Good evening- Introduction

[WolverineParticipant 90]

First, I hope everyone is having great weekend doing something they enjoy!

Also, I want to introduce myself. I am a 39 year old man and have worked as a controller for a large international company for 14 years. I am divorced, although mostly got married because my girlfriend got pregnant. My divorce was much easier than many here, so I consider myself lucky, but I also think the system is totally rigged against us as you all would agree.

I love my job and my daughter and, hopefully, can help others out here as it has already helped me immensely.

In my free time, I enjoy physical activities like running, tennis, lifting weights, and hiking. I also enjoy following sports, drinking beers, and reading.

I still love the ladies and have been debating trying marriage again, although mostly just doing the pump and dump lately. I really enjoy being a father and find it very fulfilling. I know I will get pushback on that, but it is still just an idea and not something I am actively pursuing. Not being hitched has allowed me to focus on my career and being a great parent on my own, so it would be tough to go back to the BS.

Thanks again,

-Wolverine

[JVBParticipant]

Don’t marry again. The last 3 lines of your intro is one of many reasons why. Welcome brother. You’re amongst friends.

Peace is > piece.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother!

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[joetechParticipant]

Welcome to the forums. Are you aware that for a second marriage the odds of divorce are closer to 70%? Just saying, once bitten twice shy. I look forward to reading your posts.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome!
you are SET the way you are man,
don’t marry and you got it all.
glad you found us !

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

I Look forward to your future contributions.

[MACHOParticipant]

Wolverine wrote:

I still love the ladies and have been debating trying marriage again, although mostly just doing the pump and dump lately. I really enjoy being a father and find it very fulfilling. I know I will get pushback on that, but it is still just an idea and not something I am actively pursuing. Not being hitched has allowed me to focus on my career and being a great parent on my own, so it would be tough to go back to the BS.
Thanks again,
-Wolverine

Welcome Wolverine, nice intro!

Make yourself at home ?

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Wolverine
Beer’s in the fridge

[WolverineParticipant 90]

Thanks for the welcome.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Wolverine wrote:

I still love the ladies and have been debating trying marriage again

Straight forward and brave! ?

Welcome aboard!

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Wolverine wrote:

I still love the ladies and have been debating trying marriage again

We could all benefit from being reminded how lovable and amazing the ladies truly are!
Welcome. I look forward to hearing more on this.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings W,

Appreciate your excellent introduction.

We share a lot in common.

However, when I got divorced I had nothing but debt.

After I got custody of my son, things got much better.
Within a decade after that, I had my mortgage and all other debts paid off.

Eventually, I even managed to accumulate some nice things as well as some savings along with pension funds.

Wolverine wrote:

……I really enjoy being a father and find it very fulfilling…..

Me too.

It kept me “young.”

Going to the water parks and having a day at the beach were a couple of my favorite things to do with the kids.

Wolverine wrote:

…….I still love the ladies and have been debating trying marriage again, although mostly just doing the pump and dump lately………

I was the same at 39.

I get it.

And I wouldn’t let anyone talk me out of it.

Even if I could travel back in time, I’m not sure what I would tell my 39 year old self that would have any meaning to him.

Yes, I could warn him about that self-proclaimed “Soul Mate” who tried to extort $50,000 by making false police charges.

But, most of the “Unicorns” I was involved with after my divorce were kind of OK. The good sex and social status were important to me at the time.

Nevertheless, understanding that the time I spent with them was really a waste of MY time, is something that happened spiritually as I progressed down the MGTOW road.

This occurred after I stopped chasing “Unicorns” and had more mindfulness of the Narcissism that is hard wired into every woman. I eventually came to believe that AWALT.

In hind sight, I was never fully free until I was no longer in any RelationS~~~S.

Besides all of the material wealth, my real wealth obtained as a truly free men has to do with being able to do whatever I want which is never boring.

Note: The really awesome things that I wanted to do with my life were hidden as long as I was involved with women.

The serenity obtained from being free of Narcissists has enabled me to enjoy the things in life that cost nothing like peace and tranquility.
And my hikes in the forests are even more wonderful now that I am a free man.

Anyway, it is good to read that you are on the MGTOW road.

I look forward to reading your posts and comments in the Forums.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

I like punching wolverines in the face! I like telling them to smarten up! They are strong, smart, and don’t listen well though. Vicious little f~~~ers those wolverines.

Kidding friend. Welcome.

Family first, always.

Welcome to the forums.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Wolverine wrote:

I really enjoy being a father and find it very fulfilling. I know I will get pushback on that

I dunno about that. Fatherhood always had more of an appeal than marriage.
Even at 21 I was saying that. “A father? Sure! A husband? MMMMmmmm…. not so much”.

( of course “kids” at 21 I think is way stupid for a man, but being a Dad looked like fun from the outside. )

The pushback would more likely come from a position of understanding that “fatherhood” is not really up to you. If “she” wants, she takes the kids on a whim. That’s not very appealing at all.

In any case, welcome to MGTOW and the forums!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 12]

Not being hitched has allowed me to focus on my career and being a great parent

You have before you a young one (with a dick??) that you can educate, help shape and sharpen the mind, help shape and sharpen the body.
Timeline suggests the kid is in puberty now, so phew… hormones kicking in, not an easy time.

It´s not for me, but if it is for you, have at it.
A father with experience, awake and aware, can be an awesome father.
In that sense, thank you for being awake and aware, and passing on the lessons of your life to the younger generation.

Welcome!

[Y_Participant 4591]

Welcome

I always say to anyone who wants to date and have a relationship that this is their right and I will not say anything about it.

Just like if you took a gun and blew your brains out that would still be your choice and I would not interfere.

Of course next time the bitch you date can screw your life or your daughter’s and maybe put you away so you don’t get to see your daughter.

But again that is your choice.

You have been very lucky so far. I hope that this is not the only thing you have going for you. Luck never stays for long.

Have fun in the forums.

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