Going Through A Rough Patch.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Holy s~~~! Good advice. I echo Light, bout a month to detox from breakup. In two months, you will look back, think of the bullet you dodged and be giving thic same advice. Stay off the drugs/ booze and take the pain

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

It will get better.
It’s difficult getting over an ex. Our mind plays tricks on us. We tend to overlook and make excuses for bad behavior. We keep thinking of what could have been. If she didn’t treat you well she needs to be gone.
Every time a chick screwed with my head, I would almost live at the gym. Stay busy. Talk to some other chicks, just don’t own them. Hope you feel better

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

It totally sucks brother and here is why. Men love. So much better than women. We truly love.last night I had a sexual dream about my ex. And I woke up yearning for her… Even though I can’t stand her anymore.

I don’t really know the point of my response tonight.

But it simply might be to remind you and all our brothers to know that men love so much better than woman. It’s not even close. I hope that helps you tonight.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Someone here has a profile quote that says, “Don’t forget what brought you here.”

Most of us men can, in an instant, conjure up a little movie clip in our heads reminding us of the events that brought us to discover MGTOW.

When you’re feeling low, and questioning your current state of well-being, running that little movie clip is a real good idea.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

If you’re having emotional breakdowns, you may actually need professional help. The underlying problem may be bigger than the reassurances you receive from mgtow. and no one here knows your full situation and can give you the best advice.

if you’re saying that you’re simply lonely and miss coupling, that’s something that’s normal and will happen from time to time.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[Dirtydog73Participant 232]

Dude,
I know all to well what you are going through.
Listen to the guys above.It is what has helped me claw my way back from rock bottom and a suicide attempt. Im not ashamed to say it.i was bad. I felt worthless…I raged.I didn’t know how to handle s~~~.
Learning to let go is a huge process.I am nearly 3 months in my relationship breakup of 22 years with the same woman.I was in Blue pill heaven. She cheated on me. said she didn’t love me anymore.I kicked her out.Hardest thing I’ve ever had to do in my life.and I have done some f~~~ing hard things in my days.
One chick.One chance per lifetime.
I have had to swallow the bitter red pill and get through this.
I’ve cried,I’ve screamed at the ocean on the beach at dawn, I’ve lost weight from not eating,I’ve been mired down feeling helpless and hopelessness.Emotional breakdowns,you name it.Men aren’t built for this s~~~.I had a lot to learn very quickly. You do as well.
I am starting to get better.It is all from a lot of these guys on here and just reading,reading,reading and taking it in.Venting.Raging.Processing.
Get off the weed dude.NOW. Start a solid routine.Get a dog ,walk it every morning .Lift,exercise, Sauna.Best things I found .
Learn the process of letting go. Realize they arent worth it and that life is to be lived.

Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Hey Mr. Young. Let me share a story with you just so that I could uplift your mood.

Its a very real and embarrassing story.

Back in my school days, when I was 17, I was really sexually active
… right at school… I would always sit behind a chick and look at her curves. It was the perfect solution to tolerate a boring afternoon physics class.

One day, I was caught staring by the professor; she asked me to stand up.

Now you know when you have a boner you can’t really stand up. So I put my hand in my pocket and tried to strap my dick to the elastic belt of my underwear.

The teacher noticed me putting my hands in my pocket… and.. apparently she thought I was trying to hide something.

So she came over to where I was sitting (I had successfully adjusted myself by then) and shouted “Stand Up!”

I stood up hesitantly (lest my boner would slip) and she put his hands in my pocket.

Right at that moment, my dick slipped and there I was with a boner and the professor’s hand in pocket.

The whole class started laughing and jeering. The poor professor (his name was Monica ma’am) left the room as quickly as she could!!

It was a really embarrassing incident and the jeers lasted for 2-3 months. I was never as embarrassed in life…and I think so was she.

Just thought this would cheer you up. If I lived through that moment, you can live through this one too.

Think of your situation like this: the point you’re at now, that might be one of the reasons only a few men can truly become MGTOW.

I will be honest and say I do not know what its like to miss an ex because I never really got that much involved with mine.

But hey! You will be such a great inspiration to all of us younger guys if you successfully come out a better man. That, in itself, is a great test of perseverance which you will pass.

Listen to this song. It has helped me a lot at my lowest moments. Hope it’ll help you too.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

Thank you so much for the support guys.

I try my best to just look at my old forums so it won’t seem like I’m just looking for attention like some facebook whore, but you guys don’t care about that anyways. It seems no matter how many times I fall down you are all already having your hands extended out to pick me back up again.

Today I tried out a new hobby and was extremely nervous, because my recent self esteem issues. Honestly, I’m so glad I went out today. It showed me how easy it is for me to make new friends when I go out by myself. Not only that, but I’ve found a decent new hobby that’s a lot of fun: AIRSOFT SKIRMISHES.

I think this is a great first step for getting back in the game. Thanks again.

PS: Boner story did cheer me up. A lot. LOL

Brother, we need to stick together.

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