why is that so shocking? If Kevin had cheated on her, don’t you think that she would’ve told her family?

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

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