Guess who got screwed in Family Court today?

[WarratahParticipant 895]

In January I was in Family Court because the ex wanted more child support. Judge awarded her a fair sum and said he’d review the order in three months time.
That was today.
Today her child support was increased by 120%
I now have to choose between paying child support or the mortgage.
The house is in both our names. Her short-term win (more child support) is going to be cancelled by her long-term loss (losing her share of the house). Doesn’t seem to matter to her.
I’m self employed. Judge tells me that I should ‘get a job’ because he wants to see payslips. My accounts aren’t good enough.
We both had to submit income and expenditure statements today. Her weekly income is three times (Edit: Actually just over four times) that of mine.
The last three days I’ve had noodles for supper, bread and butter for breakfast.
I’m just ever so slightly p~~~ed off.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[JustSomeGuyParticipant 60]

Perhaps it is time to say the heck with it all, work out a plan to move to a country without extradition and implement the plan you come up with.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Jan.Sobieski wrote:

3x what you make and you have to support her.

And females wonder why marriage is on decline.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[HitmanParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

Reply delay. .
Sorry to hear that brother.
Go get a good meal.
The house will probably have to be sold. .
Welcome to my world. .it can be really tough but we are here for you.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Redpillman wrote:

F~~~ing manginas judges ,always using that kids to enslave men’s

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

hellraider wrote:

start earning under the table.
what the gynocracy cant see they can take.
if you can prove you dont have an income, how can they take what you dont have?
oh, wait, i forgot, ist the unholy court system, youre supossed to turn air into money…

Also, the ideia of doing a forrest gump on the goverment isnt that bad, but you need to research it in advance.
the last thing you need is to come up with a plan when the goverment comes breaking your door down.

either way, you lose.

this is why im going monk…

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Total Lee wrote:

This is tragic. I have emailed a link to this thread to Keymaster who I know has been approached by a child support company that works in the man’s favor to insist she supplies receipts for everything. I don’t know much about it, but he does. They approached the site for guys like you and he recently had a conversation with them. Maybe can give you a word back on that.

Take time out and give yourself a decent meal. The fact that women are just OK with taking their pound of flesh with no remorse is inexcusable. Makes me want to punch a hole in the wall.

[WarratahParticipant 895]

WarHar wrote:

Hellraider mentions ‘earning under the table’ – well I’m not going to incriminate myself, suffice to say that Mr Judge has his suspicions.
But in all honesty I really am struggling and the figures I supplied him with are pretty damn accurate.
She has a Cluster-B Personality Disorder so it’s not about the money – it’s about (my) DESTRUCTION, using whatever tools come to hand – including social and legal.
F~~~ her – I’ll survive.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Total Lee wrote:

it’s not about the money – it’s about (my) DESTRUCTION

It never is about the money. It’s about destroying the man. Why do you think this bitch sent back a check for $975 million and said it’s not enough?

http://www.businessinsider.com/r-harold-hamm-offers-975-million-divorce-check-ex-wife-rejects-it-2015-1

If you make $30,000, she wants $25,000
If you make $300,000, she wants $250,000
If you make 1 billion, f~~~ you asshole $975 million isn’t enough for her greedy selfish ass.

F~~~ing worthless parasites.

She has a Cluster-B Personality Disorder

That’s just called being a woman.

[ChuddoxParticipant 585]

Chuddox wrote:

I hope Keymaster can put you in touch with the right people.

“Civilized men are more discourteous than savages because they know they can be impolite without having their skulls split, as a general thing.” - Robert E. Howard

[WallyParticipant]

Wally wrote:

That is harsh, the family court system is making MGTOWS of men who have probably never heard the term, see them all the time.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

Oz-Bloke wrote:

Warratah wrote:

Today her child support was increased by 120%

I feel for you brother. With no kids I dodged the Child Support Hustle, but my thoughts go our to the billions of men like you who fall victim to this geocentric racket –

