Gref Checking In, Please Free my Young Soul!

[GrefParticipant 203]

I don’t remember how I found myself here but I’m glad I did. I’m sick of how women and our feminist society treats men. I’m not a servant, rapist, sperm donor, alimony paycheck, or disposable biomass.

As a child I got to watch as my mother cheated on my father multiple times across different states. My father wasn’t the “perfect” husband but he was good and didn’t deserve that horror. I have a half sister as a result. It finally ended when my mother cheated on my father with the f~~~ing pastor of our Church. She divorced him and won in every way of course. Outside of her marriage she truly is the nicest lady and appears very innocent, and she’s always treated me like gold. Through my parent’s marriage I learned how terrible a generally nice woman can be.

 

That didn’t stop me from f~~~ing up though!

When I was 15 I was suave as f~~~, the girls flocked to me. But all I got was repeated heartbreak because I was brainwashed by our society that men are supposed to be super nice servant butlers to women. So I shutdown and closed myself off to the world for a while, and watched through peek holes as women fell for careless jerks. Oh yeah and all those pregnant bitches in high school. xD
I completely left the dating game at 16 and got back into it when I was 21, with a realistic outlook. Now I’m 23, I’m close to finishing my degree and will have an awesome job in a field I enjoy soon, I have hobbies and interests I’m good at, I have cool loyal friends, I’m super healthy and fit. But there’s one big thing missing from my life.

I have this strong feeling that I need a woman in my life, a serious relationship at least. She has to be a cool girl though. But it sucks I don’t like feeling like this. I rarely meet a girl I really like and when I do they want nothing to do with me.

Why do I have this feeling like I need female companionship? Can your words free me? Help me MGTOW-Kenobi, you’re my only hope!

Maybe it’s because I don’t get laid often enough?… I’m not a genius but smarter than average, I gotta be at least a 7 in the looks department but hopefully more. I go to the gym all the time and got washboard abs. But I have difficulty picking up average girls and getting a FWB or casual relationship going.

I suck at talking to women, or better put, they suck at talking cause they’re dull as s~~~. I just cannot talk to most women because most women are BORING AS S~~~. They work their jobs and/or go to school, and then watch stupid TV shows in their free time and converse about mundane things.

Approach 100 women and ask them “What do you like to do for fun? Got any sports, hobbies, or interests you’re into?” Most of the time you’ll get silence, or a mundane answer like they have a few TV shows or books they like.

Now ask 100 men this question and watch how their eyes light up and they tell you about their favorite hobbies and interests (If their wife/GF hasn’t ripped them away yet).

Thankfully there are some women out there who actually have some hobbies or interests, and if they align with mine everything goes A LOT smoother.

 

Enlighten me!

Thanks,

GREF

(errr, need to uncheck that edit log in the future, sorry.)

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[John DoeParticipant 743]

Welcome.

Glad you have a job you enjoy, that is always a good thing.  You should focus more on that than your current issue with women.

In regards to your current issue, I wouldn’t let it cause to much trouble.  Just remember that it is your sex drive causing you these problems, and keep it in perspective.  You will find that the majority (99%+) of women are boring and uninteresting.  Getting laid won’t solve your problems, because after you do the urge will come back again, if not stronger than before.  Avoiding women won’t solve your problems either, because if you do you are just suppressing an attachment rather than dealing with it.

When I talk to women, I talk to them like I would a small child or a dog.  So far it has worked.  Women are not intelligent and those who “are” only are to get a higher paying spouse. In most cases they cannot even apply there intelligence.  Women don’t give a s~~~ about anything worthwhile passed gossiping and being bred.  Don’t over think it.

I don’t really have any advice, just some observations.  Just try to keep everything in perspective and not blow it out of proportion.  And welcome, hope you enjoy it here and learn a lot.

[johnconnor777Participant 85]

Welcome on board Gref,

I don’t have all the answers, I don’t even think Cassanova or Don Juan had them all, but as someone older that has done a lot of traveling and remained single all my life, my best advice on how to talk to women would be these three:
1. The less you talk and the more you make them talk about themselves, the better. The favorite topic for every woman I ever met on my life is herself, let her talk. Think of going on a date the same way when you are being stopped by cop or if you are on trial during a deposition, the more things you say, the more likely is that you will make a mistake, get in trouble or say something that is on her no-no list and she will either friendzone you or cross you out all together. When you ask them questions, remember that most of the western 20 something don’t have any actual interests besides: Shopping, traveling, listening to music, partying …. ask about these things.

2. Also be aware of your strenghts and weakness, it sounds like you are in great shape with a good body and about to get your degree and get a promissing career. These are all positives, a lot more than most early 20s guys, play your strenghts and try to hide your weakness, or at least take her focus out of them. Sounds like your one weakness may be your shyness, play the first advice on making her talk, you will look as someone misterious and a good listener. See, you just transformed a weakness into a strenght. Play your strenghts.

3. The last advice, remember than there are over 3.6 billion women, you will get shut down, you will get rejected, and you won’t be liked by many… but there are many many many that will be crazy for you. Don’t waste your breath on the ones who don’t like you, focus your breath on the others.

[GrefParticipant 203]

Thanks for the welcome and feedback guys, it is much appreciated.

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