Good Video

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

However – I disagree with part of this (the first video). I have never seen a Unicorn; they are all bad deals.
I tested a lot of women and watch them all fail.

These videos are for the guys who are still testing: looking for the Unicorn.

Monk mode is the only real alternative.

I dated a lot of women; and I just look for patterns of behavior. Hypergamy is one of the biggest ones.
Associated with Hypergamy is their objectification and dehumanization of men.
People treated like we are some kind of plow horse/atm to get her where she wants to go financially is never pleasant; even less so when the abuse and controlling behavior comes out and they start acting like
we are some sort of piece of property or indentured servant.

Last time I checked Slavery was outlawed back in 1865 – women never got the memo.

Hypergamy – I have never had a date with a woman who makes as much or more than me. I never had a date with a woman who wasn’t a financial basket case: high loads of debt, zero retirement savings, next to nothing in terms of assets.
I never had a date with a woman who had a STEM degree, or was in a Profession such as being a Doctor or Lawyer.

[Anonymous 0]

Here’s something similar from a self-help book by Dr. Phil McGraw.

Not everyone is into the bite-sized chunks of popularized self-help psychology doled out by Dr. Phil McGraw. But sometimes he has some good tips, boiled down into neat little lists. If nothing else, his lists can stimulate some further research or discussion.

In his book “Life Code,” Dr. Phil calls abusive partners “BAITERs: Back stabbers, abusers, impostors, takers and reckless. They are people that will sell a patient fake medicine and are just being reckless with life itself.” He says you can detect a BAITER early on by noticing these telling characteristics:

1. See the world through a lens of entitlement. (They really believe they’re entitled to your life)
2. Lack of empathy.
3. Incapable of feeling remorse or guilt.
4. Self-destructive behavior.
5. Feed off drama and crises.
6. Try to brag and outsmart you. (You’ll hear them brag about the last person they screwed over.)
7. Have short-lived relationships.
8. Have delusions.

He supplements that list with a more comprehensive list of danger signals that he calls “The Nefarious 15”:

1. They infiltrate your life with promises and flattery. (They figure out your buttons, mimic back to you what’s important to you)
2. Define you as a conspiratorial confidant. (They talk out of the side of their mouth about other people)
3. Are focused on getting your approval.
4. They gather data to build a file on you. (They know that people like talking about themselves, so they ask a lot of questions about you to learn about you)
5. Misdirect and maintain a mystery about who they really are. (You can never get a straight answer out of them; it’s like trying to nail jello to a wall; they answer questions not asked: they talk about a detail in order to evade the larger question)
6. Constantly blame others when confronted.
7. They will lie to the point of destruction.
8. Tendency to cheat and steal.
9. Isolate their victims to foster dependency.
10. Abuse positions of power.
11. Know your hot buttons to gain leverage.
12. Selective memory. (They tend to be revisionist about history)
13. Two-faced: Spread lies and gossip.
14. Paranoid.
15. Passive aggressive. (They engage in lots of passive-aggressive sabotage)

As a final note: If you look through the second list, you’ll see that these types of predators will study you and court you and seduce you. For a while you’ll be the center of their world. Then, once they have you hooked, they’ll begin to abuse your trust. It’s worth remembering: At first they’ll seduce you, but once the hook is in they’ll slowly turn everything upside down and expect you to spend your life seducing *them* and giving them everything they want.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

These guys sure like to come up with a whole lot of different “ways”. Probably so the chumps paying for their scammy seminars and books and s~~~ feel like they’re actually getting something for their waste of money.

In reality there is only one “way” needed to screen out loser women:

1. Does she have a vagina?

Because AWALT.

[Anonymous 25]

Most of the 7 ways to screen out a loser are ways to assess conflict tactics, which predicts violence and abuse.

If you want to screen women for aggressive and crazy behaviour, this is a much better tool:

http://rzukausk.home.mruni.eu/wp-content/uploads/Conflict-Tactics-Scale.pdf

And you don’t have to limit it to relationships, even in the workplace you can spot conflict tactics and know which women to avoid. And it’s free (I agree with sidecar), I’d rather give knowledge and help men rather than try and profit from them

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

Anonymous wrote:

At first they’ll seduce you, but once the hook is in they’ll slowly turn everything upside down and expect you to spend your life seducing *them* and giving them everything they want.

Isn’t this everybody? I think AWALT.

By the way, nice shoes.

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