#ManOut

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Look, I don’t know your exact situation but if I were in what I see is your dilemma, I would do what ever I could to screw your ex and the courts. It is clear to me that you are going to loose your equity in the house. I suspect the courts have given your ex the exclusive right to occupy the house because she has the kids and you are stuck paying half the mortgage. I strongly suggest you tell the courts that you can’t possibly pay both the mortgage and the child support they have awarded your ex. Tell them you need your equity out of your share of the home to pay the child support. They won’t allow that. Alternatively, you propose to pay the child support and default on the mortgage payments. Either, the bank will foreclose, or your ex will have to pick up your half of the mortgage payments, or loose the house (that is your only revenge). If you can not pay your half of the mortgage payments your share to the home will eventually decline to nothing (but at least you don’t have to pay to loose the house). That’s what they want. They want you to pay the maximum possible child support and at the same time take all your assets. Sorry man, this is the best you can hope for. You should have done something much sooner.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

I don’t much about your situation, but maybe selling the house is a good thing. From the sounds of her, I don’t think I’d want to own an asset with her, especially not a house. What’s to stop her from accidentally burning the place to the ground, just to punish you? That’s probably a little extreme, but she will almost certainly stop the upkeep and let the value diminish.

A house is an asset that can be abused, and she sounds pretty abusive. And she probably won’t mind the hit in value she takes if the hit in value to you hurts you worse.

Order the good wine

[WallyParticipant]

Wally wrote:

That is harsh, the family court system is making MGTOWS of men who have probably never heard the term, see them all the time.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

Oz-Bloke wrote:

Warratah wrote:

Today her child support was increased by 120%

I feel for you brother. With no kids I dodged the Child Support Hustle, but my thoughts go our to the billions of men like you who fall victim to this geocentric racket –

#ManOut

[MichaelSpectator 544]

Today her child support was increased by 120%
I now have to choose between paying child support or the mortgage.
The house is in both our names. Her short-term win (more child support) is going to be cancelled by her long-term loss (losing her share of the house). Doesn’t seem to matter to her.

-I’m stumped by how this could not matter to her. The loss of the house and all cost repercussions far exceeds what she can legally steal “now now now”. This should be common sense.

I’m self employed. Judge tells me that I should ‘get a job’ because he wants to see payslips.

-He wants you to make his job easier. Period. There is no legal requirement for his “wants”. Again. No legal requirement. That’s simply a “want”. F~~~ payslips. When you become an employee you become an easily controlled and monitored slave of the system. With self employment you are an independent man and have 1000000x more control over yourself including your finances, income, taxes etc. You can chose to work less and make less so she gets less. And that’s legal. You’re just another number to him. He does not care if you live or die.

My accounts aren’t good enough. We both had to submit income and expenditure statements today. Her weekly income is three times (Edit: Actually just over four times) that of mine.

-Good. Get custody.

The last three days I’ve had noodles for supper, bread and butter for breakfast.
I’m just ever so slightly p~~~ed off.

-These stories are absolutely insane. Pure evil. Men are their food. It’s sickening. Really sorry for you and I don’t even have kids/exw.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2729]

I have felt your pain, brother. It is a rigged and male abusive system. I know words don’t mean much, but hang in there.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hi WarHar.

This may be premature and I don’t know enough about it to recommend to you with big enthusiasm… but If you’re interested, I will email you a link to a Child Support website (for men) which specializes in insisting on knowing where the money goes. She has to provide receipts and account for it. Based on what I know so far.

I personally spoke to them on the phone for an hour after they contacted MGTOW.COM. But I also don’t want to push something on you, so if you want to use the contact form and ask, I will be sure to respond with a link and contact there.

Really bummed by your story and situation. But if I can do something to finger a greedy broad or save a guy some grief, I will.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Michael wrote:

You can chose to work less and make less so she gets less. And that’s legal. You’re just another number to him. He does not care if you live or die.

Depends upon your jurisdiction. In a lot of places, if a judge “feels” that you’re deliberately keeping your income low, and “feels” that you could be theoretically owning more, he can impute an income to you and your child support would be calculated not on what you actually make but on this imputed income.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

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