Greetings from Proxy

[Bob ProxyParticipant 13]

Greetings from Proxy
I am approximately 30 years old and have never been married. I have had girlfriends though, and have had mixed outcomes with all of them. My last was pretty much the tipping point for my outlook on relationships. I won’t go in too much detail because I am still somewhat sick thinking about it. It only lasted a year, (probably my shortest relationship) but it was the first one that I cared about. Unlike many of the intros I have read she didn’t take my money or home, but our break up did destroy my entire social circle at the time. I lost every friend I had either because they were all trying to get at my ex or because they were siding with friends who were. For years after I couldn’t even bring myself to approach another woman or even other people. I am not an emotional person by nature but for some reason this one event made me sick at even the thought of other people.

It has been six years since and I have learned a lot. I have just in the last year started to make new friends and now have my old desire to improve my life I lost through the break up. I am now back in school well on my way to becoming an engineer, but before I found this site I started trying to connect with women as I had before. I started seeing the same patterns emerging things would go great for a while before the women would go completely crazy on me and I would have to leave. I refuse to be in a relationship with so much work to so little benefit.

Then one day while doing political research I came across an article about men who had sworn off women. I thought “they must simply be sick of the games that have to be played when dealing with women, and not paying for it (also something I won’t do)). The article seemed skewed as most articles are, so I decided to have a look at it myself.

I have learned a lot in the four day since I started voraciously reading and watching all the material I could get to. It has greatly changed my outlook and feelings toward women. I would never claim to hate them as many of the people I love are female (mostly family). But it helped break the illusion that I think many men have, that women are precious and fragile and should be held above all other thing in importance. I now see their faults and manipulations. I can now see I have the most to lose in an intimate relation with them and am now able to protect myself and my interests. It has improved my outlook, drive, and even (though it may be too early to tell) my interactions with women I am around at school and at work.

So thank you to MGTOW and the people around it for helping understand my own value and utility. It has truly been a welcome and eye opening experience finding you, and I hope to be an asset to the community.

Pity is the most destructive emotion because it leads to guilt. Guilt is the second. Love is the thrid because it will make you destroy yourself. Hate is fourth because love leads to hate.

[Anonymous 24]

Bob Proxy wrote:

But it helped break the illusion that I think many men have, that women are precious and fragile and should be held above all other thing in importance. I now see their faults and manipulations.

Facing reality on a daily basis is the definition of “Enlightenment”. Most people live within a man made context of Religion, Social Conditioning, Disinformation, Omitted information, or Disney like fantasies of how life should or could be. The first step is facing what is, and seeing it for what it is without added nonsense. Your story shows that even with the article that painted us in a bad light, you decided to have a look for yourself, taking steps every man on the planet should in all arenas, that is investigating things on his own until he is satisfied that he has had a good look around with the lights on.

Glad to have you here Bob.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

welcome!
i’m glad you found the path to freedom
Cheers

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Glad your here brotha!

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Welcome brother,glad to see you came here with an open mind and made your own decision about MGTOW.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Welcome BP,

Appreciate your introduction.

Bob Proxy wrote:

I lost every friend I had…

There are many layers of loss, emotional pain, and betrayal during those “Scorched Earth” circumstances. Sadly, I have been there too many times.

It is bizarre how a woman will worm her way into every association that a man has with other people during the honey moon phase of a relations~~~. Neighbors and siblings are usually their first targets.

When it is over, Woman will often use “Scorched Earth” methods.
Sometimes it is because She did not get what She wanted such as your enslavement and your b~~~~.
Sometimes it is because you failed Her “S~~~ Tests.”
Sometimes it is out of spite, depravity, and pure viciousness which are the hidden aspects of Woman’s Nature.
Sometimes it is just because “She Can Do It”.

Scorched Earth behavior is alien to my soul and I have never seen it coming.

Bob Proxy wrote:

I would never claim to hate them as…

One of the conditioned responses for resisting Red Pills is the notion that facing the truth leads to hatred and/or the assumption that the man providing the facts is filled with hate.

Those kindly old men who tried to warn me about Woman’s Nature, when I was younger, were scorned as bitter hateful losers.

Now I am rejected as a “Hater” by all Blue Pill men whenever I tell them about Woman’s Nature.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[The SavedParticipant 101]

Welcome bro.

"A man's feelings are inconvenient to a woman's needs".

[bladeParticipant]

All woman are the same.tip them on there head and they are all sisters.

Welcome

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Welcome. Is your avatar from history’s strongest disciple?

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Anonymous 54]

We”ve been waitin for ya!
Welcome.

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

WELCOME TO THE FOLD

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[Bob ProxyParticipant 13]

Fermat wrote:

Welcome. Is your avatar from history’s strongest disciple?

Yes, its Hayato Furinji. You have to respect a man who can kick a nuke out of the air and live to tell the story.

Pity is the most destructive emotion because it leads to guilt. Guilt is the second. Love is the thrid because it will make you destroy yourself. Hate is fourth because love leads to hate.

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

relations~~~ & S~~~UATIONS KINDA GO HAND AND FOOT

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Welcome Bob Proxy;

I have similar demographics to yourself.

I am over 2 years out of my marriage – scorched earth left me without any friends as well. It’s so hard rebuilding personal connections – especially when you work long hours.

My ex was a borderline- narassist that isolated me from all my friends systematically over the years, idealized me, devalued me and then rapidly discarded me when a more exciting Chad came along.

LTR truly are not worth it in today’s society.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

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