Grow up and get married

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I’m sure we’ve all heard this, so I’d like to pick apart just how pretentious, ignorant and downright stupid this statement is.
1. You assume that because someone is married, that means they’re grown up, and mature. I know plenty of couples who are childish as f~~~, petty, unhappy, irresponsible, and married. A piece of paper doesn’t change someone’s character.
2. You assume people that aren’t married are somehow lacking something. Of course you do, because you want to get married and become a leach, so anything that goes to the contrary must be bad.
3. Many people including myself are happy, healthy, well-adjusted adults, that own homes, property, cars, ect. and are not married. If you think marriage will take someone and change them over night from an irresponsible person to a responsible person, then it looks like we all know it is you who are the real child.
4. Someone that blindly does what they’re told without questioning it is not an adult.

Feel free to add, fellas. Let’s make a long ass thread about this, so I can constantly reference it when some dumb c~~~ wants to throw this line at me.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Grow up and get married………..??

I’m happy the way I am. I don’t want to grow up.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

And individuals who say this presume that not being married, is worse than being divorced. See, you can always try over again, and that is what divorce is for. You really should cut slack to those who are divorced… and so on, they would say. Unless the individual saying this is going to bother to try to find a good woman for a man they say it to, that won’t end in divorce, and make sure the state of things is better than the man not marrying, that individual needs to take a flying leap and go away and f’off.

I would say what you have with the divorce laws is a reality that the legal system doesn’t want individuals to be divorced at all, but allows it, but then treats the financial situation (mostly for the man) like he is still married to the woman.

I think a sum of the matter here is: The Blue Pill world will say a ton of stupid things. You can’t keep up with all of it. The only thing is that, if anyone says anything that doesn’t work for you, they need to f’off.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

I’m sure we’ve all heard this, so I’d like to pick apart just how pretentious, ignorant and downright stupid this statement is.

Textbook bulls~~~, Direct from the shaming tactics catalogue, “marriage is not an indicator of maturity and accountability. If it were, we would not hear of divorce, teen pregnancy” ETC

If being married means being mature, then how childish is every divorced woman? If I had time to burn, I’d go around to dating sites and message every divorced woman on there “why didn’t you grow up and stay married?”. That would go over well.

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

They say: “Why don’t you grow up and get married?”

But all I hear is: “Why don’t you bend over and get raped up the ass?”

No, thank you.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6422]

Grow up and get married & your Freedom is Gone!

[Anonymous 3]

No amount of shaming will get a capable 35 year old man to marry a 35+ year old c~~~ carousel riding female.

If women are so interested in marriage, they can marry as 20 year old virgins, the way it was before. Yes, they managed to pull one over on beta males for a few decades with this sexual liberation crap, but beta males can’t make any money in the new economy and men have adjusted.

The stupidity of women is not understanding the patriarchy was designed for their benefit. By engaging in feminism they wound up freeing men from the burden of taking care of them. But what do you expect from women? They have the mental ability of children and if given the chance will screw everything up for themselves, and that’s exactly what they did.

Even if women collectively tried to re-create the patriarchy and gave up all the privileges they’ve gained in the past 50 years or so, it still won’t help 35+ year old women. It would only help the younger women being born that haven’t been indoctrinated into feminism. And the one thing even more endemic in females than their desire to destroy men is their selfishness and refusal of any self-sacrifice. Women will not do something that only benefits their daughters and not themselves, so they won’t ever do what’s needed to be done now anyway.

I hope MGTOW grows larger and the shaming disappears, replaced by sheer desperation and supplication from women. That would at least help start righting things, not for me, but for the next generation of men. That is the difference between men and women, us older men don’t mind sacrificing for younger future men that aren’t at fault for this, and we don’t even hold hatred for unborn females for their worthless mothers and grandmothers.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Blue Skies wrote:

I’m happy the way I am. I don’t want to grow up.

I take your word on that one, $aver and to be frank neither do I.
And here is a fitting song for all of you guys who agree with that attitude as well (by the old master Tom Waits) with lyrics that I am happy to provide:

It actually sums it up quite nicely, doesn’t it..?

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Anonymous 42]

Grow up and get married

MG-Tower interprets this as: Grow up and stick your head in a logsplitter.

Grow up and inflate your tires to 3,000 psi.!

((( Grow up and……..)))

[mp357Participant 531]

we as men have always been cannon fodder, marriage is along those lines, your supposed to just calmly place your neck on the chopping block, hand her a giant axe and you are supposed to ” trust” her not to lop off your head. we hold no sway in anything in the marriage and its quite literally all up to the axebearer (her) to let you live or die in ruin. you have to be either gullible or crazy to agree to such a thing.

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

Anonymous wrote:

The stupidity of women is not understanding the patriarchy was designed for their benefit.

Which means it wasn’t a patriarchy after all.

The so-called “patriarchy” is a myth. Always has been.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22596]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

You assume that because someone is married, that means they’re grown up, and mature.

This. I mean this is why I don’t bother dating. I have found that every adult, and I mean every adult, of both genders, that I know in my personal life, that is my age, or young, are emotionally immature. While they are physically adults, I feel like I am walking through a verbal mine field when I have a conversation with them. Where one wrong, ill timed word will cause them to emotionally blow up on me into a tantrum.

It is so frustrating. Forget marriage, or even dating, I am at the point of trying to find someone that is even worth hanging out with.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Quick short answer to that would be either “Why” or “No”. Or “sure” and never do it LOL.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[WolfParticipant 890]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

1. You assume that because someone is married, that means they’re grown up, and mature. I know plenty of couples who are childish as f~~~, petty, unhappy, irresponsible, and married. A piece of paper doesn’t change someone’s character.

This says it all. No further discussion necessary.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Trollop: Grow up and get married!

Response: Buy a cucumber and go f~~~ yourself!

[experiencedParticipant]

I have……. “grown up.”
It’s women who have……. “shrunk down.’
Guys are doing more with regard to being marriageable, while women have shrunken regarding the same institution.
They no longer honor the vows ergo no point in half a contract.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

I couldn’t count on both hands how many times I’ve had somebody say to me, or to somebody whom I know, “When are you gonna get married”, and all of its variations.

And yet incredibly, there was a girl online recently, p~~~ing and whinging about something that had upset her. This time the issue was: “I am so sick of people asking me when I’m gonna get married.” Naturally, she triggered an avalanche of sympathy from her fellow followers – one of whom proceeded to say (I’m paraphrasing this, it won’t be exact), “Right on sister, don’t ever give in to the clichéd image that people think a woman should embody. Hate to say it, but they never ask men these types of questions.”

*SNORTS ON DRINK*

Yes. YES, love. YES THEY DO.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I will say this also, to add another comment to here, that the “man up” comment is a cop out used by Blue Pill men from actually really finding what their way in life is, and substituting the hard work of finding a real life purpose with the easy way out of a wife and kids. The way of really finding one’s way in life has work to it, and the easy way out is to do what everyone else is doing. I will have a video up in a few weeks on my channel where I get into that.

And with this, I am reminded of the song Am I Wrong? by Nico and Vinz:

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

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