Good afternoon and thank you

[JasonParticipant 18]

Hi, new to this MGTOW thing, heard about it from a youtube video from a woman how uses the channel name feminism lol.

I got divorced 10 years ago (at her request) and split the house in two, however there were no kids so it was painless enough. Then got with another woman about 3 years later, 2 years in she was pregnant and then wanted to get married. I didn’t have a problem with this, in fact I was quite excited at geting a second chance. Then the bullying started, criticism for not doing things “the right way” with my boy when she’d laid in bed all morning. She’s threaten to take my boy away from me if i didn’t do exactly as she wanted. Eventually I came home from work early and overheard her on the phone telling her sister that she’d get the wedding done and then move down to be near her and her mother. She asked me how much I’d heard but I said nothing and let it go, calling off the wedding some time later.

She moved my boy away from his dad, even though I could sell the house and we could buy a place for the both of us, although she’s have to work and pay a mortgage. She said she didn’t want to do that as she wouldn’t be able to move away and claim state benefits. So she left one day while I was at work. I’ve seen my boy every other weekend since then and have him for all of the school holidays. I’m lucky because my work is accomodating like that.

I have a girlfirend who knows I’ll never get married. She has 2 kids. I’m not against the idea of her moving in and even providing some kind of contract of what she may be entitled to if we split up. She doesn’t seem to care about that, perhaps she think’s I’ll change my mind and marry.

Anyway, good to find this place. My doc once told me, when I asked about alternative male contraception other than condoms and vasecomy, that there wasn’t anything as “it’s a mans world”. I let him know how much I disagreed, everything is in the woman’s favour, equality + benefits.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Welcome Jason. Grab a chair, beer’s in the fridge. So many slight deviations of the same story. It’s almost enough to make you think that all women are like that…………

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 42]

Jason wrote:

I’m not against the idea of her moving in and even providing some kind of contract of what she may be entitled to if we split up. She doesn’t seem to care about that, perhaps she think’s I’ll change my mind and marry.

[Mister StealthParticipant 362]

Welcome brother.
Glad to hear you are able to still have contact and be in your boys life.

Enjoy the forums and do some reading… remember if you ever feel like you can’t just walk away and still be happy she has to much control over you !

Steel sharpens steel

[AutoliteParticipant]

I wonder if the poor guy even knows that he’s already made himself liable for CS with the ‘new’ kids??? 🙁

[JasonParticipant 18]

They aren’t my kids, the 2 “new” ones

[Anonymous 42]

Jason wrote:

They aren’t my kids, the 2 “new” ones

A couple summons from family court and they will be your kids! At least 18 years of child support anyway!

Don’t be a Mumford O’Crowley!

[Anonymous 1]

The state don’t care. They want your wallet and freedom.

[Mister StealthParticipant 362]

Anonymous wrote:

Jason wrote:

They aren’t my kids, the 2 “new” ones

A couple summons from family court and they will be your kids! At least 18 years of child support anyway!

Don’t be a Mumford O’Crowley!

There is only truth in this statement Jason. – We all support our brothers – Just cautioning you so you don’t get bent over by her causing you to loose time and money on your self and own child.

Steel sharpens steel

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome Jason.

I agree with Tower. Caution.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings Jason,

I know too many men who are now over sixty years old that are still trapped and/ or clueless about how destructive, dangerous, and evil women truly are.

The lives of most Blue Pill men are train wrecks.

Blue Pill men are often talented and intelligent with gifts that have been suppressed to feed the will of parasitic narcissists (wives and/ or girlfriends).

Their situations are often tragic and heart breaking.

Many enslaved men (Blue Pill) are oblivious to their circumstances.

As long as they are clueless, they are like flies wrapped in a cocoon caught in a spider Web.

It is a shame, when Red Pill awareness happens after the last drop of blood is taken and it is too late.

And a lot of men are awake but are just resolved to stay in their “Cheaper to keep her” relationS~~~S.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 13]

Welcome and I wish you well, but two children who aren’t yours and you’re not adverse to her moving in?
You do realise once that happens you’re locked down and a wallet. If you split you have to pay child support.
Also she can pick up the phone any time she’s not haaappy and have the cops remove you from your own home.

Please think about what has been said.

But she wouldn’t do that would she, you feel like you know her and she’s not like that….so said every guy on this forum and all the ones still to join.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Welcome to the forums. Not only are the kids a liability, allowing her to move in with you is as well.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[JVBParticipant]

Welcome Jman. Don’t let her move in and don’t take on her kids. You have yours and I’m sure you’re a great dad. Keep the new one at arms length and don’t allow yourself to be put in a position where she can f~~~ you over.

Peace is > piece.

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

WELCOME TO THE FOLD BROTHER. YOU’RE A GOOD MAN JASON, BEING TORN APPART BY A KINIVING C~~~ C AN’T U NDERSTAND N ORMAL T HINKING. WITHIN THIS WEBSITE ARE MEN WHO HAVE TRAVELED MANY OF THE SAME STEPS YOU HAVE. FINDING WISDOM IS ALWAYS ENLIGHTNIGHTNING. TRYING TO PUT IT TO WORDS IS ANOTHER. HOPE TO BE READING MORE FROM YOU.

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Jason
Beer’s in the fridge
DON’T LET HER AND HER TWO KIDS MOVE IN.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

welcome bro.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[Y_Participant 4591]

Welcome. The world is what it is. As a MGHOW you need to look after your rights as a man regardless.

If you continue playing this game you will be the one paying for it. I hope you listen to MG-Tower TMM BlacqueJacque and the rest of the gang here – you are playing russian roulette.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Jason wrote:

I have a girlfirend who knows I’ll never get married. She has 2 kids. I’m not against the idea of her moving in and even providing some kind of contract of what she may be entitled to if we split up. She doesn’t seem to care about that, perhaps she think’s I’ll change my mind and marry.

Still haven’t learned huh? Listen man its all a lie! Men and women are not partners and have never been. You want her uterus she wants your wallet with the law backing her on her quest. Why are you dating a single mother? Why are you spending your time with another man’s kids? Why do you have a girlfriend despite the hell women have put you through? There are plenty of women with no kids following the “you go guurl” narrative for your pickens. Single mothers are cancer and are only looking for a man to pick up the tab no matter what she tells you. Please please indulge yourself in reading this site more and youtube Tom Leykis on his single mother speeches. This will not turn out well…I promise.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[JasonParticipant 18]

I’ve been on holiday, thanks for the replies.

I don’t know if it’s different here in the UK, but if I own a house I can’t be kicked out of it, no matter who moves in. If we are not married, she can’t claim half my assets and ongoing maintenance payments. I think my ex is particularly bitter because she only get chid support. Had we waited and got married she’d now be getting 50%+ of my earnings too. There’s no such thing as common law marriage in the UK.

If someone else is the father to her 2 kids, regardless of whether he’s paying maintenance or not, they are still his financial responsibility, regardless of whether I choose to spend some time with them.

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